dealing with the wife

[Miss Muscle]

You either have to educate her on steroid use or just keep your use hush. When I was 15 and knew absolutely nothing about steroids I was your stereotypical "Taking steroids turns men into women beaters and blah blah blah"." Like most people. Education can be a very powerful thing. If she is willing to learn of course.

 

[boston5520]

Yea im glad it not only me having this problem. I will try and educate her and try and shut my mouth.

 

[Die$eL~Man]

she just jealouse of all the attention you get.. all her friends probably wanna fuck you anyway..

 

[boston5520]

You do get more female attention on cycle that's for sure

 

[barrysanders]

My GF says the same crap when we get into little tiffs (its the steriods). However, I try really hard to make her happy when I'm on a cycle or at a minimum keep things as normal as usual. Depending where you are in the relationship I don't think hidding it is the best choice, but to each their own.

Education is the best defense though; print some things out on google.

 

[snigg]

dont get married...problem solved!! that's how i look at it.

 

[Cam01]

dont get married...problem solved!! that's how i look at it.

Sounds good to me.. Anyone else?

 

[Cam01]

But then again, the cuchy has a lot of power on the mans thinking. >=[

 

[Mcstabberson]

Exactly ^^.
My girl was buying the whole cnn version of roid rage, cancer causing agent b.s. that the establishment put s out there..for the dumb overfed lazy fuck public.
After watching flick s like Bigger Stronger Faster..looking at the REAL fact s , and the lack of HARD data stating they are real real dangerous..and my adherence to overall fitness first..she s cool with it.
I don t pin in front of her and though she know s I have a stash she leaves it alone....
OP- I believe aas amplify our natural states..both physical mental and emotional.
On cycle I m almost giddy...hornier than usual and more flirtatious..
I m an asshole too but really only to certain type s of people.. rarely to my loved ones.
You ll be fine...she s worth it..if you cherish her..do it openly...imo.

This film changed the way I think about aas. Deff a good film.

 

[GetToDaChoppa!]

When I told my girlfriend she said "oh, that's okay, I'm sure you know what you're doing and I wont judge you"... now she pins me as practice for her RN. As others mentioned, educating her is key. Maybe go about the Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) route and how testosterone is essential; that type of perspective.

 

[THE-DET-OAK]

Find a female that will throw down on gear and cycle with you

i agree with everyone, especially the part that says swallow your pride an let her think she is right.

BB advice is the best though, you dont have to find a new woman, you just need to educate her and let her run a small cycle of Anavar (var). once that happens it levels the playing field. i know i know those may be the wrong reasons for helping her run a cycle, but once my girl did she doesnt say a word to me about it. the few times she did i reminded her of her cycle and she shut right up. The other positive to her running some var, is she will be almost as horny as you

 

[Jdubbs1980]

I love being married and I love my wife. I've got my man cave and my dude time and hobbies. She is not my old lady but my best fiend. As a grown man you make choices in life sometimes those decisions need to be made or at least supported by both persons involved.
When support can not be reached a compromise must be made or at least an understanding. This is a very smart group and the answer has been given, and to top it you knew the answer all along. If you have talked about it and explained it then you control your emotions and ride it out. If it gets serious then you have to make the decision in the best interest your wife, unless you don't care, which you do.
Goodluck brother man. I hope it works out. Pretty sure it will.

 

[Cheappinz]

Its a control thing. Its funny how some women are drawn to one type of man and once they claim you, they try to change you. For some girls its not even the goal of really making you change, its just getting you to submit.
I've been lucky lately, but sometimes i get calls from nosy women asking what their spouse has been ordering..really looking for insider info.
I say that's betwen you and your partner. Trust, communication, and compromise.
Tell her you're exactly the same as when you met her, and if anyone is changing the rules its her. Being nice is always a plus..

 

[big12]

I started a thread on this sometime back. I think I titled it "Does She Know?" or something along those lines. I got some good responses in there. You may want to have her check out this site and head to the women's forum so that she can hear it from another women, one who understands aas. Having another woman explain it to her may relieve a lot of her worries.

 

[hollipop]

Im a grown man not a 16 year old kid hiding it from mom and dad ya know,i want her to know but i need to keep the fighting and my attitude in check. Its hard when your naturally an asshole. I guess i will just show her more attention like you guys said

Good for you Boston looks like you've got your head screwed on the right way! Take it from a gym junkie's wife, the more you can tell her, the less scary it will be, and the more confident she will be in what you're doing. I was totally against it when we first met, now I am his 'personal chef '(making homemeade protein bars and cooking/weighing out meals etc), tanner (for the bodybuilding comps!) and I even help him with his routines for each show, not to mention I am the one usually doing his pin for him....so you see, honesty is the best policy! If I'd just found out he was hiding a load of needles and vials etc from me I would have been really angry, not really because of the gear but because I would have felt left out and I would have been freaking out due to my lack of knowledge and all the scaremongering and BS that goes on regarding AAS etc.
Also, can you hook her up with some wives or girlfriends of your gym buddies? Us girls all work out together now, and believe me, five years ago I would not have believed my husband if he'd told me this is how we'd end up!!
Good luck man just stay cool and tell her the facts!

 

[Mudge]

I used to get that too, the gear must be making you angry. You have to be even nicer/more controlled than she is, in my experience.

 

[1badmofo]

PMS causes more shit in a relationship than steroids from my experience

 

[Teutonic]

Roger that last transmission...^^^^

 

[drewbolic]

Educate her....I'm sure her fears and objections come from the hyped up bad rep aas has. Show her you can use aas safely and keep her informed,that's what I do-my girl could come on this forum and talk aas with any man/woman from me constantly informing her about it.

 

[boston5520]

Thank you. This has been a good help. I let her know everything,i don't hide my gear,she cooks my food weighs it out and bags it all,she is a big help and she does get involved sometimes by loading the syringe for me but then turn around a few days later and hitches about it. I guess that's the nature of the beast