STAUNCHED427
Elite Juicer
That's when I flop it out and the comment I get is, that is going to tear me open lol...Better take some more steroids then!
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That's when I flop it out and the comment I get is, that is going to tear me open lol...Better take some more steroids then!
Southernfish
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BAM!!! Lesson learned.
Great responses, especially about what's considered acceptable behavior and what's not by society. Asked the board about this a few months back and Megatron had some great insight. Was honest with my fiancé-the relationship didn't work out for other reasons but she kept throwing steroids in my face and saying it was just because she was worried about me! I think anyone you do marry should know but be forewarned it's leverage someone has over you.
Harnold
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you're a lucky man 3j. I've been married for almost 25 years, and went out with the same lady since high school. truth be told though, I've run cycles on and off the whole time. she's in the dark but is questioning the two lumps of scar tissue on both upper glutes. I had her believing it was a muscle developed from heavy squats, but she's been reading up I think. anyway, I wish I could come clean with her but not sure it's the right time. I'm 45 btw. I'm a Highland games strength athlete, so for obvious reasons I train heavy, and cruise and blast often.
Southernfish
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See this is the issue bro, you've been married for almost 25 years and have been keeping a secret, how are you supposed to come clean now, you almost cant. That could be a messy situation. No disrespect just sayin' man, that would be a touch subject im sure.
Harnold
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absolutely a touchy subject. I might as well come clean for banging a lot of other chicks too, and seal my fate.
3J
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absolutely a touchy subject. I might as well come clean for banging a lot of other chicks too, and seal my fate.
marriage is a sacred bond between two people.. why stay with the person if youre not 100% commited???
Southernfish
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absolutely a touchy subject. I might as well come clean for banging a lot of other chicks too, and seal my fate.
oh boy, lol.
STAUNCHED427
Elite Juicer
Ok maybe not impossible, tricky, but certainly possible to come clean and admit...But I think your best bet here to to pull the TRT card and educate about it etc etc, then you can later come clean and say you used previously, but by then your wife won't be naive to AAS/TRT.
My 2c on how to do this if you choose.
Southernfish
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Now thats an idea!! Nice call.
As for the women i dont know what to tell you,.......
Harnold
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well said brother.
ImAuNatural
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I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years and I told her right off the bat that I wanted to do it and she even helped me pin the first few times. I believe if you love someone you wont keep secrets from them and if they love you they will support you in almost anything you want to do. Although 3 years isnt long for some people it is by far my longest relationship and I have been with her since I was a senior in high school so she has been there for me through alot of things so I couldnt keep something like that from her.
Although she did decide to go to a party a few weeks ago with some friends and ended up having sex with some random 22 year old guy she just met that night,she got drunk off her ass when she has never been drunk like that and she is only 17 and I'm 20. I want to rip that dudes fucking head off more than anything and I am in a tough spot right now as to if I should forgive her and try to make things work or if I should walk away. She told me what she done the very next morning and says she feels bad for what she did and she feels disgusting and she has cried many times over it but its still not easy to just forget and move on.
Im glad she told me instead of keeping it from me and even though at first she lied about it after about 10 minutes of questioning she came clean.Dont keep things from someone you love. The longer you wait the worse it will get because they will wonder what else you have lied about for all those years and they will feel betrayed and like they don't know who you really are.
Although she did decide to go to a party a few weeks ago with some friends and ended up having sex with some random 22 year old guy she just met that night,she got drunk off her ass when she has never been drunk like that and she is only 17 and I'm 20. I want to rip that dudes fucking head off more than anything and I am in a tough spot right now as to if I should forgive her and try to make things work or if I should walk away. She told me what she done the very next morning and says she feels bad for what she did and she feels disgusting and she has cried many times over it but its still not easy to just forget and move on.
Im glad she told me instead of keeping it from me and even though at first she lied about it after about 10 minutes of questioning she came clean.Dont keep things from someone you love. The longer you wait the worse it will get because they will wonder what else you have lied about for all those years and they will feel betrayed and like they don't know who you really are.
