Do you tell your old lady?

I cannot repeat this enough, tell your wife/partner, if your marriage is made of the right stuff then she will support your choices.. my wife pins, me, reminds that it's the day to pin and even lets me get away with stealing some Anavar (var) from her now and then.
 
backfired? Worked as planned. I have a sense or humor and I've read plenty of posts where everyone posting here has one also.
Continue on.
 
If/When the shit hits the fan in a relationship, you will wish that you kept it to yourself. Furthermore; assuming that you have a seemingly understanding partner, chances are that the slightest disagreement/argument will be blamed on steroid use.
 
If/When the shit hits the fan in a relationship, you will wish that you kept it to yourself. Furthermore; assuming that you have a seemingly understanding partner, chances are that the slightest disagreement/argument will be blamed on steroid use.

100% agree. When we would get in an argument or something, she would automatically blame it on the test. So now the only thing I take to her knowledge is test
 
Don't tell them ever, if you do every single time you are in a bad mood, have an argument, get upset, etc. it will be because of them. Hell even your good moods will be somehow affected by them. It will destroy the relationship
 
You have quite a cynical approach to a relationship.. I believe it comes down to how well you know yourself and how well you know your partner. me, kind of hard for my wife to blame a fight et. al. on test when she's doing test and Anavar (var) as well. Also we've spent allot of years talking and dealing with issues that could have caused problems but ended up making the relationship stronger.
I suppose if you know your in a shallow or tenuous relationship then probably worth thinking about telling the person.. but how much worse will it be is she comes across your gear, then the trust goes away and the relationship is further down the drain then previously.

Also I think the socio implication in the US are vastly more aggressive then in Canada when it comes to steroid use and who knows, my neighbour is a provincial prosecutor, ( similar to a state's attorney ), he's got no issue and if there's 1 charge a year for steroids .. it's an odd year for them.


If/When the shit hits the fan in a relationship, you will wish that you kept it to yourself. Furthermore; assuming that you have a seemingly understanding partner, chances are that the slightest disagreement/argument will be blamed on steroid use.
 
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You have quite a cynical approach to a relationship.. I believe it comes down to how well you know yourself and how well you know your partner. me, kind of hard for my wife to blame a fight et. al. on test when she's doing test and Anavar (var) as well. Also we've spent allot of years talking and dealing with issues that could have caused problems but ended up making the relationship stronger.
I suppose if you know your in a shallow or tenuous relationship then probably worth thinking about telling the person.. but how much worse will it be is she comes across your gear, then the trust goes away and the relationship is further down the drain then previously.

I disagree, unless you're a psychic and know what your future holds. Anyone's life can be turned around in a heartbeat. There's nothing wrong with being cautious, especially in this day and age. It's in everyone's best interest. But I get it. You're in love and you can't imagine hiding anything because it makes you feel guilty and insecure. That's human nature and nothing wrong with it, but my opinion differs.

It's not random that most marriages fail. That's a good enough statistic to be cautious. For me at least. I'm just not one to follow my heart first. People are different.
 
I disagree, unless you're a psychic and know what your future holds. Anyone's life can be turned around in a heartbeat. There's nothing wrong with being cautious, especially in this day and age. It's in everyone's best interest. But I get it. You're in love and you can't imagine hiding anything because it makes you feel guilty and insecure. That's human nature and nothing wrong with it, but my opinion differs.

It's not random that most marriages fail. That's a good enough statistic to be cautious. For me at least. I'm just not one to follow my heart first. People are different.

I think it starts to fail when you lose the trust and lack communication.
 
I told my wife, she blamed a few little things on steroids but when it comes to something major she don't bring it up. If something crazy happend and we split I honestly don't think she would hold it against me in court
 
I work with a few guys... And like most of us are hot heads but.. Actually, the other day when I walked in one of the guys was like, "Eh, we always get in shit for when we go off because we gear. We can just blame it on the juice." Man, did i want to slap him for saying that!

Don't ever fucking think when I explode at work that it's the gear talking because, it's not. I'm probably ten times worse off then, on.

He seems to think different. Tool.
 
I disagree, unless you're a psychic and know what your future holds. Anyone's life can be turned around in a heartbeat. There's nothing wrong with being cautious, especially in this day and age. It's in everyone's best interest. But I get it. You're in love and you can't imagine hiding anything because it makes you feel guilty and insecure. That's human nature and nothing wrong with it, but my opinion differs.

It's not random that most marriages fail. That's a good enough statistic to be cautious. For me at least. I'm just not one to follow my heart first. People are different.

This. Even if you think you'll be together forever things might change. I just broke up with a girl I was with for a year and a half. Told her everything about my use and she was fine with it at first. Then when we broke up it was immediately because somehow the "steroids have changed me" and she went and told all her friends that I used. Nothing happened because of it, but it could've been way worse.
 
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