ethical question

[gottabadrash]

ok here it is.. im stranded at my parents house for a month..(college break) ive been lifting at the swank (gay) gym they have here and today i noticed something to pissed me off to the point of wanting to break the kids skull... the personal trainer was training a 16-17 year old girl ()she was a cute innocent girl) he has to be atleast 21 years old and he was touching the most inappropriate ways when she was doing her set.. i.e. during seated back rows(machine) he was touching the sides of her breasts and did similar things for various other exercises.. this question is for other personal trainers and lifters, have you seen this before? do i confront the kid? has anyone done this with their personal training clients before? just think as if it were your daughter or little sister... should i say something to the punk or let it slide?

 

[tman55]

Hard call. Do you know how old she is for sure? If it bothers you that much go to the manager and let him know what you see as being inappropriate. If it was my daughter i would be pissed, otherwise i would just stay out of their business.

 

[gottabadrash]

im usually not one to pry into other peoples business but he's done it with other girls that i know are around 16 and 17 years old..

 

[daan69]

i hate that shit.... i know guys who i graduated high school with who still hang around that town and go to parties with high school girls 7-8 years younger than them...

pathetic

 

[jcp2]

I am 28 and would love to go to parties with girls 7 or 8 years younger than me, what is the problem with that.

 

[Smallguy]

I'd go to the manager or owner of the club think of it this way if you did'nt know anytihng about triaing and sent your child to a personal trainer to help them get in shape or to reach their goals and found out that was going on behind your back how would you feel

Girls at that age are easily manipulated something as simple as well your my special girl and she might think it's ok.

I took a personal trainers course a few years back now and the women teaching it always touched her body where we should feel the exercise or occasionally would touch my triceps or delts or traps only cause we knew each other pretty well.

Smallguy

 

[thetopdog]

I am 28 and would love to go to parties with girls 7 or 8 years younger than me, what is the problem with that.

Very true

16 and 17 year old girls aren't as innocent as you think. Many of them are straight up evil whores

 

[jcp2]

Very true

16 and 17 year old girls aren't as innocent as you think. Many of them are straight up evil whores

That is a little young for me, but i have no problem with a 20 year old dating someone that age.

 

[hornedfrogs07]

That is a little young for me, but i have no problem with a 20 year old dating someone that age.

Nope. I think it's kinda stupid for a college guy to be dating a high school girl, but whatever floats their boat.

 

[jcp2]

Nope. I think it's kinda stupid for a college guy to be dating a high school girl, but whatever floats their boat.

17 and 20 bro, that is not bad at all. What is the difference of a college girl dating a guy that works.

 

[Mudge]

Moreover with him doing it repeatedly, I would say "Some hands you got there, so you touch all your clients like that huh? I thought it was just the one."

 

[Mudge]

I am 28 and would love to go to parties with girls 7 or 8 years younger than me, what is the problem with that.

If you can stand that kind of giggly little girl company. It can be fun for awhile, but eventually I need someone with a brain and some life experience.

24 works ok, so far. Not everyone is the same, at the same age obviously.

 

[jcp2]

If you can stand that kind of giggly little girl company. It can be fun for awhile, but eventually I need someone with a brain and some life experience.

24 works ok, so far. Not everyone is the same, at the same age obviously.

I wasn't talking for longterm relationship, although i have met some 20 year old girls who are more mature than you would think, but i here you when i was 23 and out of college i dated a 19 year old, and i couldn't take the immaturity.

 

[pullinbig]

so whats wrong with groping femal clients? thats what they pay for. maybe i am confused a bit here, too much test. i thought I was supoosed to talk dirty and grope them as part of my training package. can you guys beleive i have female clients? what where they thinking?

 

[iamcdn]

you gotta get the whole story....did they date or are dating, seeing each other flirting both way etc.

sure it may be unprofessional but lots of women fool around with their "trainers"

id confront him, if he's a dick go to the manager...its too easy to ruin this kids life with a "sexual harassment" call.

 

[Drveejay11]

so whats wrong with groping femal clients? thats what they pay for. maybe i am confused a bit here, too much test. i thought I was supoosed to talk dirty and grope them as part of my training package. can you guys beleive i have female clients? what where they thinking?

Bwahahahhaa......

 

[Bast]

None of youre buisness bro.

 

[Mudge]

sure it may be unprofessional but lots of women fool around with their "trainers"

True, the tendency for women, especially young to hide things and let it scar them without facing the problem is just too high though. I'm no hippy but I know rape victims and if I could get back at the fuckers who did that shit... I have desires like anyone else but I have a brain to go with it, to make decisions on what is appropriate and what is not. There is such a thing as respect, and if these girls are underage, and mere clients, my tendency to assume the worst would be out for blood. Maybe I'd talk to one of the girls first, ask their side.

But it makes the guy look like a dirty sleeze in the meanwhile.

 

[Mudge]

None of youre buisness bro.

How and when do you decide what is and isn't your business? If someone gets robbed in front of me do I not even call anyone, or try to help if I can, because its not my business? Just something to think about.

Of course if you believe in every man for himself, the Anarchy movement could use some helping hands. But then thats organization isn't it, oh the irony.

 

[Mudge]

First they came for the Jews
and I did not speak out
because I was not a Jew.
Then they came for the Communists
and I did not speak out
because I was not a Communist.
Then they came for the trade unionists
and I did not speak out
because I was not a trade unionist.
Then they came for me
and there was no one left
to speak out for me.


Pastor Martin Niemöller