Anyone else having a difficult time being monogamous on TRT?

[cjw2021]

i dont want any of you thinking that banging a girl more than 2-3 times a week is healthy for her. it drains the parasympathetic nervous system energy...hormones are secreted during orgasm, prolactin raises. Imagine if you tried busting a nut 3-5 times a week before getting on TRT. you wouldn't even get out of bed. Do this at a high rate constantly and it creates problems. Whenever i'm with a girl i always want to do shit but I have to keep this in mind if you want them to last. they will develop problems if you do this long enough at a high enough rate. 1-3 times a week can be good. 3 is even stretching it really. i vote 1-2 to keep her healthy. lower your damn test dose if you are that much of a horn dog. start at 100mg a week. i'm not speaking to any one person here just everyone. If you have that much energy where you have to constantly be putting your dick in something your test dose is probably too high.

 

[MoparMuscle]

I don't buy into that --/\-- at all. Never will. I've always been a 7 times a week guy, always will be (long as I'm able). Granted if sometimes it's a BJ or HJ given by the wife but regardless I get off 1-2 times every day. I'm sure some men can't handle it just like some men can't ever lift 600lb or run several miles, it's genetics.

 

[transcend2007]

I don't think sex can be scheduled like workouts. No 3 day on 1 day off routine. Like HTR I also believe it's a very individual preference and changes over time. I never mentioned in this thread sex frequency but rather the topic of mismatched desire to have sex more than a monogamous partner and how to handle the discrepancy.

I now believe having preplanned ways of dealing with my sexual energy will be the key to my solution. Instead of heading for strip club and massage parlor when I get the urge I am going to channel it into planning an elaborate date with my wife. I am going to work on writing more love letters like I use to, being kinder, and more loving. I have come to understand recently that it is my responsibility to stoke the fire of her desire outside the bedroom to a much great extent than I have been doing.

Wish me luck and let me know if any of you have other ideas of keeping romance alive and thriving.

 

[grilla_b]

best of luck bro. I know how it is to try and get them in the mood.

When i first met my wife we would bang every chance we got. Now we've been married for 6 years and have a kid... we're both real busy it's totally different.

When I want sex i want it right then lol. I've learned it's better if you get their head in the right place first... it ain't easy... they make us work for it