She won't get off!!

Yes she gets off by rubbing her clit. The bump area...this is crazy, I can't find hers. My ex girl friend had one and she would go crazy. It worked best when I circled around the bump with my finger. I remember that was the first thing I thought of when I first fingered my wife...where's the bump? She gets off, just not during sex...however, she has never had her clit rubbed while having sex.
 
moonpie said:
, she has never had her clit rubbed while having sex.
And why haven't you done this yet? Come on now this should have been done along time ago. Get her from behind and give her the old reach around. Try to get into a position were your dick is rubbing her G-spot at the same time this should help you out.
 
chidoks said:
lots of women have this problem
Yes, and lots of men probably aren't good in bed. My wife never had an orgasm from sex until she met me.

moonpie: Every woman is different and even the same woman can respond differently at different times. Keep trying new things. My generic advice is to not give her as much stimulation as she wants. Less is more, so to speak. But gradually increase intensity.

Or just fuck her hard as hell (assuming she enjoys it, of course).
 
Thanks for the ego boast Insane Man. Actually previous girls did get off. I don't think it is just my sex. Thank you to all those that have given good honest responses and not stupid comments.
 
BronzedGoddess said:
I'm the same way. It's just the way I am, A LOT of women don't have orgasms, and a lot that do FAKE IT. Sorry guys it's true. I think watching porn has given y'all guys the wrong impression. It's not that easy. The good thing is most women have their first orgasm once they hit their 30's so there is hope.
You are sleeping with the wrong men BG! In all honesty, Ive been with my fair share of different girls. I finally found one who can actually have multiple orgasms during sex. As for the others, not a chance in hell. Some could cum during sex, most couldnt at all.

And as for most women getting their very first orgasm in thier thirties?? Im gonna have to seriously disagree with you!
 
DougoeFre5h said:
And as for most women getting their very first orgasm in thier thirties?? Im gonna have to seriously disagree with you!
First orgasms through penetration. Not oral or manual.
 
i was just dating a girl like this...and i really dont think its me...my last ex i could get to go in seconds in right positions...but we were also together for a long time and really perfected our sex..but this last one...nothing worked, got to be frustrating..shed get close but she couldnt let go...and it wasnt with me, she said shes never had one...i say get a smaller vibrator and hit the clit while having intercourse...thats the best bet, but all in all, dont get down on yourself its most likely mental on her part...
 
Some girls just don't thru penetration and some do like crazy. Those are the fun ones.
 
Start going down on her like you know where the bump is. When it comes up, give it a little suction. Just a little. Then up and down strokes with your tongue.

If this doesn't work, there are topical products that are designed to stimulate the blood flow to a womans' nether regions.

I wouldn't obsess over this, but I would give it a high priority, since you are married.
 
That would be her clit, the bump that BG is talking about is her G-spot.
 
has she orgasmed through masterbation? This is the key as she will find out what she likes. Trust me ive given some their first by doing this...

if they cant give them selves one you get them a GOOD vibrator. Not a big fucking dick dildo, a little vibe. That will get them off for sure. Then they will know what feels good and what doesnt. My girl can only come when shes on top of me and if shes not warmed up real good i have to last like 50 minutes (if i can...) sometimes that wont work either. keep at it and get her a vibe
 
It just depends on the girl man.. the one I was with for the past 5-6 months could get off soooo easily... mostly in certain positions though. You just have to learn them. She told me the other night that she only had 2 orgasms before me.. and now she will have literally 4-7 every time (trust me she's a semi-squirter lol). You just have to learn w/ your woman and she has to be comfortable and relaxed (at least mentally)...

:doggy: :cum:
 
My ex wife was like that. She didn't have an orgasm in 6 years of marraige. I think her head was warped from being raised to think sex was dirty. She liked sex, just could never cum
 
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