The term "hang out"

Georgia said:
True story. :nono: nookie for Mr. Hang Out
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This dude isnt getting any nookie from me; he can hit up Plenty of Fish dating site for that. I was just someone who helped motivate him to eat right and provide him with training suggestions.
 
Listen...if you even said hey to a guy at like a party...he automatically assumes he can try to hit you up one night for sex. Every single girl is open game
 
I just got Skyped by him... Every single morning he skypes me
Before l left work yesterday i had asked "what would you like to do if and when we were to hang out?"


H replies
"if we hang out, we could go for a walk, play pool, watch a movie, go fishing, etc..."


Should I ask him if he expects on getting any Nookie from me? Hahaha... Why can't the dude just stick to questions about diet and exercise.

I don't wanna hang out with him, I don't know him well enough to want to spend quality time with him.
 
If you don't like him that way Smilee, just move on and forget the guy. He is in a bad way right now and looking for comfort.
 
Zeek said:
If you don't like him that way Smilee, just move on and forget the guy. He is in a bad way right now and looking for comfort.
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Thank you Zeek... I have not replied back to him. I will stop communicating with him bc I do not like him in that manner, I don't want to comfort him.
 
Georgia said:
Every single girl is open game
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Dude, being in the army for a long time in a rapid deployment unit, even most married women are open game because they make it that way. Going out to clubs while daddy is away without a ring but a tan line on that finger.

Smilee, just tell dude to kick rocks and he will leave you alone. Most dudes will just assume every girl wants to fuck him but as soon as you tell him no, trust me no more problems from stalker dude
 
Infantry87 said:
Dude, being in the army for a long time in a rapid deployment unit, even most married women are open game because they make it that way. Going out to clubs while daddy is away without a ring but a tan line on that finger.

Smilee, just tell dude to kick rocks and he will leave you alone. Most dudes will just assume every girl wants to fuck him but as soon as you tell him no, trust me no more problems from stalker dude
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Thank you... For your input :)
 
There is a big difference between friend and acquaintance! He sounds like the latter of the two....... cant blame a feller for trying though! Now the question is how do you get rid of him? Skyping you in the morning really? He thinks hes got a foot i the door...... Do you ignore him till he goes away like he probably did with his wife....LOL Do you tell him straight up? Do you say my boyfriend feels uneasy about you 2 talking so you think its best if we dont anymore..... hmmm So that should be your next question to the guys on here. Jmo Good luck!

Kevin
 
Karnehm said:
There is a big difference between friend and acquaintance! He sounds like the latter of the two....... cant blame a feller for trying though! Now the question is how do you get rid of him? Skyping you in the morning really? He thinks hes got a foot i the door...... Do you ignore him till he goes away like he probably did with his wife....LOL Do you tell him straight up? Do you say my boyfriend feels uneasy about you 2 talking so you think its best if we dont anymore..... hmmm So that should be your next question to the guys on here. Jmo Good luck!

Kevin
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Thanks
That's exactly what is on my mind.

He is more of an aquaintance than one of my good friends. Another reason I am feeling uneasy about Hanging out with him.

I am trying to figure out if it's best to just stop all forms of communication.
 
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Well its usually a matter of circumstances.... Do you run into him regularly? Let him down easy maybe tell that little white lie. You dont want to feel all awkward or tense everytime hes around. If hes someone that you wont see anymore just tell your not interrested. Im sure hes been shot down before hes a dude. He will go work his feelings game on someone else.
 
Karnehm said:
Well its usually a matter of circumstances.... Do you run into him regularly? Let him down easy maybe tell that little white lie. You dont want to feel all awkward or tense everytime hes around. If hes someone that you wont see anymore just tell your not interrested. Im sure hes been shot down before hes a dude. He will go work his feelings game on someone else.
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I do not ever see him around. We became friends via Facebook bc we share mutual friends. I post about my training and what not and one day dude requested me as a friend. Sent me a message asking for Diet/Exercise advice, this was back in Sep/Oct sometime. So off and on throughout the months, we would have discussions about his weight loss journey he was on. He was focusing on doing a lot of cardio and I was telling him to Put more time and effort in eating right and Lifting weights daily. Then the conversations began to talk about his marriage and how unhappy he was, 2 weeks ago he said if things didn't change between them (she stopped having sex with him years ago) that he was going to give it until August and then he would ask for a Divorce.

All I said is you need to do what is going to make you happy. If she isn't willing to work on the marriage then maybe she isn't happy either.

Then 2 days ago he says that they have separated bc both of them were extremely unhappy in the marriage. That is when he started to ask me what I like to do in my spare time and if I would want to "Hang Out with him" and that he finds me very attractive.

He is crossing a Line...He should have only asked me for Diet and Exercise advice... That is what I was helping him with...

SO it will not be hard to stop talking to him BC he isn't a TRUE friend of mine that I care about and have an emotional connection with.

I just feel weird that HE wants to hang out with me bc he is Separated from his wife.
I have NEVER EVER shown any interest in him. UGH!!!!::nono: :bash:
 
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He wants something more. Your just going to have to make it clear to him, your just friends.

I would not say don't hang out with him at all. He is in a rough spot, and honestly might just think highly of you. Is he younger than you?
 
Zero V said:
He wants something more. Your just going to have to make it clear to him, your just friends.

I would not say don't hang out with him at all. He is in a rough spot, and honestly might just think highly of you. Is he younger than you?
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No, he is older than me. He's 35 yrs old...
I have never spent any time with him in person, only communicated via Skype or Facebook message when he needed diet/exercise advice.
 
I have decided I am just going to cut all ties. I have my own things I need to worry about and I don't want to share my time with this guy. (sounds kind of selfish and is the first time I am making this type of decision) but i figure he wants comforting and probably more, and I am in NO Position to give him anything he needs. I do not want to be giving him Mixed signals. So I have removed him as a friend on Facebook, and will not reply to his Skypes any longer.

Thank you everyone for providing me wonderful input on this topic. Greatly appreciated :)
 
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