Came clean with my girl

Man I have mixed feelings about this. Been married 22 years and never I mean never had anything of this nature to have to explain to the wife. Im on my first cycle and have had incredible gains. I am very pleased with the results. I have yet to tell my wife. I admit it Im scared to tell her. Its easy for some guys to say nut up and tell her or kick her to the curb if she dont get the message. I call bullshit on that 1. Ive had Id say nearly a perfect marriage for 22 years ( dont get me wrong we`ve had bumps in the road ) but this would be the first of any illegal activities and I know her, she would flip out. Do I think our marrige would endure it..... yes! Do I think it would endure it if she simply found out.... yes! Both choices for me would have the same result..... that look of utter disappointment! That is what I dread the most! If I was a year or 2 in it would be (imo) a hell of a lot easier to have that take it or leave it attitude but Im not. So I choose the low road LOL the cat and mouse game. If she finds out so be it but its not going to be because I volunteired the information. I live in a world where illegal activities dont occur. I dont know if Ill ever have the guts to tell her! 10 weeks in and 2 left plus pct. Ive already started lining up my next cycle but it will be a few months down the road. To sum it all up..... I dont know what the fuck Im going to do! LOL
 
Karnehm said:
Man I have mixed feelings about this. Been married 22 years and never I mean never had anything of this nature to have to explain to the wife. Im on my first cycle and have had incredible gains. I am very pleased with the results. I have yet to tell my wife. I admit it Im scared to tell her. Its easy for some guys to say nut up and tell her or kick her to the curb if she dont get the message. I call bullshit on that 1. Ive had Id say nearly a perfect marriage for 22 years ( dont get me wrong we`ve had bumps in the road ) but this would be the first of any illegal activities and I know her, she would flip out. Do I think our marrige would endure it..... yes! Do I think it would endure it if she simply found out.... yes! Both choices for me would have the same result..... that look of utter disappointment! That is what I dread the most! If I was a year or 2 in it would be (imo) a hell of a lot easier to have that take it or leave it attitude but Im not. So I choose the low road LOL the cat and mouse game. If she finds out so be it but its not going to be because I volunteired the information. I live in a world where illegal activities dont occur. I dont know if Ill ever have the guts to tell her! 10 weeks in and 2 left plus pct. Ive already started lining up my next cycle but it will be a few months down the road. To sum it all up..... I dont know what the fuck Im going to do! LOL
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You say you have been married for 22 years you have to be in your 40s just go to the doc have him test your testosterone levels you should be low enough to be put on testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) and hide it that way she will never find out
 
Thedroidstr said:
You say you have been married for 22 years you have to be in your 40s just go to the doc have him test your testosterone levels you should be low enough to be put on testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) and hide it that way she will never find out
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Now bthis is a great idea!
 
I'm with everyone else. "Bigger, Faster, Stronger" corrected a ton of my own misconceptions. Hell, it lead me into doing my own research and eventually into my first cycle. Damn good documentary.
 
The problem with telling a girlfriend who buys the popular anti-steroid rhetoric is every time you get in an argument, or even seem slightly peeved, she's convinced it's "roid rage."
 
brother bundy said:
man I cheated on every girl i ever had they dont need to know shit
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haha
im suck a dick i only want to tell her so she can pin me and get gear to the house. i always keep it locked up in tool box and never told them shit. dont think i ever will...

my boy had some fucked up shit with his girl and AAS. they got divoced and she brought the empty viles to court and fucked up his visitation rights to his daughter. she said he was violent cuz of it. he lawyer told hime to wear baggy cloths so he would look so obvious haha hes 280lbs.
 
Jack Tors said:
haha
im suck a dick i only want to tell her so she can pin me and get gear to the house. i always keep it locked up in tool box and never told them shit. dont think i ever will...

my boy had some fucked up shit with his girl and AAS. they got divoced and she brought the empty viles to court and fucked up his visitation rights to his daughter. she said he was violent cuz of it. he lawyer told hime to wear baggy cloths so he would look so obvious haha hes 280lbs.
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Did you just say your "suck a dick"
Oh you meant "such" my bad
 
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I had to tell my girl the first week of dating bc we started fooling around and i was limp as a noodle from my deca. she took it pretty well and doesnt even care. i made her watch "bigger stronger faster" anyway just so she has an understanding of what im doing.
 
The problem with the cat and mouse game is when your ON, Your ON and after the cycle your libido and t levels are down, To me it is very obvious. Your wife / girlfriend has got to see the difference in the sack. How do you explain the sudden dis- interest?
 
Bullishness said:
The problem with the cat and mouse game is when your ON, Your ON and after the cycle your libido and t levels are down, To me it is very obvious. Your wife / girlfriend has got to see the difference in the sack. How do you explain the sudden dis- interest?
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there are tools to performing during post cycle therapy (pct) when test levels are lower, if needed

viagra, dostinex, and peptides are very helpful, bremlanotide and all kinds of other stuff.
 
Just my two cents but I've been with my girl for 15 yrs. I flat out told her I was starting a cycle well beforehand, of course she didn't agree with it, but she didn't argue the point either. I think the biggest problem with hiding it is that women get all hung up on the whole "you've been lying to me this whole time" angle. I think if you avoid the "lie" aspect your more likely to avoid the argument and have a discussion where she will be more receptive to common sense and facts (that is of course if your chick isn't fucking nuts, and if she is, you might want to get her hormones in check with a little aas. lol).:cum:
 
Jack Tors said:
haha
im suck a dick i only want to tell her so she can pin me and get gear to the house. i always keep it locked up in tool box and never told them shit. dont think i ever will...

my boy had some fucked up shit with his girl and AAS. they got divoced and she brought the empty viles to court and fucked up his visitation rights to his daughter. she said he was violent cuz of it. he lawyer told hime to wear baggy cloths so he would look so obvious haha hes 280lbs.
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yes this is what i mean when I say they dont need to know shit
 
When it comes up, I never lie. I tell anybody who asks. I explain to them that it was made illegal because of a baseball scandal in the 80s, and that the Congress asked the AMA if they should make it illegal, the AMA said no, absolutely not, and they did it anyway.

When you present it to them as the American Medical Association versus Congress, which is the truth, that's frequently all it takes. Everybody hates Congress. Another great thing is:

"Do I look unhealthy to you? What do your eyes say? Do you trust Congress more?"

I am self-employed and nobody can take my job from me over this. I don't live in the shadows, fuck anybody who doesn't like it. I'm a free man, the Founders would take my side in this in a heartbeat, I don't care if I don't live in a free country, I'm not being punked. I'll do whatever the fuck I please with myself. You think I'm a "cheater"? Well I just fucked your girlfriend. Suck it.

That said: the only people I do lie to are my parents. They know I'm on Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT), and my mom "knows" I game that to get bigger than I would otherwise be, but she's afraid I'll get prostate cancer and so I spare her the worry. Everybody else can just get used to it.
 
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