Please help me women... My wife found my stash....

[Santaklaus]

So, my wife found my juice and she's been pretty upset. She knew that I did juice years ago but thought that I stopped altogether. A few years ago I actually took 2 years off AAS and she never knew that I started back up. She's pretty upset and wants me to stop again. The problem is that I don't want to. She says that she "doesn't want to be married to a guy that is on steroids".

It's been about 3 weeks since she found it and I told her when we got back from our vacation I would stop. That was last week. I told her I needed to get clomid for my post cycle therapy (pct) and then I will be stopping. I have all my post cycle therapy (pct) stuff already by the way.

So to make a long story short I need to know what the best way to "ask permission"/tell her nicely that I am going to cycle off and start another cycle in about 3 months. I don't wanna keep hiding it cuz that just makes it worse.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I hope you ladies don't mind me posting this here. I figured if I posted this where all the guys are reading I'd get all the testosterone ego's and they'd tell me to get divorced or "man up" and tell her to fuck off. Thats not an option especially with a kid involved..

Hoping to get some women's perspective on this, thanks!!

 

[JCtherocks]

If the divorce is not an option, appology and explain is the only way to go. Tell her the reason why you use it as a supplement, couldnt resist the ego to get bigger. Tell her if she like it if you take away all of her make up items. Just like women like to be pretty and stay faminine, man like to stay fucking strong and masculine. Show her the video of "biggest stronger faster" documantary on youtube.

 

[janmar]

So, my wife found my juice and she's been pretty upset. She knew that I did juice years ago but thought that I stopped altogether. A few years ago I actually took 2 years off AAS and she never knew that I started back up. She's pretty upset and wants me to stop again. The problem is that I don't want to. She says that she "doesn't want to be married to a guy that is on steroids".

It's been about 3 weeks since she found it and I told her when we got back from our vacation I would stop. That was last week. I told her I needed to get clomid for my post cycle therapy (pct) and then I will be stopping. I have all my post cycle therapy (pct) stuff already by the way.

So to make a long story short I need to know what the best way to "ask permission"/tell her nicely that I am going to cycle off and start another cycle in about 3 months. I don't wanna keep hiding it cuz that just makes it worse.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I hope you ladies don't mind me posting this here. I figured if I posted this where all the guys are reading I'd get all the testosterone ego's and they'd tell me to get divorced or "man up" and tell her to fuck off. Thats not an option especially with a kid involved..

Hoping to get some women's perspective on this, thanks!!

I'm in sort of the same boat. Sorry I'm not a woman giving you this info. I am on testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) but I did tell my wife that I was going to cycle it and do the testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) at the dosage that I want to do it at. So I explained the blast and cruise method to her. She is not thrilled but what is she going to do. She did find out about my UGL test tho. I got rid of one old vials in front of her. She doesn't know about my other stash tho. You should explain it as calmly as you can and pose it as sort of a blast and cruise thing. Might work. also you need a better place to put your stash. I will be resorting to a PO box when I want some UGL stuff. But I am lucky enough to have testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) prescribed as well. Summing up you need a calm conversation about whatever it is your taking. Full explanation it helps.

 

[newbieguy]

Your on steroids????

 

[Mrs P]

So, my wife found my juice and she's been pretty upset. She knew that I did juice years ago but thought that I stopped altogether. A few years ago I actually took 2 years off AAS and she never knew that I started back up. She's pretty upset and wants me to stop again. The problem is that I don't want to. She says that she "doesn't want to be married to a guy that is on steroids".

It's been about 3 weeks since she found it and I told her when we got back from our vacation I would stop. That was last week. I told her I needed to get clomid for my post cycle therapy (pct) and then I will be stopping. I have all my post cycle therapy (pct) stuff already by the way.

So to make a long story short I need to know what the best way to "ask permission"/tell her nicely that I am going to cycle off and start another cycle in about 3 months. I don't wanna keep hiding it cuz that just makes it worse.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I hope you ladies don't mind me posting this here. I figured if I posted this where all the guys are reading I'd get all the testosterone ego's and they'd tell me to get divorced or "man up" and tell her to fuck off. Thats not an option especially with a kid involved..

