I think my bf is taking steroids :(

JWS77 said:
Bros, she didn't go thru his stuff with intentions of snooping...she gave an explanation that makes her story legitimate. I go thru my gf's purse all the time for gum and hand lotion/hand sanitizer...sometimes I find 'odd' things too. Girls got all kinds of weird shit in their purses hahah. She clearly isn't saying she will call the cops on him, just concerned for his safety.
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lol I have nothing odd in my purse :P my nightstand however.....

but thank you for your input and advice :)
 
I've been with my girl for 7 years and i wouldn't go through her purse, even if she told me too, nothing in there for me and if it is, she can get it for me.

I really am trying to help her, I know she is concerned, but she needs to handle this subject with kid gloves IMHO
 
Yeah living together after just four months is pretty quick to commit but, if u already suspected then u were snooping just to be honest
 
THE-DET-OAK said:
I've been with my girl for 7 years and i wouldn't go through her purse, even if she told me too, nothing in there for me and if it is, she can get it for me.

I really am trying to help her, I know she is concerned, but she needs to handle this subject with kid gloves IMHO
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I mean I go thru her purse while she is there, like next to me in a movie theatre to look for gum, or she might say 'grab my keys from my purse', or 'babe you got any hand lotion?' 'check my purse babe'...not take the purse to the bathroom and lock the door lol. Maybe they workout together, or parked the car and put all valuables in his gym bag, like her sunglasses. :shrug: ...maybe he suggested to look in the gym bag as a hint to warm up to him admitting he uses, knowing she would see the rigs.
 
Yea, i make a effort to stay out of womens purses. Diamondz, You need to be having this chat with your boyfriend. Not us! I had the same thought BigHuge after she said they been together for 4 months and are living together...
 
JWS77 said:
I mean I go thru her purse while she is there, like next to me in a movie theatre to look for gum, or she might say 'grab my keys from my purse', or 'babe you got any hand lotion?' 'check my purse babe'...not take the purse to the bathroom and lock the door lol. Maybe they workout together, or parked the car and put all valuables in his gym bag, like her sunglasses. :shrug: ...maybe he suggested to look in the gym bag as a hint to warm up to him admitting he uses, knowing she would see the rigs.
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I hear ya bro, I just had to learn the hard way to not even go that route. they thing IMO to keep things going for the long haul is to have trust, respect for privacy and your own life as well as the one you share with your other.

I know going through purse to get gum doesn't seem like much, but to me, thats just the start. I NEVER mess with her personal belongings, that way if she does it to me, i can simply say, can you please not do that, I don't do that to your stuff.

its amazing how quickly things can change.

maybe im old school.
 
BigHuge said:
Yeah living together after just four months is pretty quick to commit but, if u already suspected then u were snooping just to be honest
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We don't live together. His bed is my bed, mine his. On many occasions, he has slept in at my place while I had to leave for work, who knows if he looked around in my panty dresser or nightstand lol. Not that I would care anyway. What does how long we have been together have anything to do with this?
 
What is up with your nightstand anyway? that's twice you've mentioned this little treasure box of yours.
 
THE-DET-OAK said:
I hear ya bro, I just had to learn the hard way to not even go that route. they thing IMO to keep things going for the long haul is to have trust, respect for privacy and your own life as well as the one you share with your other.

I know going through purse to get gum doesn't seem like much, but to me, thats just the start. I NEVER mess with her personal belongings, that way if she does it to me, i can simply say, can you please not do that, I don't do that to your stuff.

its amazing how quickly things can change.

maybe im old school.
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100% in agreement. It's amazing how fast things change. Move in or commit and all of a sudden their hair is always up. Contacts vanish and replaced by glasses. Make-up is for "occasions" and the lingerie becomes flannel sleep pants. :laugh: All kidding aside, the D.E.T. hit it on the head.
 
Your just a fucking girlfriend! No more, no less! stay out of his shit. If you are doing this 4 months into a relationship, i feel sorry for the sucker if he marries you! YOU ARE JUST A FUCKING GIRLFRIEND. Don't invade his privacy. Damn. Women just think they can control everything. I feel sorry for the guy. But then again, he is the one putting up with her shit!
 
the part i dont get is why arent you talking to him about it instead of us. not cool at all and i sure hope thats not you in your avatar cause if it is and hes competing like you say then if someone from here and by here i mean the whole fuckin internet sees you guys at one of his shows then all of his business is out in the fuckin streets. and just curious is diamondz your stage name ? lmao
 
What does 4 months have to do with it???
That is not a very long time, you can not expect a guy to explain everything about himself to you in 4 months. You need to be patient and wait for answers when you DESERVE them. :nopity:

P.S. Not a women hater just a snoopy person hater
 
Diamondz.... Scroll down a bit and read my thread on "Guys who live with Gf, wives, Etc"
It is funny enough basically this exact topic but from the OTHER side of it.
I just got into AAS and was going to have to hide it from my gf because she was an ignorant stubborn freak, I think its deff Ok for you to come here. But come here to educate yourself. Really read some of the stickies and you can learn alot.
I completely do not think you have the right to go through his shit, but you did, and alot of woman would do the same thing. READ UP, EDUCATE. Then when you realize that AAS really isnt what the media makes it out to be, and you know what you are talking about. Just approach him and tell him the truth. HONESTY is worth so so so much in a relationship. I cannot stress that enough. If you cant be honest with eachother about everything in your lives, then you need to call it quits.
Aas is something us guys do for ourselves, to maximize our wants, needs, goals, etc etc
We dont do it for anyone else, and it is a life style. You need to accept this from him, be open minded about it.

Best of luck.
 
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I told one gf before and wish I didnt. Any arguement it was thrown in my face"roidrage blah blah" and after break up told everyone she knew. Tried to educate her but like others said the media makes it something its not and people that have no idea what they are doing give it a bad wrap all together. but oh she promised to never use it agaisnt me...that went out the window. So i never told any girl my lifestyle since. Plus its not like you been together for years and just found out. Like others said when hes comfortable he will tell you. In other words RELAX
 
I guess that would also be my 2 biggest concerns.
Getting it thrown in my face from her being ignorant
and her telling everyone my business
 
I felt the need to comment on this cause I'm female. I have to say I agree with most of the guys comments. Are you upset just at the thought of him using steriods? Or just the thought that he has kept something from you? Cause you said you dont see a change in him, and you obviously like him or you wouldnt be dating him. So really what is the issue? Not trying to be mean or rude, just think you may want to think more about why this upsets you so much. If I got mad at my husband for everything he didnt tell me about I would constantly be annoyed with him - lol. I think honesty is important, yes, but people also need to have some privacy. And I'm sure as your relationship progresses he will share more of his "private life" with you, especially if you show him you are supportive about whatever he is doing :) I wish you luck in your relationship.
 
Honesty is the key factor in a relationship, when the time was right I told mine I was on, and was on before I met her, its just a part of me accept it or not. She didnt like it one bit cause of what the media has made steroids into... UNTIL I rented bigger stronger faster and we watched it together now shes cool with it, hell sometimes she even helps pin now lol. If you do have a problem with him on and just concerned about the safety and health I recommend you to watch that movie, heck I think all gfs and wifes should watch it. Gluck.
 
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