took me 2months to get over my ex,
i got the system down packed
i've done the same thing.... I lost the women i thought i would marry.. literally the same type of timing as you... and we were fucking living together still...
for 2 whole months after breaking up...we fucking lived together... I had to see that bitch everyday for 2 whole months...
I did exactly what trinijuice did..
1) Deleted her off facebook, untagged any pics we had together, remove her from all other social media.. delete anything off my PC that has anything to do with her..... delete music delete fucking everything and anything that had to do with that bitch..
2) i dont do drugs or really abuse OTC.. but i'd have to wake up in the same house with this bitch for the first 2 months of us being broken up...because of financial reasons i was fucked...but i kept strong and just moved on with my life.. if i woke up early..... id have a schedule... regardless of what time i wake up.. im going to the gym and doing 30 mins of cardio.. then imma make food, then im gonna etc etc etc... KEEEP BUSY
3) I TALKED ABOUT IT WITH EVERYONE WHO WOULD FUCKING LISTEN. at work, when i'd visit my parents ( moms are always the best for this.. they talk mad shit haha ) WHO THE FUCK EVER
most importantly man don't push your feelings away... dont run away from them.. your going to grow into a way better, stronger, more self sufficient, fucking adult....get thru it, dont run from it...
now 7 months later.. i fucking kid you not... my ex.. who i swore i couldn't live with out.. that it would be the end of me... if i wasn't with her..
1) Shes texting me apologizing, and calling me and saying i just want you to know how much i loved you (while shes crying on the phone because she can't get over me)
THIS LITERALLY HAPPENED YESTERDAY --- and shes asking me how can it be so easy for me to get over it...
2) she gossips to her little girlfriends when she sees me with this new girl who, we aren't very serious but we are together... and wondering how the hell i could move on and be happy
3) moral of the story.. it wasn't easy, it was a struggle... i was completely lost... i talked about it, i shared about it, i cried, i did what i had to get over it... and 7 months later... I can literally see this girl... and not have that feeling in my stomach like "OMG I FUCKING MISS YOU IDK HOW IM LIVING WITHOUT YOU" feelings ya know?