Hoping to get some women's perspective on this, thanks!!

I bet she's more upset about the fact that you hid it from her than anything else... She's probably thinking, well, what else could he be hidding from me ?
It's normal for her to be concerned & perhaps even against your using gear, she's probably heard all the stories & msconceptions out there about "men on steroids".. The first thing u should do is sit down and have a real talk with her, tell her u understand her concern, & encourage her to do her own research.. make sure you are checking your blood, and being a responsible user..

If she has her mind dead set and won't be willing to even consider or be open minded, then, your gonna have to decide what's more important to u... your marriage, (wife & kid) or continuing to use gear ?
Is it fair ? no.. but marriage is about compromises, hopefully she will be willing to listen to you & allow herself the opportunity to learn & educate herself.. Giving each other "altimatums" in a marriage unless "reasonable ones" is most of the time more of a control issue than anything else and usually doesn't works out well..

Hope you guys can work this out.

 

[Santaklaus]

I bet she's more upset about the fact that you hid it from her than anything else... She's probably thinking, well, what else could he be hidding from me ?
It's normal for her to be concerned & perhaps even against your using gear, she's probably heard all the stories & msconceptions out there about "men on steroids".. The first thing u should do is sit down and have a real talk with her, tell her u understand her concern, & encourage her to do her own research.. make sure you are checking your blood, and being a responsible user..

If she has her mind dead set and won't be willing to even consider or be open minded, then, your gonna have to decide what's more important to u... your marriage, (wife & kid) or continuing to use gear ?
Is it fair ? no.. but marriage is about compromises, hopefully she will be willing to listen to you & allow herself the opportunity to learn & educate herself.. Giving each other "altimatums" in a marriage unless "reasonable ones" is most of the time more of a control issue than anything else and usually doesn't works out well..

Hope you guys can work this out.

Thanks for the reply Mrs. P... I understand her feeling "more upset about me lying" but I know her and I knew I really had no other option. If I approached her and said "um honey, so I was thinking, I'm gonna start taking steroids again" it would not have went over well. I think you're right about siting down with her again and letting her know it's something I feel strongly about and trying to get her to do her own research.

Thanks for the replies!

 

[Santaklaus]

Your on steroids????

and you're just an idiot.. I read through some of your posts... Clearly not the brightest bulb in the pack.. I also love when you morons on here critique other people's pics but yet are afraid to post pics of yourself.

 

[Detour5]

As Mrs P. stated, the lying is the cutter. But you have to remember that although us guys here are liberal minded about this, it's still illegal and that's something to think about. Yes it's your life and you need to be happy, but when there's a partnership and children that changes things dramatically. I honestly think only you can make the choice of what to do. You know what you could lose, is it worth it? In the same vain, trying to get her to understand has to be a slow gradual process. Tell her everything. Explain everything. Let her see this site and read the posts. Let her understand it through your eyes. I probably didn't help any, but I hope I did on some level...

 

[FormerFatty]

Woman know a woman's mind. We as dudes should not attempt to understand the reasoning behind it. Our circuit boards are different. Listen to the lady's.

 

[Santaklaus]

As Mrs P. stated, the lying is the cutter. But you have to remember that although us guys here are liberal minded about this, it's still illegal and that's something to think about. Yes it's your life and you need to be happy, but when there's a partnership and children that changes things dramatically. I honestly think only you can make the choice of what to do. You know what you could lose, is it worth it? In the same vain, trying to get her to understand has to be a slow gradual process. Tell her everything. Explain everything. Let her see this site and read the posts. Let her understand it through your eyes. I probably didn't help any, but I hope I did on some level...

Actually, you made perfect sense. I'm gonna give it another go "trying to make her understand" and go from there. The thing that confuses me about your statement is you said "although us guys here are liberal minded"... You don't look anything like a guy...

But again, thank you ladies for your input. It's much appreciated. I'll leave the women's forum to the women now. :-0

 

[Detour5]

Lol, I'm from London, England.. Guys can be interchangeable with people!!

Good luck.

 

[noway55]

It's threads like this that make me not want to get married.