He's only a friend
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of course there are exceptions to the scenario but for the most part, its true. I've been on both sides of the spectrum so i'm talking from experience. You and Nicole are definite exceptions, how else would you explain two women begging stromba to go to the titty bar? Maybe next time, we can actually convince stromba to come out hang with the not so tired people... 
Puddles said:Hey, Sushi, don't think it's THAT easy! Remember when we met...Nicole and I wanted to go to the titty bar and Stromba didn't. Where was I? With HIM, not going off lookin for strange.
When the person you're with honors comitment, they will follow through.
T
Thoms
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does this 'friend' have a girlfriend of his own?
just a thought...
just a thought...
TheStromba
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chidoks said:of course there are exceptions to the scenario but for the most part, its true. I've been on both sides of the spectrum so i'm talking from experience. You and Nicole are definite exceptions, how else would you explain two women begging stromba to go to the titty bar? Maybe next time, we can actually convince stromba to come out hang with the not so tired people...
I am going to sleep...goodnight.
DJ VENOM
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seti said:
No way!your wife knows these guys are after her She more than likely fully understands what's going on.
If she invites this sort of behavior from these dudes you better have a talk with her !
Then go into the mindless violence.
Maybe you should make some girl friends and see what she thinks about that.
I_feel_nothing
Scientologist
DJ VENOM said:
Im in a simular situation with the current g/f, she has guy friends from work or whatever. She's pretty honest about everything (like anytime she goes out to eat with someone or whatever) The only thing that pisses me off is that anytime someone calls her when Im there, she wont say like "im hanging out with my b/f" which leads me to believe that she doesn't tell these dudes that she has one, because she likes the attention these guys give her because they all want her. (and she is smoking, so there is NO WAY any of these guys want anything more than sex, i can guarantee that ) Even then though, as long as she stays faithful, that doesn't even bother me, because im never one to turn down flirting with a girl at work or something, I would just never take it any further than that. HOWEVER, it seems immature to me, but sometime i feel like i should start giving out my number to some girls and have them calling me left and right when she's around and see how she likes this shit, but usually i think better of it, cause i kinda think that would be the begininning of the end if i started dropping down like that, i dunno, what yall think? puddles?
I_feel_nothing
Scientologist
TRYING TO SAVE THE WATUTU PEOPLE FROM WACHATI DAMNATION
(gotta say, some of the funniest shit I've seen in a while)
(gotta say, some of the funniest shit I've seen in a while)
I_feel_nothing
Scientologist
Puddles said:
Well that didn't help me...
Puddles
~Nurse~
I_feel_nothing said:
I think you should tell your g/f that it bothers you just like you said it here. I'm not into playing games in relationships. If after you tell her, she doesn't change, then sure, go ahead and play games. If she's not respectful of your feelings, then give her a taste of her own medicine, maybe she'll take the hint.
My husband has some female friends and when they call him or he calls them it's fine by me. They are friends and friends talk to one another. He can go out with them for drinks or a bite to eat, whatever. I trust him and he trusts me. Pretty simple.
Puddles
~Nurse~
DJ VENOM said:
Actually, I was defending the guys there. Seti said it was time to go have a talk with a few people...I took that to mean he was gonna go talk to the guys who are his wife's friends. I didn't want him to go nuts on them because M/F friendships can work, they can be innocent, even if there is an attraction. If she's gonna cheat on him, it's gonna happen no matter what he says to her friends.
I_feel_nothing
Scientologist
Puddles said:
Hope my other post here helped.
Yea, it did, Its kinda what i figured would be the right thing to do... now its just a matter of how im gonna bring this to her w/o her getting all flippy. She's real quick to get defensive and pissy about anything, she's kind of a powder keg (which i cant complain to much about, cause its something im guilty of) so now i just need to figure out how to approach her with it w/o having to throw her head through a window after she wigs out. (jokes).
Puddles
~Nurse~
I_feel_nothing said:
You know her best...just be careful with your wording. Try to not make it like you're accusing her of anything, just let her know it bothers you and when you're together you want her to say so to her guy friends. Tell her she's pretty and stuff, then kiss her.
