coolhandjames
I am b@nned !
Your husbands not staking steroids i swear.
Please tell my wife I'm not staking steroids!!!
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ccpro
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Anony-James
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Imagine how it is with a 25 year old girlfriend who only wants it once a week a most... The test is killing our relationship one stiffy at a time lol
Dreaded Pirate Roberts
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Frustrated1
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Start looking now.
I'm going to have to agree on this one. At 25 she should want it almost all the time. Something's wrong, either with you or her. Maybe it is you, take an honest look at yourself. If its not you, then she's got to go. Start looking now.
Anony-James
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From speaking to her ex, it's always been a problem for her. She got pissed at me last night because she keeps saying that she thinks once a week is on the high end of normal...and didn't like that I called bullshit. Even from an evolutionary biology perspective that's crap...hormonally she should be going ape shit to procreate.
I told her that it might change hormonally once she hits 30...but that I can't deal with it for 5 years on the "hope" that it would. She either needs to get her hormone levels checked or figure out where the mental hang up is.
I told her that it might change hormonally once she hits 30...but that I can't deal with it for 5 years on the "hope" that it would. She either needs to get her hormone levels checked or figure out where the mental hang up is.
LittleJohnny
6-Pack in Training
I had a 26 year old girlfriend like that many years ago. She told me she wanted to still be my girlfriend, but I should go find some other girl to satisfy me sexually. She said it seriously. I took her up that offer and lo and behold, she got angry. Imagine that.
If I were you I'd tell your girlfriend to hit the bricks. Any 25 year old chick who doesn't want sex DAILY is not worth your time. There's too many other hot chicks that would love the fact that you want to drive them through your headboard.
qcomer
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I have the same problem since starting HRt/TRT especially through Chip.
I want sex all the time now. Im lucky if it happens once every 3 weeks or once a month.
Im 23, she is 24. Hoping I have her semi-convinced to go get her labs ran. I just dont know of any good local doctors that deal with female hormones as I couldnt even find a good one for me and ended up going with God, aka Chip.
carverelli
I am banned!
IMO, a man cant think staight until his hormones level drop under under his eyes. THe best way I knoe to lower the level is to pound the gf/wife into submission eod at least
qcomer
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Unfortunately thats not an option and a constant argument. So, I resort to handling it myself the other 29 days of the month..... hah. Sad, but nothing I can do but laugh.
carverelli
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dont feel bad bro, I'm in the same boat....and I'm rowing all by myself it would seem,lol
Frustrated1
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Guys. Start working out to make yourself desirable looking, and be a genuinely nice guy to make yourself a real catch. Do some chores around the house, and make her feel special. Sex follows. If not, you really are a great catch now, so move on.
MoparMuscle
Amateur Bodybuilder
Girls don't have the same drive as men you can't expect it but frustrated's advice is good. Help her, make her feel loved and look decent. I get some every day sex, bj, nice hj if I want (sometimes it's nice) or even a titty fuck. She understands my needs and provides for them even if she's not in the mood. It's a habbit now for her which is nice.
qcomer
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I do, do all of that. She even says she has absolutely ZERO desire for anything sexual...even with herself or toys. Its something that has gotten worse in the last 2 years but really bad the last year.
Gonna have her go get some labs ran. She used to be turned on all the time. Now, she says she wants it...but her body lacks the desire. Same way I was able to describe it before TRT.
ccpro
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My problem now seems small! My wife may be overconcerned with my testosterone replacement therapy (TRT), but she's not shooting me down b/t the sheets. I remember in my 20's, sex was everyday, all the time....you guys should not be settling for anything less. If it's your wife, keep helping her out with what we call "the bullshit" and it will come. I swear wives' get turned on by us taking more resposnibilty with the home duties....I swear! If it's a girlfriend then put her down the road, sex is part of a healthy relationship. You can nudge them along to get checked out, but at that age it sounds more mental or you guys just need a break or a change. Women have the same wants/needs as us, don't wrap a hormone deficiency around it so quick. Of course it could be something physiological, but that is a hard fight...she won't want to hear it from you. Befriend their friends/sisters and have them strategically approach it. Women hate to hear that you are the resident expert and they need to listen to your advice....that's a hard sell. My half cent. Good luck!
dfeaton
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This ^^^^
If a girlfriend is not giving you sex when she is in her 20's guess what happens if she becomes your wife....
Fuck that!
Move on!
Zeek
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I've been lucky in past relationships, I've never run into a woman that didn't want sex at least as often as I did. They usually want it more often!
I better knock on wood. I don't know what I would do in a relationship where sex was a rare thing. I don't require it daily but damn 3x per week at least!
I better knock on wood. I don't know what I would do in a relationship where sex was a rare thing. I don't require it daily but damn 3x per week at least!
Anony-James
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Sadly my girlfriend's friends are even more frigid than she is. We're talking months with sleeping with their husbands/boyfriends.
I'll admit I'm doing what I can to drop my weight, dress better, lift more, and apply this renewed productive energy to improving my place in the world. Hopefully that'll spur some renewed interest but if not at least I'll be in a better place to find a more suitable mate if she refuses to see that infrequent sex IS a problem.
ccpro
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Your on the right track...just take away all her excuses. Be a better man, husband, friend, etc. give her no reason or excuse. If that doesn't work, tell her your thoughts...it's not unatural for you to want sex and sounds like her friends are manhaters...lol.. Good Luck.
