lol... I know there's no magic pill. Trust me. That's why I came on here to ask about HCG. It sounds too good to be true. I read the Dr.s research and it "sounds" legit, and there are tons of people that swear to it, and tons of people that says its a scam. But I was reading about it breaking down bf and using those calories as suppliment to the 500 cals you are intaking. As for the people with certs that can't lift a box of tissues... lmao.. I'm with ya on that one. Saw some people that took a weekend class, got a piece of paper, and their own form was so shitty, how the HELL could they train others. Matter of fact, completely off subject, but back in "the day" my husband and I couldnt train together. I'd bitch about his form, and he'd wind up throwing 45lb plates because i pissed him off so much... (God, those were some funny times.) I know size doesnt matter, it's bf. I'm lucky. When I drop size (clothes) the bf goes right along with it. I got really lucky. I've got great skin elasticity and no stretch marks 4 kiddies later. (We've retired the baby making machine.) lol... I'm 36, 5'6, 127ish. (Lately my weight has been fluctuating almost 5 lbs in a day or two's time), which is NOT cool at all. I'm leaving April 16th. As for the meds i'm on... the Lamictal (anti seizure) is supposed to make you lose weight, as well as the Wellbutrin (the old quit smoking pill), and I don't think Xanex really does too much for weight gain either way. I am my Dr's worst nightmare because I won't take anything that has weight gain as a side effect. Trust me. We've done A LOT of experiments with different meds. Matter of fact, the reason why I want to drop the 10lbs is because he got this bright idea to throw Ambilify into my med mix instead of upping them and I gained 10 lbs in a month and basically wanted to walk out of his office holding his decapitated head... lol.... Again, as stated, I can't take stuff like clen because it amps me up. It wasnt bad (pre parental bereavement), but with the xanex... I just dont think uppers and downers is a very good mix. My diet isnt the cleanest in the world, when I mean that.. I"m not eating crap loads of chicken and fish, little bit brown rice, and veggie. That's what I ate almost every single day for 2 years.... lol... It sucked. I don't (want it) that bad anymore, but I also dont sit on my ass eating Twinkies all day. I hate junk food. The problem that I had as too much vanilla vodka and diet coke during football season... Who Dat??? lol.. sorry.
As for Hedo 3, we dont swing very much. Neither of us care, and if I "have the urge", he is encouraging... but like he said, and this might sound conceited, but it's a quote from his mouth... Why would I want to do that when I know I'm getting the raw end of the deal? I'm getting this "okay" woman and this dick is fucking my gorgeous wife. I'm a very lucky woman. Trust me, he doesnt want anyone else. There's some things you cannot fake, and when he's sitting at the hot tub at Hedo II and well... you know what goes on... and Mr. Happy was very happy until someone else decided to join in the fun.... I'm not a guy, but I would think that's something one couldnt control. We got married at Hedo II (obviously on the prude side, had to bring pics back home) and go there every year for our anniversary. We are going a little early this year b/c we met 3 other couples that we have been friends with for years, and yes, one of the couples are old. (She has a walker and one of those little motor scooter thingy's) Props to her. I hope Jim and I are like that when we get that age. They don't like Hedo 3 as much, so we all meet there once a year. Oh, I forgot to mention another surgery.. ACL replacement in the beginning of 2007. Had just got out of PT when I flipped my Blazer and broke my neck, so there are a lot of things that I am "limited too." I have/had a spinal cord compression at C3-C4 and C6-C7. I had 3&4 removed, had some hardware and screws put in, and I recovered use of my left arm. I couldnt even open the door to my Expedtion with my left hand. Now, my only limitations are opening stuff like new pickle and jelly jars. My grip won't come back. They said it "may" come back if I get the 6&7 done, but I cannot withstand the pain of another neck surgery. The first week post op Jim had to hide the guns in the house and I was taking Oxycotin and it felt like I was taking Asprin. So, please, make some suggestions. My main "bitch" are my abs and would like to tighten my rear up a little more. Usually if I drop that much weight (10lbs) everything just falls into place. I've got some pics on my hard drive of my old desktop from last year. Of course,I'll have to draw a bikini on there, but yeah, abs ripped out, etc, and I'm just not being able to get there this year. I know it's because of some limitations that I have because of the ACL and the hardware, (and needed hardware) in my neck. As noted, I still have a cord compression at 6&7, but it's not debiliating enough for me to go through that stuff again. So, have fun if you'd like to try to suggest some stuff. I'm open to anything, not scared of anything (well, some things I just will not do again)... thank the Lord they came out with Vaniqa... have sides that laser didnt fix, and well, tweezing every single day is a royal pain in the ass. Not looking to reproduce things that have disappeared... trying to be (lady like, but real at the same time.)..... so, any suggestons???? lol