Did your wife or GF knows your on gear??
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crazyfmike
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crazyfmike
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My EX would never snitch me off to this very day. I picked a strong willed woman Pandie and don't have to worry about chicken shit BS if we ever parted.
If you married a spouse that roll on you like that......trust me you picked that type of power player from day one, they were always that POS.
End of story.
If you married a spouse that roll on you like that......trust me you picked that type of power player from day one, they were always that POS.
End of story.
pikiki
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Agreed with you man, and thats how a relationship should be. You should married someone that roll with you in everything like you said brotha...I get divorced 2 times and never had a problem with nothing, they still my friends. I think??? lol
javaguru
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Never let your SO know unless you trust them completely. I know guys that have been burned by women they trusted implicitly, they were married, but when the shit hit the fan during the divorce the police were tipped off to their personal stashes that qualified for distribution under the government rules.
SykotikTaj
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When I met my misses I was on gear, heavy built, quite nice actually, so she never said anything because I was doing it before her.
I took time off and lost all dieting an training etc, let myself go. Now I'm back in the game, had a few cycles while still being with her and she has only commented once and I shut her down, my house, my body, my fuckin rules. I know what I'm doing so what's the problem.
I got her educated on it, now she's actually started a Clen cycle for herself. Education is a big part I've found...
And owning your balls like mike said. Lol
I took time off and lost all dieting an training etc, let myself go. Now I'm back in the game, had a few cycles while still being with her and she has only commented once and I shut her down, my house, my body, my fuckin rules. I know what I'm doing so what's the problem.
I got her educated on it, now she's actually started a Clen cycle for herself. Education is a big part I've found...
And owning your balls like mike said. Lol
pikiki
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I belived trust, education and a set of balls will make things work for everyone at home, lol...
Ya know, this amazes me.
The following scenario is totally hypothetical, by the way:
It's like if I were going through a divorce and I decided to go to the cops and tell them about my husband's cocaine problem. Then went on to describe how often he obtains his coke, where from, how often, and that he uses in front of the kids and myself. At some point here *I* am also responsible. I knowingly allowed an illegal substance in my home and never uttered a word about it when it repeatedly happened in front of my kids until my husband and I were going our seperate ways and I decided to use this info as leverage. I call bullshit.
I'm sorry, but there's more to everyone's divorce and how the rulings played out then the wife simply saying that her husband was on gear to be vindictive.
There's three sides to every story in these situations. The husband's side, the wife's side, and the truth somewhere in between......
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pikiki
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There`s anyone with Law back ground that can add some kind of advice on this matter, about if this can be use in a court against someone in a divorce case? I think there is people not only females but man as well that can go as low and try to do things like this against their ex, the point in here is how we deal with this at home and not who gets F****p at a divorce. just my point and not trying to tell people hows their opinions should be. And I like that we are talk about diffrents situations why trust and why not. Good points of view here.
I think the issue in a case like this would be left to interpretation. Was the gear considered personal use, or for distribution? So many variables in divorces, from what lawers are used to what judge you get and how dirty each party is willing to play.
My point was simply that if it ever came to a divorce situation, one would hope your soon to be ex would leave that part alone. If not, the argument would be that the other party knew full well what was going on.
Personally, I am not vindictive. I've walked away from a relationship and started completely over. Left everything..house, furniture, all material possetions, even walked away from the joint bank account. Just took the dog I had prior to the marriage. No kids came from that relationship, but if they had, I wouldn't have kept them from their dad.
I'm now very happily married with three kids. If my husband walked into the house right now and said he'd just had an affair, I'd deal with it civily. What ever issues he and I would have wouldn't change the fact that he's an amazing father. I refuse to have my kids suffer any more than neccessary due to adult issues.
The real issue is, what kind of person os your spouse? Nice is one thing, but it takes intergrity to be an adult about everything if the relationship goes sour.
My point was simply that if it ever came to a divorce situation, one would hope your soon to be ex would leave that part alone. If not, the argument would be that the other party knew full well what was going on.
Personally, I am not vindictive. I've walked away from a relationship and started completely over. Left everything..house, furniture, all material possetions, even walked away from the joint bank account. Just took the dog I had prior to the marriage. No kids came from that relationship, but if they had, I wouldn't have kept them from their dad.
I'm now very happily married with three kids. If my husband walked into the house right now and said he'd just had an affair, I'd deal with it civily. What ever issues he and I would have wouldn't change the fact that he's an amazing father. I refuse to have my kids suffer any more than neccessary due to adult issues.
The real issue is, what kind of person os your spouse? Nice is one thing, but it takes intergrity to be an adult about everything if the relationship goes sour.
pikiki
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MT.momma I did understood your point and I know I don`t have that problem at home. She is just all support even if she is not agreed with me on this she support me, anyway I will do it agree or not but I trust her and she make her point about the kids too. And my kids are my life. But I did agree with you and the way you and the other ladies has respond is well respect it from me.
pikiki
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Are you still doing it or did you stop??
Pik- you sound like you have a good wife. I feel most women's initial fear or reservation about their significant other using gear is the bad rap about roid rage. They are worried that from the moment of the very first pin that their guy is going to become some sort of uncontrollable tempermantal angry hulk. The thoughts spiral from there. Like all of the sudden they worry about riding in a car for fear of you cutting people off with road rage or worry that you'll flip a lid at a family gathering and tell your in laws to go f-off. These fears come from the uneducated media.
In reality, I've found that the proper cycle actually improves mood, overal well being and of course, libido. That's a reality many women have yet to experience in their significant other.
No doubt that someone who abuses cycles can certainly turn into an very unpleasant person to be around, though.
In reality, I've found that the proper cycle actually improves mood, overal well being and of course, libido. That's a reality many women have yet to experience in their significant other.
No doubt that someone who abuses cycles can certainly turn into an very unpleasant person to be around, though.
pikiki
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^^ You know MT. I think my actual wife is the best for me, she does fear roid rage and some other stuff cause she is not really educated on the gear but thats my fault. But she said will be able to sit down and listen to what I said once I get back home. Thnx for your commenst in here it`s show an educated Ladies point of view about this. Support and trust!!!
DaHurt
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My fiance doesn't know yet...and I've just about completed a 14 week cycle.
My plan is to tell her when it's done, so that we can look back and reflect on the fact that there was no such thing as 'roid rage' or really no other change in my mood...except for the libido increase.
She'll be a little mad that I kept it from her, but I'll explain why...so hopefully it will work out
pikiki
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This^
My fiance doesn't know yet...and I've just about completed a 14 week cycle.
My plan is to tell her when it's done, so that we can look back and reflect on the fact that there was no such thing as 'roid rage' or really no other change in my mood...except for the libido increase.
She'll be a little mad that I kept it from her, but I'll explain why...so hopefully it will work out
I strongly belive that she will understand your point and yes she may get a lit bit mad cause you hide from her but I recommend from that point on count on her all the time. But make sense what you did, it works diffrent with each individual and situation.
American-Angel
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Im assuming all ladies on a site called steriodology would be pretty understanding about a partner using gear.lol being in a relasionship isnt a fasion statememt,its a serious dam commitment. You only get to live this life once, there are no "do overs". If you feel strongly about wanting to use gear, and are a responsible grown adult,then dont choose someone who cant trust your descion making skills. Us awsome chics on here show we do exsist.
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