my wife and i had a conversation last night about anal foreplay. she want to try it but it very timid about the whole experience.( and before any of you guys let your heads get to far ahead of yourselves... she want me to play with her ass to see if she like anal or not) so is there any particular way that any of you ladies would recommend going about this? she is willing to allow me to try what ever but i don't want to start to eager and blow the whole deal. please give you advice.....