Friendship first then relationship, Or just relationship?

Sassytassie84 said:
I am also a relationship type of girl, not into one night stands or fwb (however, I have had a fwb before and it was fine, I would just rather have one person). I usually know pretty quick if I want to be just friends with someone or if I see this person as a potential relationship. If it is a potential, I like to take things a little slow sexually to see if it's just my hormones or if it is because we actually have a connection.
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I hate when it's just my hormones taking over, I am glad I have my best guy friends to talk to about these things while I am trying to make the decision, sometimes I think there is this strong connection when we really don't. Taking things slowly works well for me, keeps me from making some poor choices.
 
Smilee21 said:
I hate when it's just my hormones taking over, I am glad I have my best guy friends to talk to about these things while I am trying to make the decision, sometimes I think there is this strong connection when we really don't. Taking things slowly works well for me, keeps me from making some poor choices.
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Exactly! If only more girls thought this way rather than getting caught up in the moment. Would save them a lot of heart ache. It took me a while to figure this one out... but when I did, damn, I am was glad I did.
 
Sassytassie84 said:
Exactly! If only more girls thought this way rather than getting caught up in the moment. Would save them a lot of heart ache. It took me a while to figure this one out... but when I did, damn, I am was glad I did.
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I will call up my best friend tell him about the dude I am interested in and he will give him his input on the situation... It helps having the guys perspective...
 
Smilee21 said:
Like rough make up sex when you are mad at someone... Great sex after a big fight, taking all your built up frustrations And emotions out on them as their pounding away or um digging as deep as they can trying to finally release all that built up tension caused by the 2 of them...
Is this what you mean???
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No no... I'm talking fucking someone and hating them before, during and after...
 
Sassytassie84 said:
Why in the world would you want to do someone you hate? If I hate you, best guess is I am prob disgusted of the thought of you.
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Hormones. Safe sex. My first ex-wife and I had sex more during the 6 months when we were fighting through our divorce than we did the entire marriage. I hated every minute of it.:laugh3:
 
Ok ya.... I have hate fucked before
The last 2 years off and on with my Ex... I fucked him bc I hated the skank ass whore he was with and wanted her to find out. Did I enjoy the sex fuck no never had the entire 11 yrs I was with him would I do it again ya over and over again just for the simple fact that I can

I can for a B**** when I want to be...
 
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