when i was 110 pounds, i didn't bother with legs/calf workouts and stayed with upper body until friends noticed my legs/calf lacking...
so I trained them without looking at them in the mirror.....
i just kept on training....tried various techniques.....most of it you already know and heard.
bro, i've been in your shoes and no, i am not saying I have a big calves nor a good genetics of it...but...what I am saying is that...don't complain and just keep working then. sure, you've heard a lot of it...but keep going...seriously...
also, pics of your calves or vids of your workouts...that would help