Why not take steroids at 20-21??

[juced_porkchop]

But that's the thing that's all I think about is the gym and getting a better physique. Yesterday when i was at work my co worker asked me "what's your hobbies what do you like to do" and all I could think of is go to the gym. I don't even care about sex anymore, what runs through my head everyday is getting bigger..and I don't want to stop building my physique so that's out of the question. There has to be a balance, I just don't like anything else or have any other interests. I was looking up majors in college and careers asscociated with them and I didn't like any of them. I talked to recruiters and I don't want to give up my freedom either and be stuck doing something I hate for 4 years.

When I use to go out with my friends I hated it cause it was boring to me and did not interest me what they did plus what they do cost money that could be spent on food. The last time I remembet having true fun was when I smoked pot but I quit that months ago so I can find a better job which is not working like I thought it would

You might not have your priorities straight in life then man....
you might be jumping steps to go where you want, but you might have other roads to travel before you get on the bbing one, whether you "like it" or not.. just my OP though.
stopp forcing a time line.... invest in life and other areas of your life so that when time comes it will be better and more practical to get very into bbing. Im not saying stop lifting now, im saying accept you will have to lift and be on a limited diet for a while till money is saved and things start to flow. otherwise you are just stressing yourself out to what is, messing up your system using aas young, and getting fuk all gains for it all....
I wish you the best, but my advice is:
creatine
protein
multi vitamin
food and lifting 3-4 times a week..
in 4 years look into aas..
good luck



ps, nothing wrong with Cannabis IMO

 

[meyers462]

You might not have your priorities straight in life then man....
you might be jumping steps to go where you want, but you might have other roads to travel before you get on the bbing one, whether you "like it" or not.. just my OP though.
stopp forcing a time line.... invest in life and other areas of your life so that when time comes it will be better and more practical to get very into bbing. Im not saying stop lifting now, im saying accept you will have to lift and be on a limited diet for a while till money is saved and things start to flow. otherwise you are just stressing yourself out to what is, messing up your system using aas young, and getting fuk all gains for it all....
I wish you the best, but my advice is:
creatine
protein
multi vitamin
food and lifting 3-4 times a week..
in 4 years look into aas..
good luck



ps, nothing wrong with Cannabis IMO

What do you mean by invest in life?

 

[Southernfish]

Bodybuilding is my passion too. I had to stop lifting for 4 years due to financial problems and other issues in my life that took it over, thats life man, this shit isnt easy.

 

[meyers462]

Bodybuilding is my passion too. I had to stop lifting for 4 years due to financial problems and other issues in my life that took it over, thats life man, this shit isnt easy.

So what are you suggesting I do? I have no interests or things I like doing besides the gym like said before.

 

[Mrrippedzilla]

Ok I have to ask - how long has it been since you got laid?

I have NEVER been in a bad mood or depressed if I am getting some on a consistent basis.
In fact, I dont know any guy who's mood cant be improved by a woman.

At your age, you need to get out & enjoy life - make some friends, meet some girls, etc.
Bodybuilding is a great hobbie but it shouldnt be the only thing your focused on - reassess what actually matters in life.

 

[Wrasse02]

OP seriously sounds like a depressing person to hang around with...
Lets be real... Guys like Phil, Kai, Jay, Ronnie... All have amazing genetics.

Some of us aren't meant to be professional BB'ers... and unless you're on the path to be a IFBB pro (which you clearly arent) then there is no need to involve so much dedication and power into a hobby like bodybuilding.

Most people on here are into Bodybuilding, as a hobby... To improve their physique.
Most people here will tell you, having a great physique isn't going to change your life, nor is it going to change that terrible mindset you have... You're young. You need to be out enjoying life. Go out, meet new people, mess around with some women, make connections in the world. Go to college. Learn new things. Experience new things

You arent going to get anywhere in life, sitting and crying on a message board....

 

[meyers462]

Ok I have to ask - how long has it been since you got laid?

I have NEVER been in a bad mood or depressed if I am getting some on a consistent basis.
In fact, I dont know any guy who's mood cant be improved by a woman.

At your age, you need to get out & enjoy life - make some friends, meet some girls, etc.
Bodybuilding is a great hobbie but it shouldnt be the only thing your focused on - reassess what actually matters in life.