3J
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its your life brother.. i was just expressing my opinion...
if you have something good at home.. dont take the risk of fucking it up... my 2 cents..
no need to go out and have a burger when there is steak at home
3J
Super Moderator
no disrespect.. but i say you dump her ass.. or get it in your head that you will not end up with her now..
youre young... and there are plenty of women out there that you can get with... dont settle for something who did something so wrong.
Southernfish
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Buddy!! You need grow a set and kick that slut outta your life. Guaranteed not the first time nor the last itll happen!!! Jesus man, forgivin someone who cheats is giving yhem permission to do it again. Get serious bro.
No point im being mad at the dude, its not his fault its hers!!!
3J
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agreed.. it takes two.. you weren't at the party.. what did homeboy know?? all he saw was pussy and went for it.. any of us would.. she needed to keep her ass in check..she wants to act like a skank (again no offense) you treat her like one..
i personally say you drop her.. like a rock in the ocean
i personally say you drop her.. like a rock in the ocean
ImAuNatural
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Its harder to just kick her to the curb than that. It only hurt so much because I trusted her and I was the only guy she had ever been with and I liked that. But we have been through alot together she was there for me when my mom passed away three years ago and she was there when my grandmother who raised me my whole life passed away last year. Im going to try to give her another chance but I don't trust her at all now so im being very cautious and if she cheats again it wont hurt near as bad and I will have no problem dumping her and moving on. I think its so hard to let go because I have lost everyone who has meant anything to me within the past 3 years and ALOT has changed.
She may do it again but she may not, no one knows for sure. But I do know if she does it again she will be sitting on the curb. But for now Im trying to focus more on myself and my goals in lifting and in my career just trying to make money and save it.
I am pissed at the dude because she just turned 17 in April and he is 22 years old. He gave her a bunch of alcohol and got her drunk me and her were in an argument and her heart was broken and she said she was very mad at me and she thought she was done with me so she went to a party with her friends and didn't plan on having sex. She hates herself now and I can tell she feels bad for what she did. Im not saying that its all his fault or even all her fault. She put herself in the situation to drink in the first place and then she chose to have sex drunk or not she still made the choice. It was her first time ever getting drunk so maybe she went a little overboard and lost self control i don't know.
I don't only blame her and him but I blame myself too because she says I don't show my emotions towards anything and i don't give her enough attention. I will agree with her on that but its only because of all the shit I have been through in my life I keep my emotions bottled up and I am numb to things. Im not going to keep going on and high jack this thread or throw all of my problems on everyone though but if things work then they do if not then I guess you just live and learn.
Thanks for the advice though guys it means more than you know.
She may do it again but she may not, no one knows for sure. But I do know if she does it again she will be sitting on the curb. But for now Im trying to focus more on myself and my goals in lifting and in my career just trying to make money and save it.
I am pissed at the dude because she just turned 17 in April and he is 22 years old. He gave her a bunch of alcohol and got her drunk me and her were in an argument and her heart was broken and she said she was very mad at me and she thought she was done with me so she went to a party with her friends and didn't plan on having sex. She hates herself now and I can tell she feels bad for what she did. Im not saying that its all his fault or even all her fault. She put herself in the situation to drink in the first place and then she chose to have sex drunk or not she still made the choice. It was her first time ever getting drunk so maybe she went a little overboard and lost self control i don't know.
I don't only blame her and him but I blame myself too because she says I don't show my emotions towards anything and i don't give her enough attention. I will agree with her on that but its only because of all the shit I have been through in my life I keep my emotions bottled up and I am numb to things. Im not going to keep going on and high jack this thread or throw all of my problems on everyone though but if things work then they do if not then I guess you just live and learn.
Thanks for the advice though guys it means more than you know.
ImAuNatural
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I agree with you man. It really wasn't his fault but it just pisses me off knowing I was the only guy she had ever been with and now she has been with another man. My confidence is down and it sucks. She even told me he was bigger than me and that hurt like a bitch I have always been pretty confident with myself to an extent and in bed I have never had complaints from girls and they would come back for more. I can hardly have sex with her now because I start to think of what she did and I wonder if she is thinking of him during it.
I never realized how bad cheating was and I would even encourage my friends to get with girls even if they had a girlfriend but that will never happen again. Cheating is horrible because what it does to the other person is fucking terrible.
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