A kiss
- Thread starter Smilee21
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hard2gain
New member
Hmm I've never made that connection. Some good insight though.
PedestrianX
Bi-winning
After the first kiss... Im usually just planning my attack to see if i can make it to home base.
Zero V
Prodigal son
o.0 I cant go as far as to rate a woman on her kiss. If anything a bad kiss may mean she is inexperienced and hasnt thrown herself around like a piece of meat...
Most girls I take real interest in have never had sex, and have chosen a path of abstinence. I sure as hell won't judge them if its not the best the first night if we get married(because I am fine with waiting until marriage). Its something you can just practice on alot, until it is good lol.
stevenmd
Super Ninja
I have a lot of respect for you brother. A lot. I went down that path once. My first wife was a virgin until our wedding night. That marriage was such a horrible experience and on top of that, I was excommunicated from the church for getting a divorce. No one seemed to care "WHY" we were divorcing, they only cared about the letter of the law.
I would love to meet a woman like you describe. Since my second wife and I separated last April she has spent her time out dating, etc. I have spent my time healing and growing. I haven't been out on one date because we are still married on paper and in God's eyes.
Smilee21
Exotic is Erotic...
When I go in for a kiss, it is always real innocently, I'm a shy one when it comes to ppl I have feelings for. Just drawing our faces close to one another. At first I tend to bite my lip, then slowly lick them, I brush them gently against theirs... If I get that tingly butterfly feeling as my lips touch theirs, I slowly and gently slip my tongue into their open mouth. I don't like slobbery messy kisses...
Don't like getting my lips sucked so hard it leaves bruises either, that's all bad and to me it shows a little disrespect also when they leave hickies.
I agree if they are a bad kisser, i question how they will be in the other dept, does a first kiss lead to foreplay??? hmm, could I guess if the attraction between the 2 is strong enough but me personally would make them wait at least 5 dates maybe longer who knows before I go further than kissing. Not that I am a tease, I want to know what I am feeling is real or am I clouded by how hot the individual is.
I haven't been on a date in a very long time, I would let them know my ground rules up front. (I'm not having sexual relations with anyone) so they will need to know, it's not heading there for a long long time.
Don't like getting my lips sucked so hard it leaves bruises either, that's all bad and to me it shows a little disrespect also when they leave hickies.
I agree if they are a bad kisser, i question how they will be in the other dept, does a first kiss lead to foreplay??? hmm, could I guess if the attraction between the 2 is strong enough but me personally would make them wait at least 5 dates maybe longer who knows before I go further than kissing. Not that I am a tease, I want to know what I am feeling is real or am I clouded by how hot the individual is.
I haven't been on a date in a very long time, I would let them know my ground rules up front. (I'm not having sexual relations with anyone) so they will need to know, it's not heading there for a long long time.
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Zero V
Prodigal son
One thing I do hope my future girl allows and enjoys is biting. Me and my ex would bite each other fairly hard sometimes, even on the lips. Duno, maybe it was just young love mixed with that rush of hormones you get with your first lover. But I imagine I still will like biting, and being bit.
lol.
Smilee21
Exotic is Erotic...
Yes... Biting and being bitten IMO is the best.
Detour5
New member
Interesting 
For someone who's shy, you're not backward in coming forward! You seem quite a confident lady to me, going by your posts detailing your sexercises with men and women alike lol..
BTW, how's your training going?
For someone who's shy, you're not backward in coming forward! You seem quite a confident lady to me, going by your posts detailing your sexercises with men and women alike lol..
BTW, how's your training going?
Smilee21
Exotic is Erotic...
Interesting
For someone who's shy, you're not backward in coming forward! You seem quite a confident lady to me, going by your posts detailing your sexercises with men and women alike lol..
BTW, how's your training going?
Lol... Thanks Detour
The training is going really well, I have signed up for a half marathon in May. I am still lifting 6 days a week and running every other day. I'm getting stronger and am able to run a little further each and every time. Baby steps in the right direction.
Ppl are funny...a lot of them didnt know me prior to my son being born. They know the post prego Smilee21 only. So when they see me now they are so amazed in my transformation that's taking place, they say it must be tough, I couldn't do it...
