I guess i am a "popular guy" but i don't like "partying"

sadpanda

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people know me around my college as the jacked guy and many know me by name

but my question is

many of my friends like the life style of going out every weekend and drinking/partying.

me on the other hand, all i do is work, workout, study, hang out with close friends and my gf and go out drinking like only a select few times a year.



Am i missing out on my life by not drinking/going out? Or should i just be "anti-social" i guess...
 
As Diesel-Man said, it's totally up to you.

I'm the same as you though - pretty happy just working hard on the few things I think, and spending time with the people that matter. I think a lot of people drink and party because they're not happy with what they have, be that the people around them or the life they lead, so they go to drink to forget (or in a lame attempt to hook up).

You choose how you lead your life, and doing things differently to everyone else isn't necessarily missing out.
 
Will your mum let you out or are you still grounded on weekends after she found your "friend's" gear?
 
As a college age and college student myself, I was in the same boat when I got here. I went out twice before and hardly drank but my roomates forced me out one night and honestly it's a blast. Life before was all about school, diet and lifting. I realized I have to have fun occasionally too. They go out thursday, friday and saturday, I just pick one night and get drunk with them. Being social and meeting so many new people is what college is all about. I'd go out every night but going sober isn't fun lol try it sometime only you will know if it's for you or if your missing out.
 
Yea you are definitely missing out!!! On a possible life of pain and misery! Your doing right by what your doing but ultimately it is your choice!! Always look at the consequences and say to yourself, Self (lol) am I willing to pay that to do this! You will have your answer!
 
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