Feel unwell and confused

[buildingpaul]

I am trying to type away here secretly! I am 37 and have been with my girlfriend over 5 years. She is very understanding towards me as I suffer from anxiety/agoraphobia. Also lately when I got my Test results back at 10.7 (340) my sex drive has been not the best. Well the other week I got in touch on Facebook with a girl I have known for years. I secretly met up with her telling my girlfriend I was meeting my mates......Well one thing led to another and ended up having sex with her. Anyway I have been over to her place twice since and had sex again on both of these times. She thinks I have split with my girlfriend (I told her that!) and that I am getting my own place....... I am really stuck now as I feel confused.....Am I happy living with my girlfriend, I really don't know the answer to this although the feeling of not having her in my life makes me feel anxious. I don't know if I should just get a place of my own.....I feel a bit unwell too as I have a bad cold which I don't think helps.......What do I do??!! Few things.....I am 37 with a 13 year old daughter I see every other weekend and at present I am not working. My Girlfriend has 3 kids....19, 16 and 13 all by previous blokes....She has just turned 41. Girl I have met on Facebook....32 years old, 2 kids aged 14 and 3 years old.

Thought this thread should belong in this section of the forum!!

 

[tjkita]

trouble

Any chance of a 3 some mate??? That would be ideal!!! As far as your situation goes, I think only you can answer the question of who you really love. Honesty is the best policy and you will eventually get caught and then ruin 2 lives, not to mention the kids. I'm no doctor Phil but why did u and your ex facebook girl split up?? Are those issues still there or unresolved?

 

[mdportorock]

that's a tough one bro. I don't have the answer you're looking but good luck.

 

[Georgia]

How would you like it if she was doing that to you? Break up with your girlfriend. She deserves at least that much. Doesn't sound like you're into her as much as the new girl. Go for the new girl!

 

[Smilee21]

Sticky situation :/

 

[lifter85]

How would you like it if she was doing that to you? Break up with your girlfriend. She deserves at least that much. Doesn't sound like you're into her as much as the new girl. Go for the new girl!

Hard to hear, but this is correct.

 

[PaiN iiS pLeasuRE]

how would you like it if she was doing that to you? Break up with your girlfriend. She deserves at least that much. Doesn't sound like you're into her as much as the new girl. Go for the new girl!

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