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[Matt0071]

Just curious if anybody has been in the situation I have been through
Me.and my girlfriend were together.for4 years and have a 2 year old daughter together well about 3 weeks ago.I came.home.to her packing her shit already and.left after I got done work
For a week.I didn't text her or.nothing.neither did she try to text me
So.I figured fuck it I.am.single I.am.will.move on
I was sitting at a coffee place having coffee and this chick came up.and said I was hot and looking jacked lol so she left me.her number and fb as well so we started talking on fb for a few days and wanted to meet me and come.to her place

My ex found out as she.somehow got.on.my.fb and she came.over banging on the door, and screaming at me
This happened Dec 1st so it's been about 3 weeks now and for the last few weeks she has been talkin to.me and plus we are still having sex but she doesn't want me to.move I with her she wants to try to.work things out I guess before anything
I think it's a lot of head games and some days it bothers the fuck.out of.me
I have been pretty good the last few weeks.now diet wise but he first week this shit Happened my appetite went to shit and workouts sucked as I was thinking to.much ya know what I.mean
Anybody been through this and what would u do?
She doesn't goto the gym, she eats anything like a normal person.and.calls.me.not.normal for what I eat like the same stuff everyday,.I talk about the gym a lot she says or about.my diet
I dunno.but now she wants me.back but doesn't want me.living with her but she wants me to.find my own.place and just.work.on things first
She is a jealous girl, she thinks I flirt with girls at the gym or always thinks I.am.adding random.girls.to.my fb which I don't
It's kinda a fucked up situation, as like tonight I.am at the.gym.and told her that and she replies oh so.u would.rather be there then spend time.with me like wtf? It was her choice to.move out not.mine

 

[Matt0071]

And to note I love my 2year old daughter.she means everything to me as I got to bring her to.my parents for Xmas , but that's the thing as well is that it could crush the biggest dudes, it does hurt not being able to come home to my daughter everynight after work and the gym, but again she wants me to come there almost every night for the last few weeks but doesn't want me to stay the night

 

[tbonexl]

Well from reading your posts over the past few weeks, I would say you have anger issues. Look, your 35 or something like that. Family comes first. Your kid and your woman should be your priority and everything else should come in their respective place. Gotta get your priorities straight...

 

[luckypaul]

I was with the same woman for almost 20 years. I tried everything to make her happy and nothing worked. She is a miserable person. She never appriciated that I NEED to go to the gym daily to feel good, and she actually gets bugged by it. We finally ended it 2 years ago and I don't miss her one bit. We should have split years ago.

I don't know whats happening in your home so I can't help you much, but if she doesn't appreciate what you do and who you are move on. Get custody figured out and find a new girl.

 

[Mad- scientist]

I would personally say try your hardest to make it work because you have a kid with her. If it comes down to it you could always try something like couples therapy just never ever ever admit to steroid use and make sure your girlfiend wouldnt bring it up in counseling. If you have a past record with the law it could be very hard to get custody so keep that in mind.

 

[Dreaded Pirate Roberts]

It's her game and you will just have to play along. Be careful. Communication is the key. Unfortunately decoding what they really want is not easy. I recommend you both read His needs Her needs. It might make it easer for you both to ask for what you want after your needs are met.

Good luck. Remember Gear is not worth loosing you kid over.

 

[Teutonic]

It is NOT.

FB is f k n poison Matt if your serious w a womam. People generally suck, and they can and will undermine you by lying about you. Subterfuge is the underlying motivation for the miserable to fuck with with those who are not...misery loves company.

Gear 411 will FUCK YOU...w women everything can and f k n will be used against you.

U want to pay 75.00 an hour to see ur kid ? I did. U got 25k to spend over 3 yrs and 75 an hour to both see your kid, and run 1500 a week, feed that cycle AND figger out how to beat the subsequent court ordered drug tests ?

Prioritize.

Grow up.

You ve fucked up. Fix this or walk away. Ur temper , add gear and a pissed of mamma then throw in a court order where maybe your viewed as a DIRECT THREAT TO VISITATION. Playing w ur kid under armed guard sux.

Trust me.

 

[Teutonic]

So glad u took that beat down for what it was meant to do...not offend but to point outpotential pit falls. I too fucked up on Opiates, Benzo s and after 6 week rehab, 7500 out of my pocket came out to find she was being as mean as a lioness protecting her/our child.

AND SHE WAS RIGHT TO. W kids it s always s better to err on the side of caution.

Now ?

He s 9 feet away, sleeping off 12 hot wings and and a 43 block hike down in Manhattan s streets in the rain yesterday. I got him some good gear, water proof winter jacket, warm WORK gloves and mini Doc Martin Steel toes like mine and we hit it.

He maybe a city boy now but he knows how to read a compass, avoid no win situations and tell dad when there s a manhole cover off or a misstep coming as I m staring at another smoking hot Wall Street assistant or model as I haunt those places when here. He s awesome bait lol.....

" Yeah we re all alone, his mother having passed lvng us millions but no one to love...."

JKG !!!

I m trolling for a rich JAP so I can rack for free.

 

[Milton]

Just curious if anybody has been in the situation I have been through
Me.and my girlfriend were together.for4 years and have a 2 year old daughter together well about 3 weeks ago.I came.home.to her packing her shit already and.left after I got done work
For a week.I didn't text her or.nothing.neither did she try to text me
So.I figured fuck it I.am.single I.am.will.move on
I was sitting at a coffee place having coffee and this chick came up.and said I was hot and looking jacked lol so she left me.her number and fb as well so we started talking on fb for a few days and wanted to meet me and come.to her place

My ex found out as she.somehow got.on.my.fb and she came.over banging on the door, and screaming at me
This happened Dec 1st so it's been about 3 weeks now and for the last few weeks she has been talkin to.me and plus we are still having sex but she doesn't want me to.move I with her she wants to try to.work things out I guess before anything
I think it's a lot of head games and some days it bothers the fuck.out of.me
I have been pretty good the last few weeks.now diet wise but he first week this shit Happened my appetite went to shit and workouts sucked as I was thinking to.much ya know what I.mean
Anybody been through this and what would u do?
She doesn't goto the gym, she eats anything like a normal person.and.calls.me.not.normal for what I eat like the same stuff everyday,.I talk about the gym a lot she says or about.my diet
I dunno.but now she wants me.back but doesn't want me.living with her but she wants me to.find my own.place and just.work.on things first
She is a jealous girl, she thinks I flirt with girls at the gym or always thinks I.am.adding random.girls.to.my fb which I don't
It's kinda a fucked up situation, as like tonight I.am at the.gym.and told her that and she replies oh so.u would.rather be there then spend time.with me like wtf? It was her choice to.move out not.mine

aint nothing worst than a jealous girl, and if shes latina forget about it. if she cant handle the chicks cherry picking you then find one that is stable enough that will let you fly as long as you land in her garden.

 

[Therealkozmo]

This is why I am so very selective with my seed.