finishing quicker

slair

slair

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ok i have the opposite problem of alot of guys.....i seem to last forever during sex....i actually have to "work" to reach orgasm sometimes. Its possible it could all be mental i suppose but i sure as hell don't know how to fix it. Sometimes i last so long i start to lose it...which can be really frusterating. I have no problem getting started and remain hard for quite a while though.
Overall, im generally very healthy, i workout 4-5 times a week...strength training/cardio. My diet is about 3k-3500 calories pretty much all clean. I take a multivitamin sometimes supplement with creatine. Ive run one test cycle for 12 weeks at 500mg and ran a proper pct.....Didnt really notice any difference during or after cycle in relation to finishing quicker.

I am taking effexor xr 150mg which is an anti depressant. At this point going off it is not an option. I've tried before and literally crash like a crack addict (nausea, sleeplessness, sweating, dizziness, headaches, severe depression, etc). I know that it can have sexual side effects so it is possible that this is the problem.

Given all that ive said....Do i have any options besides going off effexor? Are there any drugs or supplements that help a person in these reguards? any feedback would be appreciated!
 
Try thinking about some bodybuilding videos... You might be gay lol

JK bro! had to do it. For real though when I'm on tren I have the same problem. Try doggy style it usually helps.
 
brother ive been on antidepressants for 17 years,and Effexor was the worse on i took that had bad sexual side effects,i couldnt finish at all,the main reason is that Effexor is an SNRI-not a SSRI the difference is that an SNRI effects both Seratonin and Neoprnephrine in your brain,where an SSRI just effects Seratonin a big difference,i couldnt take it,and want ever take an SNRI again,if your doctor would consider it,ask him to switch you to a SSRI and add Abilify,Im on Lexapro 40mg/day and it has the least sides effects of them all,Celexa is next,then Zoloft have very little sexual sides,Effexor,Cymbalta,Pristqic are all in the SNRI family and they all have the worse sexual sides of any antidepressant.

The addition of Wellbutrin will help your libido and erections and finishing quicker,im just speaking of my experiences my friend,theres lots of other options out there other than Effexor
 
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thanks alot for the advice bullseye

I am a little afraid to switch to another type of drug though....I've tried going off of effexor before.....was reallllllyyyy bad...borderline suicidal bad. While on it im like the exact opposite, enjoying life to the fullest...i have absolutely no complaints about effexor other than the sexual sides.

Also i was under the impression that all anti-depressants were rough on sexual side effects. And yes i've heard of wellbutrin helping as well. But if i knew switching drugs would work just as well....with less sexual side effects i would do it in a heartbeat....i guess im just a little scared.
 
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on a side note, it does feel good to hear someone else say they had trouble finishing too......its fucking crazy. I have to have like utter and complete focus and really work on pumping it out, lose focus for 15-20 seconds and that'll be another 10 minutes trying to get back into it. All this and i can only get off in one position, and even that takes awhile. sorry for the graphic nature there lol.
 
Not on any meds myself but I have soooo much difficulty finishing. Sometimes I feel bad for the woman. Only sometimes though! I wish I could figure out a way to finish faster. I no longer masturbate and save all my man lava for my new girlfriend. I'm finding out that helps a little, not much, but I have been able to shave off about 10 minutes.
 
slair said:
thanks alot for the advice bullseye

I am a little afraid to switch to another type of drug though....I've tried going off of effexor before.....was reallllllyyyy bad...borderline suicidal bad. While on it im like the exact opposite, enjoying life to the fullest...i have absolutely no complaints about effexor other than the sexual sides.

Also i was under the impression that all anti-depressants were rough on sexual side effects. And yes i've heard of wellbutrin helping as well. But if i knew switching drugs would work just as well....with less sexual side effects i would do it in a heartbeat....i guess im just a little scared.
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at first i was scared to change to different drugs,but i was not gonna go through the sexual deal,i just had to accept it and back my ears and go for it,and one thing not all of the antis are bad on sexual sides efx,esp the newer ones like Lexapro,Celexa and Zoloft,if theres anyway talk toyour doctor,i know its tough to come off something that makes you feel good,but if it messes with your sex life,for me i couldnt deal with it,take it from me man,ive tried all of them,and i mean all of them alot of them,the older ones and effexor made me feel great,but i wasnt gonna deal with the sides,so i would change until i found the right one,with the addition of abilify it will help with the antideressant and has no sexual sides,hope this helps man
 
I have the same problem, crazy stamina. I think it gets worse the older you get because when i was in my 20's it wasn't a problem but once i hit 30's it seems my staminais more.

i know what you mean about going for so long you almost lose it. ! thing that I do is just stop and take a little break. It seems that as you get older you are not as "Sensative" down there. I start out good and sometimes i can get off right away but once i start getting to that point that i know it won't happen i stop and take a break. Lay there and chill for about 10 minutes and that seems to do the trick. I put it back in her and BAM...good to go! lol
 
darkside06 said:
I have the same problem, crazy stamina. I think it gets worse the older you get because when i was in my 20's it wasn't a problem but once i hit 30's it seems my staminais more.

i know what you mean about going for so long you almost lose it. ! thing that I do is just stop and take a little break. It seems that as you get older you are not as "Sensative" down there. I start out good and sometimes i can get off right away but once i start getting to that point that i know it won't happen i stop and take a break. Lay there and chill for about 10 minutes and that seems to do the trick. I put it back in her and BAM...good to go! lol
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Yeah I find that taking a break helps too but I just can't lay there, I gotta munch on her or something.
 
darkside06 said:
I have the same problem, crazy stamina. I think it gets worse the older you get because when i was in my 20's it wasn't a problem but once i hit 30's it seems my staminais more.

i know what you mean about going for so long you almost lose it. ! thing that I do is just stop and take a little break. It seems that as you get older you are not as "Sensative" down there. I start out good and sometimes i can get off right away but once i start getting to that point that i know it won't happen i stop and take a break. Lay there and chill for about 10 minutes and that seems to do the trick. I put it back in her and BAM...good to go! lol
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Brother wait till you hit your 40's and mid 40's....it sucks!!!!!!

stevenmd said:
Yeah I find that taking a break helps too but I just can't lay there, I gotta munch on her or something.
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lmao...munch on her
 
its always been like that for me... long before i ever got into steroids

quick for me is maybe 20-30 minutes at least. usually 40min or so. it drives the GF insane (not in the good way) b/c it takes so long...

and fuck... if this gets worse as i get older idk what I'm gonna do - still in my early 20s lol
 
07Lane40 said:
its always been like that for me... long before i ever got into steroids

quick for me is maybe 20-30 minutes at least. usually 40min or so. it drives the GF insane (not in the good way) b/c it takes so long...

and fuck... if this gets worse as i get older idk what I'm gonna do - still in my early 20s lol
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man i hate to be the bearer of bad news,but it gets worse
 
The thing is when it comes to reaching an orgasm there are so many hormones/chemicals involved. It could be any one item. I remember reading a very informative thread on another forum years ago about a guy who was dealing with this and had to one by one figure out what was too high/too low. But he figured it out.
 
Zero V said:
The thing is when it comes to reaching an orgasm there are so many hormones/chemicals involved. It could be any one item. I remember reading a very informative thread on another forum years ago about a guy who was dealing with this and had to one by one figure out what was too high/too low. But he figured it out.
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Damn it, son, find that article!
 
Hi...I'm on the same dosage of Effexor and don't have that problem at all. As a matter of fact, sex drive and all that is the same as ever.
 
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