He's only a friend

[kneedowngsxr]

My girl has several guy friends, some of which she has a "history" with. I dont really like it... but im not gonna be a controlling prick and tell her she cant talk to them.

I draw the line on her spending time alone at their places, and stuff like that though. I also told her she can hang out with anyone she wants to, but If i find out they are "trying" to get in her pants then she needs to either pick them or me. I have enough to worry about without wondering if her "friend" is saying 'oh come on your fiancee will never know, lets hook up'

She can be friends with them, even though I may not like it a lot... but if I feel like she isnt respecting me/ our relationship because of her friendship with them.. then its gonna be over.

 

[kneedowngsxr]

LOL! Im about to bone this chick that has been in a relationship for 5 years with the same guy. i feel horrible... wait... no i dont cause she wants it.

Dont blame "the other guy/woman".. blame the one thats willing to cheat.

If you dont do it someone else will. Not saying that I would do it if I were you, but if shes willing then her relationship is probably already fucked (at least in her mind)

 

[Big Dog]

Just to clear the air. Im 40 years old and been married for 20 years to the same chica. Im just the Alpha Dog and Alpha Dogs don't sweat other lower dogs punking their females. Cuz in the end the Alpha Dog always wins. NEXT PLEASE!

 

[G-13]

Dude if you want some friendly advice...and i dont know shit about women nobody does.But i do know this. You have to give them enough rope to hang themselves with, and just hope they don't do it. Im a jealous mother fucker, but my girl thinks im the most laid back guy on the planet because i act like i don't give a shit about what she does..up to a point. Because, if a woman is going to cheat on you, you can't and won't be able to stop them..and acting like a jealous overcontrolling freak will just make it worse, and they will see that weakness in you..so what if she goes and had coffee with some other dude. Just turn the tables and tell her about your luch date with cindy cums alot....anyway women want what they cant have unless they are truly happy where they are. And women are never fuckin happy. maybe for a moment..

 

[seti]

wow....I cant believe this thread is still active. Must have struck a nerve with a lot of us. Here is what I learned. For the most part, if the chick is remotley fuckable/attractive( 6 or above), dudes are friendly primarily because of that reason. 1/2 of the girls enjoy the attention knowing the dude is trying to score. The other half are in denial or just fuckin clueless. As men, an attractive woman is like crack cocaine to a junkie. Most of us if given the right opportunity, will close the deal. And we will press and press to do so. In conclusion, my wife can have friend. I realize that given the chance, most of these fuckers would love to park a hot load in her ass. Shit, I would probably like to park a load in their girlfriend/wifes ass too. I started this tread just to vent and get some opinions. Thanks for the responces.