I look at them and say this is how I was before I just went down a different path for a while, but this is me. This is what I enjoy doing (weight training and racing). I have a lot of ppl wanting me to workout with them bc they want to see changes in them too.
But in all honesty, it starts from within and do they have the Strenth to change their lifestyle completely (this isn't some quick fix) it takes hard work, dedication, determination. Weaknesses have to be controlled and I love my friends but I don't believe they are all ready to change their lifestyles completely.
I will pray for them, for the strength to do so, but it's up to them what they choose to put in their mouth and if they choose partying or training.
I will post progress pics in 2 more weeks for my beginning of month 5
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Detour5
New member
Well god for you
For you to have had a major change thus far how big were you? If you're 200lbs now, you must've been rather a lot bigger then?
Is it a strain to run long distances at that weight? I was always into sprinting more than long distance, I was good at middle distance too, but even on the long runs (it could've just been boredom), but I found sometimes my knees and lower back would complain a bit and this was at around 135lbs - couldn't imagine how I would've felt at an extra 65lbs so good for you!
Did I read somewhere that you run 13 miles at the moment? How long does that take you? I used to love running, I miss sprinting, but I'm too old to get serious at that again now, with two kids and other activities, my body would need a lot of time to recover and time I ain't got
I'm fascinated you're able to do as much as you do, my joints felt the strain when I was 155lbs bulking for my show..
For you to have had a major change thus far how big were you? If you're 200lbs now, you must've been rather a lot bigger then?
Is it a strain to run long distances at that weight? I was always into sprinting more than long distance, I was good at middle distance too, but even on the long runs (it could've just been boredom), but I found sometimes my knees and lower back would complain a bit and this was at around 135lbs - couldn't imagine how I would've felt at an extra 65lbs so good for you!
Did I read somewhere that you run 13 miles at the moment? How long does that take you? I used to love running, I miss sprinting, but I'm too old to get serious at that again now, with two kids and other activities, my body would need a lot of time to recover and time I ain't got
I'm fascinated you're able to do as much as you do, my joints felt the strain when I was 155lbs bulking for my show..
Smilee21
Exotic is Erotic...
Well god for you
For you to have had a major change thus far how big were you? If you're 200lbs now, you must've been rather a lot bigger then?
Is it a strain to run long distances at that weight? I was always into sprinting more than long distance, I was good at middle distance too, but even on the long runs (it could've just been boredom), but I found sometimes my knees and lower back would complain a bit and this was at around 135lbs - couldn't imagine how I would've felt at an extra 65lbs so good for you!
Did I read somewhere that you run 13 miles at the moment? How long does that take you? I used to love running, I miss sprinting, but I'm too old to get serious at that again now, with two kids and other activities, my body would need a lot of time to recover and time I ain't got
I'm fascinated you're able to do as much as you do, my joints felt the strain when I was 155lbs bulking for my show..
I do not like to admit how big I really let myself get, when my ex and I began to have our major problems in our relationship I would eat and sleep after work. Mentally I didn't have the strength to do anything. I had not stepped on a scale in 3-4 years. First mistake (never avoid the dreaded scale lol)
I'm currently an US 12/UK 16 at 198lbs
At one time I wore an US 22 And it fit me perfectly (big women size) and my weight was way over 250lbs...
I was huge and avoided pics as much as possible.
My weight prior to my son being born was always between 135-150lbs and I am 5'8"
I do run between 3-16 miles on training days. I can run 16 miles in 2.5 hrs if I am not sore from the previous days training.
Mrs P
New member
I agree with Detour, you definitely don't come off as the "shy" type, lol
I think you mightjust be the female member with the most sexual oriented posts..lol
I take it you are using this as an outlet to express yourself....
You seem to have made huge positive changes in your life
Good 4 u!
Wow, 16 miles is very impressive at your weight...I once read an article that said every 2 lbs excess weight adds 1 more year to the age of your legs.... Even without excess weight running is very hard on the joints, tendons, etc.
I can't run anymore, I have a bad knee, I really do miss it though
When I was a track & field athlete "Back, back, back in the days" I remember after those long runs I needed time to allow by body to fully recover..
How soon do u train after running these long runs ?
I think the most important thing is that you really seem to enjoy your training & that's great
I think you mightjust be the female member with the most sexual oriented posts..lol
I take it you are using this as an outlet to express yourself....
