Do You Use Condoms

Aren't you guys at all concerned about child support for 18 years????
What about responsibility, parenthood ???
What about her rights???
It aint all about boinkin'
Pregnant is pregnant.

Oh thats right....it will never happen to you.
 
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I think everyone has slipped up and not used one at least once in their lifetime. The trick is not making the mistake ever again. Just my humble opinion.
 
what? elaborate please.

bitch lets you stick it in with no rub, her rights go down her throat just like your load.

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Let me strike that from the conversation.

However: My point is (and I am not judging anyone) Is that we as men sometimes cant see 2 inches into the future past our dick.
These are entire lives, effecting many other lives that are the result of a mistake.

Chasin pooty is a grand time. But...it has consequences if done without discipline or forethought.

I would hate to see you jammed up with a child you dont want or cant afford.
Its not at all fair to the child.
Its a wicked price to pay for not wanting to take 20 seconds to put on a condom.

All this is in hindsight. As you get older you learn more. You watch people make mistakes that change lives forever. A good friend of mine had her daughter get preg
at 15. She will miss most of her fun years taking care of her baby.

I wish better things for you guys and hope that you remember this thred when you are hot and heavy and wanting to take short cuts rather than exercise disipline and cover your dog.

Just a thought
 
yes you have a valid point, but really it takes 2 to have a baby. its not all the guys fault cuz he didnt want to wear a rubber

1 girl could refuse
2 birth control
3 abortion if necessary. ( i know you probably didnt want to hear that either but its a reality)

its not all the guys fault and you are not violating her rights by not putting it on. she in an essence is violating yours by not enforcing some rules protecting the safety of her future and by dragging you into it by allowing you to trap yourself by not putting one on.

2 to tango is what ive always been told
 
yes you have a valid point, but really it takes 2 to have a baby. its not all the guys fault cuz he didnt want to wear a rubber

1 girl could refuse
2 birth control
3 abortion if necessary. ( i know you probably didnt want to hear that either but its a reality)

its not all the guys fault and you are not violating her rights by not putting it on. she in an essence is violating yours by not enforcing some rules protecting the safety of her future and by dragging you into it by allowing you to trap yourself by not putting one on.

2 to tango is what ive always been told


Points taken. But we are the ones who pay for it. $$$$$$
There have been sereval times I said please Lord, let her not be pregnant cause I knew I wasn't spending another week with her let alone 936 of them.
 
nah man youre right. im not trying to argue because 1 im not smart enough to argue with you and 2 dont really care because i have got a girl pregnant, my wife and have no plans on getting any others pregnant.

i just dont agree with the "he rights" comment thats all
 
nah man youre right. im not trying to argue because 1 im not smart enough to argue with you and 2 dont really care because i have got a girl pregnant, my wife and have no plans on getting any others pregnant.

i just dont agree with the "he rights" comment thats all

We are cool man. Both side have good points
 
Risk is risk. Whether playing the stock market or with your dick. If you're both prepared to take the consequences, then don't wear a condom. If you freak out afterwards, you should wear the condom to spare yourself the stress that can last up to 3-6 months after (standard incubation period for HIV). There are lots of nasties that can be hiding in other people, like Hep B and C. If you play without a condom, get checked out regularly for the whole gambit of goodies you could possibly get. Even if you play safe, good to get tested regularly for the peice of mind if for nothig else.

I went years playing without condoms with anyone that was up for it (as long as they said they were clean). But someone saying they are clean and actually being clean is 2 different things. They may not have been tested recently enough, they may have been tested recently but infected close to or just after being tested, or they could be lying. I got lucky. Worst I got was a case of the crabs. But I got lots of friends that weren't so lucky, and a couple that were safe but still got infected. And some of them are the cleanest people I know. Stank ain't necessarily a sign of anything other than someone needs a shower.

Moral of the story, it's a personal choice, but from reading the freak out at the begining of the thread my advice:
1. Use a condom until you meet a girl you're gonna be monogomous with.
2. If you're gonna cheat on her, be responsible to her if you love/respect her at all and use a condom
3. Get tested regularly.
 
I'm saving myself 'til the next time I get real serious enough about getting into another long-term relationship or married. And I'm not interested in either of those things right now, so I'm not having sex and therefore don't need condoms.

