Having trouble getting it up w/ new partners, this cant be in my head!?

numba1scrapper

Beast in training
I've been having this issue ever since I used Deca.. At first I was CERTAIN it was the deca, but now im not so sure..

I've been banging this one chick whos just a friends with benefits kinda thing for about 2 years now.. My shit gets rock hard and I can last 45 minutes if need be.

Heres my problem

I've fucked 4 other girls besides this chick since ive taken the deca and have had the same issue with all of them!! My dick either DOESNT get hard, doesnt FULLY get hard, doesnt STAY hard and or I cum insanely quickly.

Im literally scared to fuck a girl bc im not sure if im gonna be able to get it up.. Me and a friend banged a girl the other day and the girl had to blow me to get me hard and then from the time it took her to take her pants off I was soft again.. when I finally banged her i lasted like... 2 minutes lol.


Is this all in my head?? I dont even like my friends with benefits, just pussy whenever i need it.. If it is how the fuck do i get over this!! It's fucking killing me.
 
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Cialis is you friend, at least use it until you get your head straight.
I had similar issues when I had a major injury and shattered my femur.
Long recovery and ED, doc gave me cialis because once it happens the first time then your head gets in the way and then your confidence is diminished.
 
id have to say its in your head. if you can perform without ed meds on another chick with no issues that tells me your shit is working fine. now that this is in your head you need to turn it off and get over the thought of being scared. go in with the attitude that your gonna crack the bitch in half and you will be fine. gl hardpr. ps they dont call me hardpr for nothing lol
 
i actually very much dislike the fuckbuddy lol she just stalks the shit out of me and is so DTF that I just go with it.

Cialis AND Viagra dont do anything anymore like they used to.. ill pop 200mg of Viagra and it wont do anything.

I've tried thinking all different kinds of things when im about to bang a new girl, still the same results.. Idk wtf is wrong with me lol.
 
It has to be in your head if you are perfectly fine with the fuck buddy. I've had this problem before with new partners. I take anti-depressants so I have to take viagra and cialis all the time but fuck it.
 
Do I jerk off you mean? lol

Sometimes when a vagina is not available, yes. lol

Try NOT doing that for a while. Just from personal experience. I do not do that anymore...I stay harder longer and sex feels way better. Your dick is more sensitive and is aroused easier from having little to no contact with Mr. Hand.
 
Fuck that!! I love Pussy but i also love rosey palms. When you gotta release well you gotta release!! That's the prob with test your always horney.
 
It sounds to me like the friends with benefits girl is ugly and he doesn't want the buddies to know she even exists lol. Not tryin to be a dick bro we've all been there!

I personally and not a big fan of jerkin it. To me it's kind of like playing video games, you can fuck around with it all day long but at the end of the day you've really accomplished nothing.
 
Try NOT doing that for a while. Just from personal experience. I do not do that anymore...I stay harder longer and sex feels way better. Your dick is more sensitive and is aroused easier from having little to no contact with Mr. Hand.


speaking the truth
 
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