need some dating advice

[Tribe6]

Yo i'm free....just holla at me

 

[rubberduckyo]

Yo i'm free....just holla at me

Oh yeah. You da man.

 

[chicmuscle]

Yes, Im back to my old self. Although I didnt gain that much weight I felt like I looked a lot bigger. I did get a little bigger, like my bicep is a good 1/4" bigger than it was and my quad is a good 1/2" bigger but I keep thinking that I look smaller. Its a total mind f*** when you go off stuff. Chelsea

glad to here you back to yourself. oh boy, im not looking forward to that. but if i get nan.d then it wont set i for like another week or so after the last shot. ill need a shoulder to cry on.

chichy

 

[Rokomuscle1]

Glad everything is ok...

 

[ladylexius]

I know how you feel. A lot of guys dont know how to handle a woman that is built. I am 5'6" and 140# at 11% bf and wear a size 6. I am recently single and at my age and size its not easy finding dates. Many guys love the way it looks but to acutally date you is another story. Besides at this point I don't think I could be with someone who is less muscular than me. This is the first time I have been in single in 10 years and its only been a month so I am still enjoying being on my own. Having kids help keep me busy as well as lifting. Smart move giving up your trainer. Change is good. It may be tough at first but you will be happier in the long run.

 

[Frosty]

I know how you feel. A lot of guys dont know how to handle a woman that is built. I am 5'6" and 140# at 11% bf and wear a size 6. I am recently single and at my age and size its not easy finding dates. Many guys love the way it looks but to acutally date you is another story. Besides at this point I don't think I could be with someone who is less muscular than me. This is the first time I have been in single in 10 years and its only been a month so I am still enjoying being on my own. Having kids help keep me busy as well as lifting. Smart move giving up your trainer. Change is good. It may be tough at first but you will be happier in the long run.

It's kinda the same for guys. Super thin and feminine is in for guys. Not too many girls like muscular guys anymore...and even less intelligent ones do. Being muscular usually attracts the wrong kinda girl, from my experience. Kinda like having a sports car...it's totally sweet, but it attracts the wrong girls lol.

 

[{R}a{G}e]

Frosty, i hear you on that one.

Alot of girls at my school all think i'm a freak because i want to get big, they say its nasty. As soon as i find that special one that thinks its cool and we click, well i'll be happy !!

As for you being 5'6 chelsea and 125, i don't consider you that big that guys should not ask you out. There are a few girls that are in my gym back home that are probably right around or even over that size and they look Great!
Don't get bummed, keep doing what you love and something good will happen in time.