Anybody here married and have grown to hate your wife?

[KentuckyPWRLFTR]

yeah, i'm thinking about taking the easy way out and getting it on the side...that way, she don't have to worry about me asking her for it and i don't have to worry about whether i'm getting it from her or not, and if i do get it from her too, then hell...it's a bonus kinda night. overall, i'd have to say it's a win win situation...(now if i can just bring myself to do it!)

Clearly, you have thought this thing through... brought to bear the old inductive and deductive reasoning skills and have reached a solid conclusion.

Just remember, three people can keep a secret, if two are dead.

 

[jph]

Sounds like you've got a strong relationship going on, there.

yeah, it's kinda funny what no sex will do to a marriage!!

 

[jph]

Clearly, you have thought this thing through...
Just remember, three people can keep a secret, if two are dead.

yeah, if things keep up the way they are now...i may kill one out of sexual frustration and then go fuck the other to death!!

 

[KentuckyPWRLFTR]

yeah, if things keep up the way they are now...i may kill one out of sexual frustration and then go fuck the other to death!!

Funnny stuff, bruddah! I'm sitting here laughing aloud.

Might I suggest raping, then murdering the frigid one?

 

[jph]

Funnny stuff, bruddah! I'm sitting here laughing aloud.

Might I suggest raping, then murdering the frigid one?

don't get me started...i'm only about three beers away from doing just that!

 

[3069bryan]

Damn

try as i might, my wife just won't go for that idea...fucking woman don't want to have sex, but don't want me touching anyone else either! what's a man to do??

Your woman don't want to have sex, my old lady will drop to her knees, or drop her panties anytime I want, as long as my daughter isn't around. Here's what you do-BE NICE, LIKE SEND HER SOME FLOWERS OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT, AND SHE'LL LET YA HAVE SOME, AND WHEN SHE DOES, WEAR THAT SHIT OUT, BUT KEEP THE TREND GOING , THE NEXT DAY OR NIGHT GENTLY TAKE THAT SHIT, DON'T RAPE HER, BUT TAKE IT- SHE'LL LIKE IT. IF YOU LET HER GO AWHILE WITHOUT DICK, YOU'LL BE RIGHT BACK IN THE SAME SITUATION. GOOD LUCK BRO.

 

[jph]

Your woman don't want to have sex, my old lady will drop to her knees, or drop her panties anytime I want, as long as my daughter isn't around. Here's what you do-BE NICE, LIKE SEND HER SOME FLOWERS OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT, AND SHE'LL LET YA HAVE SOME, AND WHEN SHE DOES, WEAR THAT SHIT OUT, BUT KEEP THE TREND GOING , THE NEXT DAY OR NIGHT GENTLY TAKE THAT SHIT, DON'T RAPE HER, BUT TAKE IT- SHE'LL LIKE IT. IF YOU LET HER GO AWHILE WITHOUT DICK, YOU'LL BE RIGHT BACK IN THE SAME SITUATION. GOOD LUCK BRO.

i have tried all of that, it doesn't work with her. she just has no interest in it at all. she says i revolve everything around sex...i said "yeah, it's kinda like a man that is starving to death revolves everything around food, only thing is a man wouldn't be starving to death if he had food right in front of him, i'm having to go without sex and i'm a fucking MARRIED MAN!"

 

[montess]

how long is your current dryspell?

 

[3069bryan]

Bro, you need to get her in bed, and make sure that thing isn't all walled out, it sounds like she might have some meat on the side. Trust me it's like a master lock, your key should fit perfect if you know what I mean, if it's a little loose, your better ask some questions.

 

[jph]

it's not that she won't have sex at all, she will do it...she just thinks her once every week or 10 day alotment is enough and she never ever initiates sex at all. hell, if i left it up to her we would go for months on end without touching each other. and i swear to god, she thinks sex only consists of one position...she thinks that just because she is not into sex that i should have no problem with that, and then she has the fucking nerve to ask where all of the hostility comes from...i honestly don't think that she is or ever has messed around on me, she just honestly don't care for sex...and is not willing to experiment to see what real pleasure it can be. we have got two kids together, so i can forgive her of that shit most of the time...but after so fucking long, you have got to explore other options and just hope you don't get caught, but in my opinion...what legitimate gripe could she have if i did get it from another woman, i mean...she don't want to do it and it's not right of her to expect me to do without it when i do enjoy it. she has recently had a historectimy (first of august) and i would understand if it started after that, but it was happening a loooooonnnnngggg time before that.

