Girlfriend gained weight...

[MiniMike]

Aright, I'm not tryng to be an asshole... but my gf of a few years gained 35 lbs. She used to be this hot little piece of ass, but now things are differant. I mean, I still love her, but how do I get her to get to the gym and eat right. Worst part is we are apart at school now so I cant invite her along to workout with me or help her or anything... what should I do? I know I cant say anything to her that even resembles me thinking about her being fat, so what do I do?

 

[Die$eL~Man]

Dump her ass !

 

[xtinct]

Dump her. I am serious about that, too. Once you try to change the way someone is, that's where all the problems start. If she doesn't do it on her own (get her ass back in shape, that is) then you must make a decision: do you still like her the way she is now? But I think you already answered that...so dump her.

 

[steel59]

Before you dump her... Try this... It's acctually worked for me before... Talk non-stop about the gym... Tell her how good you are eating... How you keep looking better in the mirror... How you are running and doing cardio everyday.... how you work out alone in your room just doing endless amounts of Ab work...

It's actually good that she isn't with you all the time cause of the school thing.... It's phcycological... she will wonder why you are trying so hard and feel that there may be competition... She will then start to ask you things that she could do to get into better shape... DON'T TELL HER TO DO SHIT BEFORE SHE ASKS... She will want to on her own cause you are SOOOO into this lifestyle of fitness.... When she asks just tell her the basics, take it slow tell her to do some cardio, eat healthier and teach her a few leg movements.... tell her how hot legs turn you on... and she will do them I gauruntee it, unless she doesn't care about you anymore. Keep it simple and let her take you down the path.. You'll be able to sculpt her body in less then a year exactly how you want...

Only do this if you love her... if not go bang some hot little piece that wants it.

 

[FATMEXICAN]

Aright, I'm not tryng to be an asshole... but my gf of a few years gained 35 lbs. She used to be this hot little piece of ass, but now things are differant. I mean, I still love her, but how do I get her to get to the gym and eat right. Worst part is we are apart at school now so I cant invite her along to workout with me or help her or anything... what should I do? I know I cant say anything to her that even resembles me thinking about her being fat, so what do I do?

Is does not matter what you think It is how she feels, ask her but ask nice.

Oh just think she is fat now. Just think if you get her pregnant thats another 40 pounds. DAMN.

Oh Well you love her. Thats all that matters.

 

[chidoks]

^^^ he never said he loved her

 

[syko]

but beware bro! i know this from experience........

i dated a chick in highschool for couple months, she was a fine piece of ass....started getting chunky and being the known jock around the school, i decided it cramped my style....so i dumped her just before the summer break....she came back in the fall looking hotter than ever....refused to go back out with me....

 

[FATMEXICAN]

^^^ he never said he loved her

Read it again DUDE

 

[Chips]

I tell my girl straight up! I would hope she would tell me if she thought I was getting fat.

 

[Mike Biggun]

I would tell her too, but don't just come out and say "fuck, you got fat". My ex put on weight, my mates started calling her Mcdonalds ass and KFC legs. This bothered me and she was starting to look unattractive, so I asked her if she had noticed her increase in weight. She said she did and she was desperate to do something about it. Turns out she wasn't desperate to do owt about it, so i dumped the fat bitch and rammed her best mate a couple just for good measure.

 

[Chips]

I would tell her too, but don't just come out and say "fuck, you got fat".

Exactly

 

[Goat Ass]

Well lets put it this way. She knows she gained 35lbs, and she probably feels bad about it. Try to hint here and there and see if she takes the bait. If not you may need to be more direct. If that doesn't work then you are screwed.

 

[bula]

monogamous relationships require the partners to remain attractive to each other -- that's the least you can ask for giving her your faithfullness. She should not be entitled to both (pigging out and keeping you on a leash).

Sadly, we are animals by nature. Men were not built physically or mentally for one partner. We were designed to screw and screw and screw to maintain the species. You can't help it. It's our nature.

Ok enough with the left brain talk. Sorry. But facts are facts. If she wants you to remain faithful or stick around, she needs to do her part. She owes you that. If not, say farewell.

 

[Redman]

Yo send her to me I love chubby chicks!!

 

[thepriest]

You said she is away at school. I am wondering if she is a FRESHMAN???? If so, many , many years ago when I was in college it was not unheard of for the Freshman 40 to get many a girl. You kids are not used to being away from home and you start to eat crap! Usually they would shed the weight by the sophmore or Junior year and end up being Twice as hot as before! Just my 2cents!

 

[TurboLifter]

Sounds like my buddy. His GF used to be a cute piece of ass...I used to mess around with her before they went out actually. In the passed year and a half she has fucking become a whale. So has he, they are the laziest people I have ever seen , it makes me sick. I hate people like that, how do you do that to yourself?