jimbo79
stop fn staring!
someones gotta stick up for the kid, might as well be me."fat girls" are not my first pick either. It's not becuase im shallow, its becuase im just not attracted. (most anyway) Attraction is what initially draws you to a women/man, if your not attracted 90% of the time conversation wont begin and nothing can progress... The only way to get to know someone is by talking/being around someone, how are you going to approach someone and see there inner beauty if your not attracted enough to spark a convo? There are a few expeptions to this, example - your friend brings her fat friend along to hang out. You really meant to hang out with your friend, but along the road you got to know the "fat" friend and developed a liking to her personality that you never would have otherwise if the fat friend did not join.
I've had a few gf's in the passed that were fucking BEAUTIFUL in the beginning, 120 pounds in GREAT shape. I was attracted to her so I asked her out on a date. I got to like her personality more and more and we dated... a year later the chick gains like 50 pounds. If I MET her AT the heavier weight chances are I NEVER woulda approached this girl, however BECAUSE her initial attraction interested me I got to know her and by the time she gained her weight my feelings for her were already there, weight doesnt matter anymore.
Not sure why I spent the time to make this reply, just thought i'd throw my opinion up here.
I know what your saying! And I agree, just minimal chances I'd go looking for that...But like you said, If there was a chance that there was time spent----who knows.
I just won't put a chace on for that..