He's only a friend

[seti]

To the role reversals above. I am a sales rep for surgical equipment and a doctors nurse called me about a cases the next day ( nothing funky, just wanted to know if I was able to get the requested impants to the hospital ). It was later in the evening aroung 9pm. My wife was next to me when the call came in, put her ear close to my cell and heard a womans voice, and them threw a fit. I suppose it was a guilt talking. She would NEVER be ok with me being friens with women. After all, women only want one thing, right!

 

[I_feel_nothing]

pppffffsssttt.... fucking women man.... i wish i was gay.


(not you puddles, you're helpful, i adore you.)

 

[Puddles]

My wife was next to me when the call came in, put her ear close to my cell and heard a womans voice, and them threw a fit. I suppose it was a guilt talking. She would NEVER be ok with me being friens with women.

Not to be mean, but your wife's got issues. Either someone in her past cheated on her or she cheated on someone. How long have you 2 been together?

 

[seti]

Not to be mean, but your wife's got issues. Either someone in her past cheated on her or she cheated on someone. How long have you 2 been together?

Puddles, you are very insightful. Yes, she had been cheated on and has also been the one cheating many times. She grew up in Brazil ( Rio) and from what I understand, it's a little more aggressive sexually there. She is all to familiar with the game. She watched me like a hawk but at the same time does her own thing. I have been happily married for over 5 years and I'm starting to feel like I don't know who she really is.

 

[Puddles]

The early years are the most difficult. Don't let the communication break down because that's the worst! It took me a while to feel like I could be completely open with my husband and vice versa I'm sure. Tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels about things. Just loving someone isn't enough to make it work. Sometimes I find it easier to write than to just talk so I wind up writing letters to Stromba about issues that are tough for me to verbalize. I'm very emotional and can't keep my thoughts straight in a conversation sometimes. Writing lets me say what I want to say without freaking out, then we can talk about it. Maybe that would work for you two as well.

 

[gorilla_boy]

Any comments are welcome.

More of a question than a comment...

So, how do I taste?

 

[seti]

More of a question than a comment...

So, how do I taste?

Hahahahah......It was only a matter of time before these kind of comments surface. No problem man....keep up the good work.

 

[jcp2]

I have had many good girl friends, and i have ended up fucking everyone of them.

 

[CaptainAwesome]

its amazing how stupid some chicks are that they dont realize this.

 

[jcp2]

its amazing how stupid some chicks are that they dont realize this.

Wasn't always my intention, it just ends up happening.

 

[Slick Arrado]

Wasn't always my intention, it just ends up happening.

Sure.

 

[CaptainAwesome]

yeah, whether we ourselves are aware of it or not its always our intention.

 

[Slick Arrado]

yeah, whether we ourselves are aware of it or not its always our intention.

Preach on Capt.

 

[TheSizzler]

Funny this topic came up. My g/f had this friend who made it very obvious that he wanted up her skirt. The time came when i told her , look this guy is trying and will keep trying to get up your skirt. No no she said, hes a good guy. We like the same type of music so its nice having someone to talk to about it. Well , last week i confronted him in the bar, he was high on coke , broke down and started spilling his heart out to her while i was holding hands with her. Go figure, i was right. She was wrong. But still wont listen
Women Bhah

 

[didactic]

This is all bullshit there is NO such thing as friends my "girl" I say that very loosely because she slipped up the same exact way, had several guys around her that were "friends". Now all these dudes were used as leverage for me to realise that she is desired and wanted by othe rguys (as if I need that shit the girl is hot) but anyway one guy got particularly close to her and we had a bad run and YES HE FUCKED HER. Twice. Now she is all regretful and saying it was a mistake (which I have accepted for selfish reasons) but never EVER accept male friends. If a female really respects you and loves you she will cancel all the dudes in her life. But if you are like me and really dont give a fuck about these bitches I dont mind she got fucked cos Im gonna fuck her friends her cousins and every other hot chick she introduces me too. Karma and all that.

If this is your wife you are in trouble and one more thing females are way way more secretive than men she could be swallowing gallons of "friend" semen and you would never know until its too late.

 

[seti]

It is almost 100% unanimious........it just doesn't work....males will most likely want more than just a friendship and the girls are just unaware ( in most cases) that their male friend want to fuck them. I truely appreciate all the comments since I started this thread. I have learned a lot here and will not let her ( my wife ) convince me that " he's only a friend." Moving forward, if I notice another male getting to close, I will move him away whether my wife likes it or not. She has sworn to be more mindful to skeeming dudes as well. Let's see how it goes.

Thanks all for the comments.

 

[jcp2]

the only way it works is if one is attractive and the other is not. i could be friends with an ugly girl and not fuck her. But even this only works for those of us who don't drink anymore.

 

[kojie]

the only way it works is if one is attractive and the other is not. i could be friends with an ugly girl and not fuck her. But even this only works for those of us who don't drink anymore.

Have to agree, had some drunk nights w/ some ugly girls that i ended up banging.

 

[brennylee]

the only way it works is if one is attractive and the other is not. i could be friends with an ugly girl and not fuck her. But even this only works for those of us who don't drink anymore.

Agreed ^^^^

I don't have many dude friends now days. I learned about the guy friend theory in College...they wanna bang ya. If they have a girlfriend, then it's cool...but I am weary of the single ones. They are always awaiting a BF slipup or fight to mend your broken heart!! Pluuuuuuuuease!! The ones who are my friends now days, wouldn't even bother trying b/c a) I would never go there b) my BF would kick their ass.

My BF has a couple of chicks who are friends. And the way I see is, well if he cheats on me with one of them or with someone else, then screw him...his loss. I don't worry about shit like that...you can only control your own actions, what your partner does is their choice...if you don't like it then you have a choice to stay or leave.

 

[seti]

Agreed ^^^^

I don't have many dude friends now days. I learned about the guy friend theory in College...they wanna bang ya. If they have a girlfriend, then it's cool...but I am weary of the single ones. They are always awaiting a BF slipup or fight to mend your broken heart!! Pluuuuuuuuease!! The ones who are my friends now days, wouldn't even bother trying b/c a) I would never go there b) my BF would kick their ass.

My BF has a couple of chicks who are friends. And the way I see is, well if he cheats on me with one of them or with someone else, then screw him...his loss. I don't worry about shit like that...you can only control your own actions, what your partner does is their choice...if you don't like it then you have a choice to stay or leave.

Thanks, I really appreciate the female point of view.....still trying to figure out how u gals think.....I'm afraid I'll never get my arms around it.....for as many of you that realize what most men's true intentions are, many, many, many, many more have no clue.. Thanks again