You seem to have made huge positive changes in your life
Good 4 u!Wow, 16 miles is very impressive at your weight...I once read an article that said every 2 lbs excess weight adds 1 more year to the age of your legs.... Even without excess weight running is very hard on the joints, tendons, etc.
I can't run anymore, I have a bad knee, I really do miss it though
When I was a track & field athlete "Back, back, back in the days" I remember after those long runs I needed time to allow by body to fully recover..
How soon do u train after running these long runs ?
I think the most important thing is that you really seem to enjoy your training & that's great
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stevenmd
Super Ninja
I do not like to admit how big I really let myself get, when my ex and I began to have our major problems in our relationship I would eat and sleep after work. Mentally I didn't have the strength to do anything. I had not stepped on a scale in 3-4 years. First mistake (never avoid the dreaded scale lol)
I'm currently an US 12/UK 16 at 198lbs
At one time I wore an US 22 And it fit me perfectly (big women size) and my weight was way over 250lbs...
I was huge and avoided pics as much as possible.
My weight prior to my son being born was always between 135-150lbs and I am 5'8"
I do run between 3-16 miles on training days. I can run 16 miles in 2.5 hrs if I am not sore from the previous days training.
I have seen your progress and I'm very proud of you! I wish my knees could handle the pounding on the pavement because I love to run. I'm looking forward to our upcoming Mud Run, thank God it's on dirt!
Smilee21
Exotic is Erotic...
I agree with Detour, you definitely don't come off as the "shy" type, lol
I think you might be the female member with the most sexual oriented posts..
I take you are using this as an outlet to express yourself.... You seem to have made huge positive changes in your life
Wow, 16 miles is very impressive at your weight...I once read an article that said every 2 lbs excess weight adds 1 more year to the age of your legs.... Even without excess weight running is very hard on the joints, tendons, etc.
I can't run anymore, I have a bad knee, I really do miss it though
When I was a track & field athlete "Back, back, back in the days" I remember after those long runs I needed time to allow by body to fulkly recover..
How soon do u train after running these long runs ?
I think the most important thing is that you seem to enjoy your training, that's great
Mrs P... I have grown up as a tomboy my entire life. I have listened the the Boys talk openly about so much that when it comes to expressing myself I have no problem doing so.
However, when I am in the same room as someone I have feelings for (this is when the shy quiet girl comes out) its different bc I don't look at them as just one of the boys.
One time I texted something I wanted to say to someone bc I was too nervous to say it outloud. Silly I know, but it's just how I am.
When I train for my runs, on the weekends I give myself 2 days rest before I run again. I weight train daily though... I just don't train my legs on Run days.
I love running... And cannot wait to get the rest of this excess weight off that I am carrying so I can become that much faster. In due time, I am not giving up
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Smilee21
Exotic is Erotic...
Thank you Stevenmd, it means a lot to me that you are doing this Mud Run with me. It's my very first one ever. It's my trial mud run in preparation for Tough Mudder. I'm nervous as hell but will be happy to say I accomplished it.
There are some other events coming up
Teams of 2... Like a scavenger hunt type race one in Sac (I wanted to see you if wanted to do it with me) its more brains than speed
Smilee21
Exotic is Erotic...
Detour5
New member
I agree with Detour, you definitely don't come off as the "shy" type, lol
I think you mightjust be the female member with the most sexual oriented posts..lol
I take it you are using this as an outlet to express yourself....
You seem to have made huge positive changes in your life
Wow, 16 miles is very impressive at your weight...I once read an article that said every 2 lbs excess weight adds 1 more year to the age of your legs.... Even without excess weight running is very hard on the joints, tendons, etc.
I can't run anymore, I have a bad knee, I really do miss it though
When I was a track & field athlete "Back, back, back in the days" I remember after those long runs I needed time to allow by body to fully recover..
How soon do u train after running these long runs ?
I think the most important thing is that you really seem to enjoy your training & that's great
I see where Mrs P is coming from. I agree with her it seems this is your outlet to express yourself, you seem to do so very well, I guess that's why we seem to have a hard time believing you're shy.
Well, it's great that you are real determined to do all you do and we wish you luck in your body/fitness goals. The fact that you've dropped over 50lbs(?) is great already. Just keep plugging away.