Being a 'dumbass' is one thing. But if you're going to play this version of Russian Roulette then let's hope that you're at least a dumbass who has a lot of $$$ because a regimen of the cheapest HIV medications can cost more than $20,000 per year (for just one drug), and a new baby costs many times that over a period of 18 years!

On a very serious note though, bro: don't kid yourself. Bareback sex with strangers!!! In 2011!!! Thats just nuts---no matter how pretty or how clean the other person looks or whatever bullshit they tell you. ANYONE AT ALL can have syphilis, or chlamydia, or gono, or herpes, or HIV, or AIDS, or any (or any combo) of a whole friggin host of other things out there. These diseases are not rare as some people believe, its just that a lot of people who have them don't know that do. In fact, Chlamydia and gono are two of the most common diseases in all counties across the ENTIRE country! Also, there are still a lot of straight people who still think of HIV as a gay thing, and most of them don't bother to ever get tested because they don't believe they are at risk. And when many do get tested and a positive result is returned, they sometimes find that they are co-infected with other shit.

Think about it...these women that you pick up in the bars...if its so easy for you to feel them up and not only fuck them but fuck them bareback...ask yourself how many other guys they've let do the same thing to them?

Life is a strange and interesting thing. Adam was a perfect man and even he was willing to risk it all for a piece of ass, and he wasn't drunk when he made that choice. And choice is what is all boils down to.

Don't mean to preach, but don't become another CDC statistic, bro.
 
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babies dont cost a thing. these days scum bags on welfare have babies all the time and never work. remember to work harder millions on welfare are counting on you. i dont care if you get an std,it wont cost me but if you have a kid and cant afford it then it costs me and that shit pisses me off. condoms are handed out at the health department. use them. or get fixed
 
There are lots of nasties that can be hiding in other people, like Hep B and C.

And since you brought up the matter of 'nasty', don't forget HPV---the group of viruses that can cause genital warts. This is one that many people don't know about and it is easier to pick up HPV than viruses like HIV or hepatitis B or C because infection can occur on contact rather than through portals into the bloodstream.

A long time ago, researchers believed that the worst that HPV could do is cause big, slimy, gross-looking warts to grow on your privates, but they have since linked human papillomaviruses to cervical, vaginal, colorectal, and penile cancer.

And it gets even better... What most people also don't know is that HPV, when transferred via kissing or oral sex, also predisposes infected people to oral cancer. Who would have ever thought...?

There's an article about this in the news this week.

Oral sex linked to cancer risk - Yahoo! News

I've read similar research in medical journals, but I'm not so sure I buy the part in this piece about white men being more prone to this particular etiology---not without seeing more details about the demographics of the sample used to conduct the study. I'm inclined to believe that the outcome of this study might have been racially skewed if they used a disproportionate number of white men in it. Still, race aside, its an interesting read.

The moral of the story is: be careful about what you eat...which I'm sure is every bodybuilder's mantra anyway. LOL!
 
It's one thing if its with your girl and you've known her for awhile..but how many of you honestly always wear condoms with girls you just meet from the bar and what not? Most will call me a dumbass and their probably right but I rarely ever do unless the girl absolutely forces me too. I'm a little nervous because the chick I was with last night kinda sketched me out..she kept telling me to put one on but I had a few drinks in me and just went ahead anyways....I'm probably just freaking myself out right now, but who else here honestly uses condoms all the time?

Ya condoms are a downer.... I'm married and don't cheat anymore so I dont have to worry. You should go get swabbed my friend, I used to go once a year and get checked because I was like you too. If We all got checked once a year we wouldn't have to worry as much when we dry fuck a chic in the ass once in a while.
 
lol damn bro! why not just go for the rubbing alcohol?
i slipped up a few times.. i got so paranoid 1 time on the way home i stopped and bought listerine and poured it all over my dick in the parking lot of acme.. true story.. i dont recommend doing that lol.. unless your into that kinda shit..
 
ya i use em..for example if the wifey goes off her bc for a few months from time to time..have def made the mistake of not though. Freaked me out, but it always turned out fine and she was not prego ha
 
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