Like last month, I have no problem getting laid. All the girls here are sloots so it's easy. I can get some anytime I want I just don't care, last time I had sex it didn't make me feel any way I was like "eh"

How is partying and going out everyday gonna make me successful? And achieve my dreams?

 

[Southernfish]

Ok I have to ask - how long has it been since you got laid?

I have NEVER been in a bad mood or depressed if I am getting some on a consistent basis.
In fact, I dont know any guy who's mood cant be improved by a woman.

At your age, you need to get out & enjoy life - make some friends, meet some girls, etc.
Bodybuilding is a great hobbie but it shouldnt be the only thing your focused on - reassess what actually matters in life.

This^^^^ Zillas always got good advice this is no exception!

 

[Wrasse02]

]Like last month, I have no problem getting laid.[/B] All the girls here are sloots so it's easy. I can get some anytime I want I just don't care, last time I had sex it didn't make me feel any way I was like "eh"

How is partying and going out everyday gonna make me successful? And achieve my dreams?

And the Lie detector determined......... that is a lie
Lets be real. You sound like an extremely emotionally confused person, with no real ambition or experiences.

 

[Mrrippedzilla]

Like last month, I have no problem getting laid. All the girls here are sloots so it's easy. I can get some anytime I want I just don't care, last time I had sex it didn't make me feel any way I was like "eh"

How is partying and going out everyday gonna make me successful? And achieve my dreams?

You dont see a problem with not enjoying sex - come on dude wake up.

What is your deluded idea of successful exactly?
Your "dreams" are a temporary goal that change with time IF you actually live your life and take in new experiences.

The whole purpose of life is to be HAPPY, not successful, HAPPY.
Your clearly not happy obsessing over 1 goal all the time so why keep repeating the process?
If you seriously believe that bodybuilding will make you happier than family, friends, girls, new experiences, etc then I've got some bad news for you - it wont.

My final thought on this:
You can keep obsessing over bodybuilding, moaning on a forum to a bunch of strangers, hoping for a miracle to land on your lap.
Or you can keep bodybuilding a part of your life along with everything else I mentioned - it should be a PART of your life, not your life.

 

[Southernfish]

OP seriously sounds like a depressing person to hang around with...
Lets be real... Guys like Phil, Kai, Jay, Ronnie... All have amazing genetics.

Some of us aren't meant to be professional BB'ers... and unless you're on the path to be a IFBB pro (which you clearly arent) then there is no need to involve so much dedication and power into a hobby like bodybuilding.

Most people on here are into Bodybuilding, as a hobby... To improve their physique.
Most people here will tell you, having a great physique isn't going to change your life, nor is it going to change that terrible mindset you have... You're young. You need to be out enjoying life. Go out, meet new people, mess around with some women, make connections in the world. Go to college. Learn new things. Experience new things

You arent going to get anywhere in life, sitting and crying on a message board....

Ya achieving a certain physique will not bring you happiness, not by any stretch of the imagination. Because in this sport you are NEVER fully happy with what you look like and always want to look better. Real happiness comes from inside not what you look like on the outside.

 

[meyers462]

And the Lie detector determined......... that is a lie
Lets be real. You sound like an extremely emotionally confused person, with no real ambition or experiences.

I'm not lying there, I don't care about sex bro. This girl I work with is 17, pretty good looking, she told me I'm good looking and she liked me my response was "I'm not interested I don't care."

You dont see a problem with not enjoying sex - come on dude wake up.

What is your deluded idea of successful exactly?
Your "dreams" are a temporary goal that change with time IF you actually live your life and take in new experiences.

The whole purpose of life is to be HAPPY, not successful, HAPPY.
Your clearly not happy obsessing over 1 goal all the time so why keep repeating the process?
If you seriously believe that bodybuilding will make you happier than family, friends, girls, new experiences, etc then I've got some bad news for you - it wont.

My final thought on this:
You can keep obsessing over bodybuilding, moaning on a forum to a bunch of strangers, hoping for a miracle to land on your lap.
Or you can keep bodybuilding a part of your life along with everything else I mentioned - it should be a PART of your life, not your life.

My idea of successful is never ever having to worry about money and giving my future kids everything I could never have. And how do you be happy when I'm only happy with music blasting in my ears hitting the weights? I don't like to party and that's all people do around here. And I have had the same dream for the last 2 years, my other dream was to be a pro athlete.

