Need all hands on deck for this one!!!

[getfit5256]

My wife and I have been married for 5 years. We have made a good life and great relationship. Pretty much as good as anyone could ask for. Not to mention, my wife is hands down one of the most beautiful women you have ever seen.

With all that being said, here is the problem:
She has never had an actual orgasm. No matter what efforts are made, she cannot cum to save her life.

This started out as no big deal, but I am now starting to feel a void due to the satisfaction you get as a man by making your lady reach orgasm. This feeling is now spilling over into our, otherwise, perfect relationship.

Ladies of the board, is this common? If so, what can I do to break the spell?

Fellas of the board, had this ever happened to you? If so, what did you do to fix it?

 

[b_saan]

Do you have an orgasm when you have sex with her? If so then I fail to understand the issue here...


j/k ladies...

 

[GetToDaChoppa!]

Some women have problems having an orgasm because they have this feeling like they're going to urinate during intercourse or right before they climax. Not sure if this is the case with yours. My girl for example, wont reach climax without her nipples being played with... find her sweet spot...although I'm sure you tried everything already.

 

[sirxxxlew]

Anorgasmia. could possibly be an underlying medical condition and not something youre doing wrong.

 

[thatotherguy]

Some woman never have a orgasm their entire life. I advise seeing a doctor. But side note I never had a woman not orgasm.

 

[g2272]

All the women I have been with have been unable to orgasm.. I suspect that secretly they may have been Lesbians..

I don't have the answer but if it's not a deep emotional thing or caused by nervousness then I would really up the sex life to greater proportions and try out as many positions as possible , watch porn with her , vary things from gentle to rough , ask her to be more daring , maybe try sex with her outdoors , buy her a small vibe that she can wear inside her panties while she's at work etc.. Really need to find out what excites her and push things in that direction..

 

[Polynikes666]

PM Blondie and see if she'll move this over to the women's board.

Poly

 

[1badmofo]

Where is Snigg asking for pics?

That's a tough one. I had that problem when my wife took anti-depressants, sucks. I don't see how a woman cannot climax with a vibrator, but I know some can't.

 

[THE-DET-OAK]

maybe try the wi

its this u shaped vibrator that you put in her and then have sex, its good for you as well.

i dated a girl that swore she couldnt have an orgasim, so i got piss drunk off whiskey one night and went to town. i couldnt cum to save my life. after about 30-45 min of hardcore porn style sex she finally went.

seriously though check into the WI. maybe she justs needs more clitoral stimulation my man.

 

[juced_porkchop]

Anorgasmia. could possibly be an underlying medical condition and not something youre doing wrong.

i agreee

 

[juced_porkchop]

can she cum on her own thow?
like with toys?

it may be medical issue (or mental to some extant)

when i have sex she usually cums before me in under 20min, if shes in the mood and well if shes not then sex prob isnt happining so ..

then there was this girl that never CAME (was only with her a coupel months not 3 yrs thow)

so can she on her own?

 

[Die$eL~Man]

hit it right bro.... she'll cum

 

[getfit5256]

Anorgasmia. could possibly be an underlying medical condition and not something youre doing wrong.

This is something I will definitely being looking into. She is open to any suggestions I might come up with.

To answer other posts, we have used vibrators along with any type of sex you could imagine including various places.

Sex is very good, it just seems to lack the luster of finish. She is the only person I have had this happen with.

Oak- just Googled the Wi, put an order in for one and will report back on how it goes.

Thank you all for your valued input. I really appreciate it.

 

[JamieOleBoy]

Get rid of her. I fucked her last night. She was completely torn back on selective serotonin uptake inhibitors, pure MDMA, Jim Beam, Prozac and Sudafed...........then I roofied her. Just because I could. I have her tied up in my bomb shelter right now. She'll never be the same, and she fucks like Aunty Em anyways. No, worse, she fucks like a blowup doll, and she puked on me (which, incidentally I found kind of erotic, but then it disgusted me afterwards. The fact that I liked it made me feel ashamed of the whole episode.) She's used up man! She's a whore and when I met her, she kinda slurred at me "hey man!" That was the final straw.


Oh yeah, and she had a shirt on that said "I love snigg". Not the most fashionable woman ever.

 

[TonySuicideKing]

hahaha ever since i started my Winstrol (winny) cycle i cant ever blow a load LOL. im not complaining cause shit is giving me the stamina to keep going, BUT DAMN lol, it sucks cause it takes almost 2 hours to blow THEN i cant have sex for almost a week cause her vag is destroyed.... but... eh i have others i can hit up

 

[yadi79]

U need to find the "G spot"

 

[sirxxxlew]

hitachi magic wand used on her clit when ur fuckin her. this thing is the choice of quite a few porn stars for its power.(used to work for an adult entertainment company, no not performing lol) if that doesnt work send her for medical tests.

 

[cyto33]

gonna need to see if she can do it on her own. some women are just very unaware of there own bodys and have never learned what they like. or it couls be mental.
i would look for a sex therapist and get the pros advice.
if you lick her clit and just play with her with out you getting off will she cum.

 

[barrysanders]

Getfit- My GF has the same problem during sex. However, she can reach orgasm when masterbating and when I go down on her-but NOT during sex. She has been this way her entire life.

In your particular case you need to give her a vibrator and lock her in a room and tell her to go experiment on herself. Seriously, if she cant do it herself you will never make her cum.

 

[nabiller]

Seriously, if she cant do it herself you will never make her cum.

exactly what i was going to say. ive been with girls that cum when masterbating or oral, but not intercourse. for those, i give it a genuine try to do different things to be the first! that gives her one!

for girls that have never had orgasm, i'd imagine i would feel unmotivated, as i feel that if they dont know how to get themselves off, i will never figure it out.