Just because I have an insecurity does not make me any less of a woman. In fact, the fact that I can openly admit that it is makes me very human. I am extremely proud of who I am inside and outside. I can guarantee you that just because a woman does not dye her hair, wear makeup, tan or have fake boobs will make her any better of a mother or person for that matter. I find that extremely insulting, judgemental and sexist.
Do you work out? (so do I btw)
I do my nails.
Do you eat healthy? (so do I btw)
I dye my hair.
Do you walk around in second hand ripped and stained jeans because you don't give a shit about what people think? Or do you dress nice when in public for your own self gratification of feeling good about the way you are representing yourself?
Would you have ever got braces? Or used acne medication? SAME SHIT.
There is no difference. You are not necessarily an insecure person because you constantly keep your body the way YOU like it. It is not necessarily for anyone else. I like the way I present myself. However, I also want my body back to the way it was pre-child. This does not make me a weak individual. It makes me an individual period to make the choices on how I look. I don't care if you are Brad Pitt, as a human we ALL have insecurities and if getting surgery makes you feel good about yourself then FUCK EVERYONE ELSE and what they think.
I think I am coming across the wrong way.
Its just not something I will deal with with a girl. Because of my opinions of it.
Acne medicine prevents scars and pot marks. Braces effect your health, as you age bone degeneration and structural issues can arise even causing an inflamed jaw where it connects and chronic pain(I have experienced this).
Laser eye surgery makes sense. Braces make sense. Neither of this leave foreign objects inside your body.
http://www.breastimplantinfo.org/augment/implantfacts.html
Some of the health risks invovled with breast implants make the people on here who use AAS seem like they are not taking big risks at all.
If its true, EVERY IMPLANT is guaranteed to eventually break. And you will inevitably require another surgery for the breast implants eventually.
Tell me...When is the last time braces killed someone? Or caused severe disease? Or mad them terminally ill?
I do not want a girl to possible start a family with that 8 years down the road, the side effect of a constant slow leak of the poisons in her fake breasts will take its toll, and now I have my child with no mother because she was reckless.
Risks include
Auto-immune diseases.
Cancers.
Death.
As well as countless possible side effects from the leaking that almost every implant has.
BUT, you will feel better...at least until one ruptures because you fell, or was in an accident. Or hell it just had a fault in it. Then its possible you may be coughing up liquid silicone and in serious trouble.(confirmed reports).
How about this as you age
Women with implants have raised concerns about memory loss, difficulties with concentration, and other cognitive problems. FDA's analysis of studies by implant companies found a significant increase in neurological symptoms
But as long as you will remember it, you will feel better.
Sticking fake toxic items in your body, and leaving them in there for YEARS at a time...
"Financial Costs. Breast implant surgery is not a one-time cost. On average, implants last 7-12 years, and each replacement adds to the cost. Even if the implant itself is replaced for free, or if the surgeon offers his or her services for free, the cost of the medical facility, anesthesiology, and other expenses can still cost many thousands of dollars for each surgery"
So what happens if your in a rough time and just lost your job, recently single again, your trying to feed your kids, and you now have a confirmed leaking of an implant but the cost of removal is too high for you. Whats your next move?
In a country with an unstable economy, something like breast implants is really setting yourself up for trouble if times get rough. Unless your fine with a back alley surgeons hack job removal. Even the E.R. is known for hack job removals in situations where they handle things.
Outside of medical reasons, such as reconstructive surgery, I find all plastic surgery utterly useless and it has a negative impact on our society.
Is it worth the risk of possible leaving your kids motherless because something goes wrong from an unnecessary procedure? Thats what it boils down to in my eyes. Thats why I have such a negative opinion of it.
And then think about your kids as teenagers, and you have to stand there and tell them "They are perfect the way they are" when they are feeling like trash, or someone insulted them, or they feel bad because of a breakup, etc,etc...and yet they look at your words that fall flat in their minds because...obviously you do not believe the very things you are saying to them.
People just do not look at how deep things are. EVERYTHING in life is interconnected on a web, and if something lands on one spot the vibrations from it are felt throughout. There are always side effects from any action we take.
Its not a simple "This results in this", it will all have an effect on you psychologically, mentally, physically, socially, etc. Often in perplexing ways that do not make sense to individuals until years later.