i need girl advice from you older dogs here

[e92]

i know most guys on here are significantly older than me, i just turned 22 but here it goes..

i'm sick of hookups but not only am i sick of it i'm just so over it. its not exciting or gratifying to me anymore. now i'm not saying i'm looking for a wife, but i'd like a girl who i truly have a connection with to have to myself. every single girl i talk to seems to only see me as the player type.. i'm never looked upon as boyfriend material because of my physical appearance and maybe my behavior/demeanor.

what advice can some of you older bros on here give me regarding this subject?

 

[oldmusclemike]

I'm only 42 years older than you and I'd still be happy with a pick-up girl. You just need time to grow up and it happens.

 

[Norsegod]

First of all, if you are looking for a serious relationship, you prob won't get it. If I am looking for sluts that is usually when I find someone worth dating for 5 years. When I look for something serious I find all whores. Now, at your age, you may think you sick of playing the game, but yopu haven't lived long enough to live. Like really live. When I turned 22 I had been with ten women. Two years later it was somewhere around 120+. Don't waste your twenties. You will change your mind again. Just learn to go with the flow. You don't have to work to fuck with girls. If you find someone worth being with then go with it, but do not force it. If you find sluts then go with it, but don't go looking to chase them. Just enjoy life's ride. You can't put too much energy into women at your age because you are still at a point in life that both good ones and bad ones will fall into your lap. The best advice you are going to get is learn to give up control of bullshit like that and go with tghe flow of life. Good luck

 

[oldmusclemike]

Great post Norsegod!

 

[Southernfish]

First of all, if you are looking for a serious relationship, you prob won't get it. If I am looking for sluts that is usually when I find someone worth dating for 5 years. When I look for something serious I find all whores. Now, at your age, you may think you sick of playing the game, but yopu haven't lived long enough to live. Like really live. When I turned 22 I had been with ten women. Two years later it was somewhere around 120+. Don't waste your twenties. You will change your mind again. Just learn to go with the flow. You don't have to work to fuck with girls. If you find someone worth being with then go with it, but do not force it. If you find sluts then go with it, but don't go looking to chase them. Just enjoy life's ride. You can't put too much energy into women at your age because you are still at a point in life that both good ones and bad ones will fall into your lap. The best advice you are going to get is learn to give up control of bullshit like that and go with tghe flow of life. Good luck

Fantastic advice. Spoken like a true vet

I have to agree.......with every point actually.

 

[49ER]

Your still not fully developed your Adam follicles are maturing and you are not capable of being serious until you turn 25. Once you hit 25 the neurons ARE much more mature then you can bind male receptors with female receptors.

 

[anzel]

Your still not fully developed your Adam follicles are maturing and you are not capable of being serious until you turn 25. Once you hit 25 the neurons ARE much more mature then you can bind male receptors with female receptors.

Are you talking about Claptron neurons or Serindenial neurons?

 

[49ER]

Are you talking about Claptron neurons or Serindenial neurons?

Claptron neurons if he is not careful gonna end up with chlamydirons

 

[Ocean Rhino]

Norse is pretty spot on. It will happen when it happens, just date/bang different chicks to find out what you like. The one that makes you work for it may be the one worth getting to know better. Also might be the pain in the ass that will make you work for everything. There is no cut and dried formula, you have to do you and figure out what makes you happy. If you aren't attracting the right chicks, figure out why. Different fishing hole maybe.

 

[Charles Bronson]

just have fun kid..

knock off as much pussy as you can

when there is a girl you want to be around , can't stop thinking about

then you have a candidate son


then it gets real tricky


you have to be willing to see what you really have in front of you , not what you want to see..

go slow and test the waters, so many women out there you couldnt piss on them all if you tried

when she comes along, you'll know

Bronson

 

[49ER]

Make sure she makes you laugh all the time and can cook a dam meal..... looks fade but friendship bonds last for ever. ....and you never stop eating

 

[RR88]

Your 22. Focus on your life with whatever dreams, ambitions you have. Build yourself and YOUR life. The women will come. Trust that. Be it whores or your future wife just go with the flow. Don't over think and let be what be. Waste your time focusing on women at 22 and you WILL regret it. Now go enjoy life! Also very well put Norse god.

