so why did she ask this?

[lilbigman]

Okay, I am pretty new to the forums but readin some of these threads inspired me to tell yall about an experience I had last week. Now I am playing host to this sexy ass girl, where sitting on my couch watching a movie (Bridget Jones) her choice of course but like I gave a shit. Well out the blue she starts complaining about back pain and wants a massage so I say No, get the fuck out...kidding I oblige a begin to rub her back. This was weird to me because we had gone out plenty of times before and I got nothing from her, no signs, nothing! So anyways i am rubbing her back...one thing leads to another and we are making out, on the couch, on the floor. I am sucking on her neck and caressing her breast, and then she asks me "Do you have a lot of girlfriends?" as in female friends and I said "Well alot of my friends are girls but not all of them." and then she asks "Are you currently doing this stuff with other girls?" and I said no...WTF was that about. I don't think I messed up be admitting I have alot of girlfriends cause I proceeded to suck on her things and pussy and we continued to make out for another hour or so but what's the deal. Why did she ask me that? Fellas, ladies...anyone?

 

[strongfoot]

Maybe she's trying to find out if you have a girlfriend in a different way then just asking you straight up.

 

[lilbigman]

Hey lilbig, I'm no prophet, but I think it's easy to see that she's checking you out for disease. In her mind: "Gee, I'd sure like this guy whose fondling my breasts to nail me, but if he's too experienced with the girls, I just might catch something."

Just my opinion.

Satient2003

Yeah that's a good point...but what a hell of a thing to ask in the midst of it all ya know...sounds like something that should be ask in the "getting to know you stage" while your sippin coffee at Starbucks or something. I figured she didn't just want to be another girl that I fool around with. Haven't talked to her much since, she seems distant...which is a shame cause she is damn hot and I would love another night with her.

 

[mcgyver]

shes a woman, they want to be the most important thing going on, during sex, they don't think about sex like we do, they think about how wonderful life is and how much attention you are paying, I screwed up on the same question twice, both girls (at different times unfortunately) asked "why are we doing this" when it was definately heading in the direction of full on naked sex. like a dumb ass, both times i answered what i wanted to hear, which was "because you want me", both of them stopped, got up and said I was suppose to say because I wanted them. simple syntax error i thought, but a definate deal breaker with them. IF YOU'RE GOING TO TELL A GIRL WHAT YOU THINK SHE WANTS TO HEAR, ACTUALLY HAVE SOME IDEA WHAT SHE REALLY WANTS TO HEAR. I love women, they're simple, if you absolutely rule out the chance of having sex, just be fun, chatty, nice, complimentary, there is a good chance that you might actually get some sex. (or they'll think your gay) ha,

 

[Die$eL~Man]

wtf ? did ya bone her yet ? pics ???

 

[lilbigman]

wtf ? did ya bone her yet ? pics ???

Naw Diesel, I aint boned her yet...we haven't really talked about much since then.

 

[pssyeater]

she may have fuck over by some asshole who fucked his girl--friend when they were togeather, or she could be bi...but she would probably have her own girls for that.........the disease thang is also a good theary..................i've found that if you go down and make her cum!.. she'll ride the pony for sure........

 

[Nicole]

I think shes just trying to find out where she fits in- within your life- if shes special compared to your other female friends... and may to see if you admit sluttin around..

 

[pssyeater]

absafuckinglootly

I think shes just trying to find out where she fits in- within your life- if shes special compared to your other female friends... and may to see if you admit sluttin around..

very true....................

 

[lilbigman]

I think shes just trying to find out where she fits in- within your life- if shes special compared to your other female friends... and may to see if you admit sluttin around..

see that's what i was thinking but she don't act like she is that interested. kinda distant now and haven't really talked to her. I invited her out a couple of times since but she didn't say yes. So shit really doesn't make sense. See i was thinking "she is askin me questions cause she is interested and possibly wants a lil more than friendship" but had she not asked those questions I would have accepted that night for what it was which was messing around. Askin questions sometimes throws shit off.

 

[Bimmer]

women are the strangest living things there are, period! They play all sorts of mind games and do all sorts of weird shit to get in tune. This is what I can never understand, why the fuck not just ask the real ?, whats the need for games. Damn bitches. Sorry had to vent.

 

[lilbigman]

women are the strangest living things there are, period! They play all sorts of mind games and do all sorts of weird shit to get in tune. This is what I can never understand, why the fuck not just ask the real ?, whats the need for games. Damn bitches. Sorry had to vent.

Oh yeah fo sho! I feel ya on that one! See, I shoot straight and for that I am an asshole but if Iwant sex then I make it clear that this is not going anywhere and most of the time girls are appreciative of the fact I am being honest. But i don't do the mind game shit...highschool is over! Well, I just spoke to her and she agreed to hangout with me tomorrow night so I'll let yall know what the deal is!

 

[gorilla_boy]

I would have told her something like "Yeah, I have a few others. You want to get in on it?".

 

[Insane_Man]

she think you a pimp nigga

dont act a fool, slap the bitch

 

[lilbigman]

she think you a pimp nigga

dont act a fool, slap the bitch

yeah insane I might just have to if she keeps playing the mind games with me! I'll break a bitch off and won't think twice to do it again!

 

[uff]

I think shes just trying to find out where she fits in- within your life- if shes special compared to your other female friends... and may to see if you admit sluttin around..

ditto

 

[Polyamorous]

well dumb ass maybe she was tryingto figure if you were a playa or if u were currently with another girl DUH!

 

[Polyamorous]

if u really need help with girls just ask DiscoFever