sparklylegwarmers
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brennylee said:
oh man, we need to talk. do you use aim?
fuck 'em!
why did you can your last GF?
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oh man, we need to talk. do you use aim?
fuck 'em!
didactic
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brennylee said:
The problem is it should take more than 24 hrs for replacement considerations to be made and not looking elsewhere when you in a relationship doesnt make you special Brenny it makes you normal.
I dont think you are ready for a commited relationship this guy doesnt seem to be mentally stronger than you and that will always be a problem. You could care less and he is writing letters begging for some sort of contact to be maintained. You need a guy who can treat you and feel for you how you are treating and feeling for this guy.
didactic
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brennylee said:
You are not exactly sounding concerned. Its easier to deal with the feelings rather than block them out by being bitchy and cold. You will have to face them sometime. But then again ignore me Brenny listen to your "friends" you did nothing wrong , its all his fault, tear up the letter, he doesnt deserve you.
*shakes head*
gorilla_boy
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brennylee said:
You needn't justify anything to anyone else. You have every right to feel however you choose and what Di refers to as "truth", in these cases, is a matter of perspective.
What am I supposed to do about it? Be a typical "girl" and cry about him all day? F*ck that shit...not gonna happen. I care about him, but I am not going to let the situation tear away at me. I'm stronger than that Didactic.
I don't get what the freaking letter was about...why did he even bother to do that? Stuff like that confuses women!!
I don't get what the freaking letter was about...why did he even bother to do that? Stuff like that confuses women!!
didactic
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brennylee said:
How about the fact that he cares for you? Yes he has had a divorce and other failed relationships but this time he thought he had found something different something real. Now that is all over and he feels lost so he pours all his emotions into a letter, all his pride aside in a last bid effort to make you understand he cares. I mean the tears didnt work, he opened up enough to cry and you make him feel terrible for that, you became angry and ended everything. So this letter is his way of showing you that he is beyond macho pride and beyond "looking stupid" he just wants you to realise how he feels.
You are supposed to respect your ex partner enough to wait a while before moving on.
gorilla_boy
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brennylee said:
Because he still wants to be able to fuck you. It's pretty simple.
There's likely nothing more to it.
Helllllllllllllllo Didactic...the guy doesn't care about me too much if he was the one to bring up the breakup!! ANd he is trying to look like the good guy by shedding tears and writing this letter so that I know he didn't intentionally hurt me! "You deserve better"...every guy uses that line!!!!!!!!
gorilla_boy
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didactic said:
You're just a dick.
r3ver3nd
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I thought my girl of over a year cared about me. When we split she had a date 4 days later, with some dude. I have to admit, when she told me that, getting over her was about 150% easier. I admit I cried, and it was hard, but when I heard that I was like, fucking shit. All those letters telling me I was her soulmate, and that she only loved me, and how at her young age she never thought she could love someone so much. ALL LIES.
The fact is, when the significant other does something like this, it is alot easier to get over them. And I tell myself that she is already probobly all over this dude she's known for like 3 weeks, that helps too.
She still calls, and last night she told me, "Its hard not to say I love you." I was thinking to myself, what the mother fuck. Get off my nuts, Im trying to get over you and here you are telling me this shit. When we broke up, she told me she needed her space, and now she says she's really confused..... I still dont believe a word she says.
Do I still care for her? Yes.
Do I still love her? I can't answer that either way.
Would I go back out with her if she asked me right now? No. not after getting treated like that, I did treat her like a fucking princess, but thats where I went wrong, this was my first major relationship. And im not just saying that to make the situation easier on myself either.
Brenny, come to FL and we'll hang out and listen to lost prophets or something.
The fact is, when the significant other does something like this, it is alot easier to get over them. And I tell myself that she is already probobly all over this dude she's known for like 3 weeks, that helps too.
She still calls, and last night she told me, "Its hard not to say I love you." I was thinking to myself, what the mother fuck. Get off my nuts, Im trying to get over you and here you are telling me this shit. When we broke up, she told me she needed her space, and now she says she's really confused..... I still dont believe a word she says.
Do I still care for her? Yes.
Do I still love her? I can't answer that either way.
Would I go back out with her if she asked me right now? No. not after getting treated like that, I did treat her like a fucking princess, but thats where I went wrong, this was my first major relationship. And im not just saying that to make the situation easier on myself either.
Brenny, come to FL and we'll hang out and listen to lost prophets or something.
gorilla_boy
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brennylee said:
It's not what we're "only out for" but it's a big influence.
alwaysselling
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Brenny... Your hurt and we can all relate to that.... Fact is he probably was emotional because he cared about you tremendously, He probably came to the realisation sitting in front of you, that in fact it was over, something he onced hoped would not have ended. He likely cried because hurting you was the last of his intentions and the fact that he cares about you, and saw you shed a tear or two... hurt him aswell....
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