I think the best I've ever gotten was an 8.5, but I had to work my ass for that one. A lot of teasing, and a lot of waiting around.
How do you all build your confidence to talk to girls or do you just walk into a group with your shirts off and flex?!
Still, I have a really hard time approaching 8s, 9s, and 10s.
The only thing I can do is talk their ears off. I use a lot of David Deangelo Techniques too. Those work big time.
What do you all use?
Look man, you're going about this all wrong. First of all, there is no such thing as a 10. I've met people who
think they're 10s though. There's no such thing as 8, or 9 either. Its all subjective. Most chicks you see out there are a 5. Some of them look a little better than others because of makeup and shit. And, I promise you, no matter how hot and beautiful, and sophisticated they look and act, even if you're the ugliest dude in the room as long as you look like you have some money most of them will find their way over to YOU. If you're a prettyboy and you've got some muscles, you don't have to case the joint either. Women go to these places looking for men who look like this. Whenever there's a bunch of women in a room and a dude like that walks in you know there's going to be competition so you can even do nothing at all and still get their attention. If you're a dude who has all three of these things working for you (money, looks, and physique) then shiiiiittt....you can ignore them completely and they'll STILL find their way over to you.
Now, if you've got the body but not the looks or any money, you might have to work the scene a bit, but you don't build up self-confidence to walk up to anybody---you're already supposed to have that on board. if you're interested in somebody, make eye contact and have fun playing the flirting game for a while. If she's interested you'll find out soon enough. Most of the so-called 10s are likely to be stuck-up bitches who are in a singles bar because they can't find a man who will put up with their bullshit. Think about it, why else would a super-hot young woman be by herself in a bar or club? Trust me, they're there looking for the same thing that you are--- action.
Say hi, offer to buy her a drink and compliment her on how beautiful she looks. Women eat that up like chocolate candy.
keep the conversation light and keep it fun. Ask her questions about herself and things that she likes to do. Women love to talk, and they love to talk about themselves. All you have to do is smile and act interested in everything she says and keep the drinks rolling. After a while tell her you like hangin' out with her because she's a lot of fun, then tell her you have to go and ask if she'd like to come back to your place for a little fun. If you played your game right she'll want to.
Now, for a guy who'd rather not waste time or money in a bar an internet personals ad might be a better way to play this game. The risk you take though is that online, every woman looks like Angelina Jolie and every man looks like Brad Pitt. So its best to agree to meet her some place in public so you can check her out first. If she doesn't look like the picture in her ad or the way she described herself then you can leave and not feel bad about it.
Happy hunting!
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