 

[tman55]

it's not that she won't have sex at all, she will do it...she just thinks her once every week or 10 day alotment is enough and she never ever initiates sex at all. hell, if i left it up to her we would go for months on end without touching each other. and i swear to god, she thinks sex only consists of one position...she thinks that just because she is not into sex that i should have no problem with that, and then she has the fucking nerve to ask where all of the hostility comes from...i honestly don't think that she is or ever has messed around on me, she just honestly don't care for sex...and is not willing to experiment to see what real pleasure it can be. we have got two kids together, so i can forgive her of that shit most of the time...but after so fucking long, you have got to explore other options and just hope you don't get caught, but in my opinion...what legitimate gripe could she have if i did get it from another woman, i mean...she don't want to do it and it's not right of her to expect me to do without it when i do enjoy it. she has recently had a historectimy (first of august) and i would understand if it started after that, but it was happening a loooooonnnnngggg time before that.

the last thing someone should do imo if they want a marriage to work is cheat.

usually if the sex life is suffering it is a sign of an underlying cause bro. i would take a close look at things and work on improving whatever the things are that are negative in the marriage besides sex. maybe she does not feel close enough to you and for a woman that can make sex undesireable. a women isn't like a man where they can just turn it on at a flick of a switch sometimes. sometimes they need to feel close and loving towards you before they want sex.

 

[estray]

Spike her morning coffee with dbol for a few months. shell be rubbing on everything in site.






No, dont do that. lol.

 

[jph]

the last thing someone should do imo if they want a marriage to work is cheat.

usually if the sex life is suffering it is a sign of an underlying cause bro. i would take a close look at things and work on improving whatever the things are that are negative in the marriage besides sex. maybe she does not feel close enough to you and for a woman that can make sex undesireable. a women isn't like a man where they can just turn it on at a flick of a switch sometimes. sometimes they need to feel close and loving towards you before they want sex.

i have tried all of that, i just think that it is her mentality that somehow sex is not important...i am only considering the whole other woman thing because she is not willing to TRY and change her attitude. i really want to stay with her and live my life with her...but at the same time i am a young man that still really enjoys a healthy sex life, and she is not willing to provide that for me. it would be completely different if she had something extremely tramatic happen to her that caused it, but she has not. things used to be great, and then it's like she turned into another woman sexually...i know she doesn't think sex is important, but she know that i really enjoy it...i mean she could at least make an effort for her husband you know. it isn't like i completely enjoy all the shit she asks me to do for her as far as day to day shit...but i do it for her.

 

[tman55]

i have tried all of that, i just think that it is her mentality that somehow sex is not important...i am only considering the whole other woman thing because she is not willing to TRY and change her attitude. i really want to stay with her and live my life with her...but at the same time i am a young man that still really enjoys a healthy sex life, and she is not willing to provide that for me. it would be completely different if she had something extremely tramatic happen to her that caused it, but she has not. things used to be great, and then it's like she turned into another woman sexually...i know she doesn't think sex is important, but she know that i really enjoy it...i mean she could at least make an effort for her husband you know. it isn't like i completely enjoy all the shit she asks me to do for her as far as day to day shit...but i do it for her.

I hear you bro. I've been married a long time and I have been through similar stuff over the years. I understand that sometimes there seems to be no answers. Good Luck!

 

[pineapple]

Nope. Been together for 7 1/2 years and married for over 4. If you got the perfect thing then you got nothing to hate. The perfect body, the perfect personality.

 

[seti]

another loaded question!!! 7yrs married, 125,000 premeditated OJ'ings but she is still amongst the living...At times everyone hates / stongly dislikes their signif other.... I love her immensley but would love to take her teeth out of her head every so often....
I personally dont hate my spouse but have come to hate some of the shit she does...

 

[jph]

At times everyone hates / stongly dislikes their signif other.... I love her immensley but would love to take her teeth out of her head every so often....
I personally dont hate my spouse but have come to hate some of the shit she does...

my feelings exactly...

 

[jph]

I hear you bro. I've been married a long time and I have been through similar stuff over the years. I understand that sometimes there seems to be no answers. Good Luck!

thanks bro, i really do hope she changes...i love her and don't want to hurt her like that, but man...you can only be REJECTED by your wife for so long...