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ABSolutely20

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Hello Steroidology,

I haven't posted in a long time and I hope everyone is well. This post is in regards to a situation that I'm in, I started dating this girl about a year ago and her previous boyfriend was heavy into juicing. This information gradually serviced throughout the early part of our relationship and she noted it as something she really didn't like about him. She put me on the spot questioning me about whether I use steroids and I denied using them. I haven't cycled since August 2011 but I have the itch again and from her previous experience with a partner doing gear I don't know what to do. I'm posting to pick the brains of anyone with a similar experience or a helpful opinion about the matter. Thanks hope to hear from you all soon.
 
You've got 3 choices as I see it... don't do the cycle, do the cycle and tell her about it, or #3 what she doesn't know doesn't hurt her(until she finds out of course)... I chose door number 2 and after talking about it rationally she was content with it!!!!
 
Be honest man. I thought about hiding it from my wife long ago, and after talking to her about it - she's very supportive and even looking into doing a few Anavar (var) cycles when she feels ready. Hiding your usage will only blow up in your face. ;)

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i was put in the same situation as you being asked about it and denied it, then just got sick of hiding it finally told my ex and she had no problem with it her only problem was that i had lied to her
 
3dbowmaster said:
You've got 3 choices as I see it... don't do the cycle, do the cycle and tell her about it, or #3 what she doesn't know doesn't hurt her(until she finds out of course)... I chose door number 2 and after talking about it rationally she was content with it!!!!
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tell her.

ive been very open and honest with my new GF and she is supportive to the fullest. secrets cause damage to a relationship. i didnt tell my ex that i cycled and it ate away our relationship (she was not supportive of cycling or even the BBing lifestyle). im glad its over now and im with the new girl because she's so much more than what i had before as far as a connection.


truth is the best way to handle this. if she doesn't accept you and your lifestyle choices then there are better ones out there.
 
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Tell her....I showed my girl all the info that I had gathered the benefits and the risks, after many long discussions and questions by her she was ok with it. She even helped me notice psychological sides to some chemicals that I didn't realize at the time. I was dishonest with all my other gfs and with her I have been an open door and couldn't be happier now.
 
you bros put a lot of trust in women! haha i would never tell, women are too emotional and tend to get crazy after its over, then she could fuck you over pretty quick if she wanted to, idk personally, i wouldnt tell her
 
My fiance is a nurse, although I have not done an AAS cycle yet. I was into pro's. I'm currently getting everything ready for my first AAS cycle!! Im keeping her informed (she lets me know how she feels on what). but at the end of the day ill do what I want but she will know about it.
 
ABSolutely20 said:
Hello Steroidology,

I haven't posted in a long time and I hope everyone is well. This post is in regards to a situation that I'm in, I started dating this girl about a year ago and her previous boyfriend was heavy into juicing. This information gradually serviced throughout the early part of our relationship and she noted it as something she really didn't like about him. She put me on the spot questioning me about whether I use steroids and I denied using them. I haven't cycled since August 2011 but I have the itch again and from her previous experience with a partner doing gear I don't know what to do. I'm posting to pick the brains of anyone with a similar experience or a helpful opinion about the matter. Thanks hope to hear from you all soon.
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I'm on my first cycle now, started three weeks ago. Moved in with my girlfriend of almost two years a month and a half before that. Thought about hiding it but to me there was just no way that I couldn't get caught,went through it in my head and after much deliberation went ahead and told her. Like most girls she through a bit of a fit initially and we had a few arguements over it but after I showed her my research and that I was being as safe as possible she came around. She's really supportive of it now.

My advice bro, tell her and be prepared for the shitstorm that comes after it but stand ground and if she wants to stay with you she'll learn to accept it.
 
Ya I would tell her. If this turns serious for you, then it will be a bigger problem. I told my fiancé I wanted to cycle again (did it before I knew her) and she was cool with it. Just had to explain the safety measures I was taking and put to ease all the media misconceptions about it.
 
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it all depends on the girl you're with...I certainly don't think the telling would work with everyone
 
Just be honest if she cares she will support u in anything. I hid it at first from my new girl she's a nurse so I was like I'm sure shes seen it all and now she helps out with everything does all the pinning for me it's hella cool now
 
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