 

[halfwit]

My honest advice is to quit worrying about broads and focus on life goals like an education. You don't want to wake up at 30 and realize you're behind in the game known as life.

Get all the ass that happens to come your way, and IF you happen to stumble upon a woman that fits the bill, more power to you - just don't lose focus on the future. I promise you that being successful will land you a far greater selection to choose from in the days to come.

Oh, and wear rubbers. You don't want a fuck trophy to remind you for the rest of your life that condoms aren't as good as bareback, but they serve one hell of a purpose. That and VD isn't the kind of gift that you want to be known for giving.

Blunt, but those are the words that I think EVERY young male needs to hear.

My .02c

 

[Ziegler]

Do you have a job your own place a car ? Are you acting like a player ? Because I never met a dude that hooks up a lot but couldn't score a girlfriend. Unless he's still living at his parents house or is looking for one in a million. Woman are like cats they stay where the food is and where the paper's at.

 

[bonexyster]

Bro at 22 focus on financing your future. Don't waste your money and time on fighting for "the keeper" once you have a bank roll you can choose what ever tail you want anyways. I had been with nearly 30 women got married young, went through a bad divorce at 30 and begin working out a year later after I had abs I was banging more women in a year then I had my entire life. Infact the chick I'm with now is the only chick I haven't cheated on since the divorce. Before my divorce I'd never cheated. You never know what life is gonna fuck u with and how it will change you. I used to like party girls as I've gotten older I like intelligence and typically wouldn't date a girl unless they had a degree. Thats an example of how I changed.

 

[tbonexl]

Yup Yup... All great advice. When your in your twenties, your looking for the hottest lil thing to get with. Problem is she's hot to everybody else too. In your thirties, its still nice to get with chics in their twenties. Problem with that is your not in your twenties anymore. Instead of watch mtv you start watching the news. You start going to bed at a reasonable time. Bars are not the only place to go anymore. Your twenty something chic wants to go out all the time. She will. Probably with someone you know too lol. Just have a good time and get it while you can keep up with it. Settle down when you get older. Looks will still be important then but not the most important thing...

 

[carverelli]

Ive heard it said and it makes perfect sense. Stop trying to find the perfect woman. Instead, work on yourself to be more perfect and thd right woman will find you.
Also, on a different note; you can't turn a whore into a housewife. If you find your 'mate' and she's cheating on her husband or boyfriend with you, what makes you think she'll be loyal to you when you're exclusive with her.
And if you're truly done with casual hook-ups, stop cruising the places you've found the others.

Women..... nothing better than a good one- nothing worse than a bad one

28 year veteran with the same woman, so I know a little something about keeping one happy. And ya, we're still very much in love.

 

[Onk]

man you guys have been with a fair amount of ladies
I went
16-18 first gf
18-20 2nd gf
20-21 single and banged 10 or so girls in that 6 months
21-and still with her 7 years later

My advice would be not to try and find a gf...it just happens. I never wanted a long term relationship but it keeps fucking happening and I'm a better man for it.

 

[Dirkmcgirk]

First of all, if you are looking for a serious relationship, you prob won't get it. If I am looking for sluts that is usually when I find someone worth dating for 5 years. When I look for something serious I find all whores. Now, at your age, you may think you sick of playing the game, but yopu haven't lived long enough to live. Like really live. When I turned 22 I had been with ten women. Two years later it was somewhere around 120+. Don't waste your twenties. You will change your mind again. Just learn to go with the flow. You don't have to work to fuck with girls. If you find someone worth being with then go with it, but do not force it. If you find sluts then go with it, but don't go looking to chase them. Just enjoy life's ride. You can't put too much energy into women at your age because you are still at a point in life that both good ones and bad ones will fall into your lap. The best advice you are going to get is learn to give up control of bullshit like that and go with tghe flow of life. Good luck

Salute to another brother in the 100 plus club

The youngster clearly is just going through a phase. He'll get over it

 

[Ziegler]

My honest advice is to quit worrying about broads and focus on life goals like an education. You don't want to wake up at 30 and realize you're behind in the game.

Good advise no doubt. But at 22 years old not worrying about broads is like solving a rubik's cube in the dark.