Ya achieving a certain physique will not bring you happiness, not by any stretch of the imagination. Because in this sport you are NEVER fully happy with what you look like and always want to look better. Real happiness comes from inside not what you look like on the outside.

I care what people think of me I always have, I grew up with no friends cause I wasn't aloud to go outside until I was in 7th grade, then I had like 2 friends. Then I got made fun of for being skinny, then my junior year I started playing football. I still got called skinny but I had lots of friends and became an alcoholic then drinking everyday. Then I started lifting and then I actually felt good about myself for once. I was the life of the party back then now I'm just a meat head and don't find it fun to party anymore and I hate spending money cause I grew up knowing that money is valuable and should be saved for when I'm older so I won't have to worry about bills and such when I'm in my 40s

 

[3J]

btw meyers.. if you purchased a program from me and cannot afford the food you should be emailing me to find cheaper solutions... .make sure to do that..

 

[Southernfish]

I'm not lying there, I don't care about sex bro. This girl I work with is 17, pretty good looking, she told me I'm good looking and she liked me my response was "I'm not interested I don't care."


My idea of successful is never ever having to worry about money and giving my future kids everything I could never have. And how do you be happy when I'm only happy with music blasting in my ears hitting the weights? I don't like to party and that's all people do around here. And I have had the same dream for the last 2 years, my other dream was to be a pro athlete.




I care what people think of me I always have, I grew up with no friends cause I wasn't aloud to go outside until I was in 7th grade, then I had like 2 friends. Then I got made fun of for being skinny, then my junior year I started playing football. I still got called skinny but I had lots of friends and became an alcoholic then drinking everyday. Then I started lifting and then I actually felt good about myself for once. I was the life of the party back then now I'm just a meat head and don't find it fun to party anymore and I hate spending money cause I grew up knowing that money is valuable and should be saved for when I'm older so I won't have to worry about bills and such when I'm in my 40s

That's was the wrong response, you shoulda let her ride the shit outta you..........sex fixes many issues including mental issues.

 

[meyers462]

btw meyers.. if you purchased a program from me and cannot afford the food you should be emailing me to find cheaper solutions... .make sure to do that..

I did purchase the 5 week one but the 5 weeks have been over for awhile now sooo :/

That's was the wrong response, you shoulda let her ride the shit outta you..........sex fixes many issues including mental issues.

I had sex a few days before she told me that, the girl rode me I blew my load. I was then like alright I'm going home. I then went home still felt the same. So I don't think that will fix the problem. Honestly it felt better fapping it which I know is a problem

 

[Southernfish]

I think you should go seek some professional help for your mental issues along with the things that happened in your childhood which are obviously affecting your life.

Us bros on here cant fix your problems, we can just give some advice cuz most of us have been around the block a few times, go talk to someone to sort these issues out and get to the root of the problem.

 

[3J]

I did purchase the 5 week one but the 5 weeks have been over for awhile now sooo :/



I had sex a few days before she told me that, the girl rode me I blew my load. I was then like alright I'm going home. I then went home still felt the same. So I don't think that will fix the problem. Honestly it felt better fapping it which I know is a problem

doesn't matter.. email me.. we can at the least make the adjustments so you can follow the diet with your budget

 

[meyers462]

I think you should go seek some professional help for your mental issues along with the things that happened in your childhood which are obviously affecting your life.

Us bros on here cant fix your problems, we can just give some advice cuz most of us have been around the block a few times, go talk to someone to sort these issues out and get to the root of the problem.

Yous make it sound like it's all easy though. And they just gonna give me happy pills and then that's on my record forever. I have a perfectly clean record. On paper I'd be classified as a perfect person and to people in real life that I see day to day see a fake version of myself. In public when I'm around people everyone like me the fake me though

 

[3J]

we all wear social masks my friend.. you seem to think you are alone

 

[ImAuNatural]

Yous make it sound like it's all easy though. And they just gonna give me happy pills and then that's on my record forever. I have a perfectly clean record. On paper I'd be classified as a perfect person and to people in real life that I see day to day see a fake version of myself. In public when I'm around people everyone like me the fake me though

Im the exact same way man. I am fake to everyone in my life.