how many times have you cheated on your girlfriend or wife

[n8zdogg]

Women are unable to seperate sex and love. That's what makes this whole "cheating" thing such a BIG F*CKIN DEAL, especially in the good ol USA. Here's my advice for what its worth, if you're young and have the opportunity to f*ck because some horny girl is all over you, you'd better throw on that rubber and have at it. Why? because if you're goddamn dumb enough to marry some girl and think that you're going to keep having all the wild kinky sex you want til death do you part (In most cases) you can forget it. I work in a place that's about 80% female(most married), and let me tell you, women's mindsets are all pretty much alike, once that ring is on, it's their world. If you are happily married and never think think about cheating count your blessings, as for me I think I'll go jerk off and think that hot blond that I passed up when my (now) wife was my girlfriend, and I was too righteous to "cheat"

 

[brooklynheight]

there is no option in the poll for +20

+20 woman

+100 times with these +20 women..i do not lie

 

[jph]

Women are unable to seperate sex and love. That's what makes this whole "cheating" thing such a BIG F*CKIN DEAL, especially in the good ol USA. Here's my advice for what its worth, if you're young and have the opportunity to f*ck because some horny girl is all over you, you'd better throw on that rubber and have at it. Why? because if you're goddamn dumb enough to marry some girl and think that you're going to keep having all the wild kinky sex you want til death do you part (In most cases) you can forget it. I work in a place that's about 80% female(most married), and let me tell you, women's mindsets are all pretty much alike, once that ring is on, it's their world. If you are happily married and never think think about cheating count your blessings, as for me I think I'll go jerk off and think that hot blond that I passed up when my (now) wife was my girlfriend, and I was too righteous to "cheat"

damb bro!! you make a strong case!!

 

[Eat it or Beat it!!!]

if you are with 2 girls and they dont know about each other , its still cheating .

no its not...theres so committment involved and hes only having a sexual relationship with them

 

[Jimmykick]

What if you're married?

 

[Mesomorphyl]

I have had more than 10 different girls while married. Over a hundred sex sessions.

I guess I will vote the max. The reason alot of the young girls like older men is because we do not judge them, we hold that youth dear, we have money.

 

[MANOWAR]

The way I look at it, about 90% of relationships that I know of, the people cheat on each other

Sadly this is true.

I've never cheated though, never will either. If you really love someone in a relationship whats the need for other women/men, you should be happy with what you have

 

[carolinacrackah]

i agree with you guys, no cheating on the wife...girlfriends are a different story though, no ring...no problem!

I would have to disagree....your word is your word girlfriend or wife.

 

[Skarhead1]

To all those who cheat on their wives... what the FUCK is the point of getting married then? Why are yous till maried? it means til death with your spouse. If you cant help keeping your dick in your pants why the fuck are you married? dont you feel like a piece of shit bc you are, same goes for wives wo do it

 

[deathmetalanimal]

never. anyone who cheats is a scumbag. don't wanna turn down pussy? can't handle being with just one women? fine. just be honest about it and don't play games. just find a girl who you can be in a not so serious/open relationship with.

 

[outlawtas]

Yeah girls and guys cheating is totally different becaues girls just can't seperate sex and love (99% cannot, there are a few who can). When a girl has sex with a guy, it's because she really likes that guy...when a guy has with a girl he's doing it because he wants sex (he doesn't even care if she's hot or not most of the time...it's simply sex).

That being said, I never cheated...almost once, right after I found out my gf cheated on me (i never found out if she really did or not) so I backed out . After being in a 4 year relationship from 16-20, I realize I could never be with just one woman now...just won't happen. I won't cheat though, I'll be straight up about it and let them know that it's just sex.

 

[carolinacrackah]

Yeah girls and guys cheating is totally different becaues girls just can't seperate sex and love (99% cannot, there are a few who can). When a girl has sex with a guy, it's because she really likes that guy...when a guy has with a girl he's doing it because he wants sex (he doesn't even care if she's hot or not most of the time...it's simply sex).

That being said, I never cheated...almost once, right after I found out my gf cheated on me (i never found out if she really did or not) so I backed out . After being in a 4 year relationship from 16-20, I realize I could never be with just one woman now...just won't happen. I won't cheat though, I'll be straight up about it and let them know that it's just sex.

The psychology that drives a man or woman to sex may be different in nature but ultimately its about honesty.

 

[Ponderosa]

I believe that unless ur engaged, it's ok to cheat. But a line HAS to be drawn and it is at engagement and then, naturally, marriage. For men, it may feel good to get wood on for another girl while you're married, but in the long term you'll definitely have guilt and depression from it. Unless you're simply a self-centered, mindless bastard. Then it's ok to cheat.

 

[carolinacrackah]

I believe that unless ur engaged, it's ok to cheat. But a line HAS to be drawn and it is at engagement and then, naturally, marriage. For men, it may feel good to get wood on for another girl while you're married, but in the long term you'll definitely have guilt and depression from it. Unless you're simply a self-centered, mindless bastard. Then it's ok to cheat.

But you are still being dishonest. Its ok to be dishonest just because you want to keep that person in your life and possibly marry them? That mode of thinking hinges more on selfishness than love.
YOu may feel comfortable with this MO for a while but down the road, depending on your level of intelligence, you will grapple with the question whether or not your marriage or long standing relationship is not as truthfull as you could have made it.
OH geeeez im starting to sound like Dr. Phil....I need to head back to the convo lounge ASAP.

 

[Ponderosa]

But you are still being dishonest. Its ok to be dishonest just because you want to keep that person in your life and possibly marry them? That mode of thinking hinges more on selfishness than love.
YOu may feel comfortable with this MO for a while but down the road, depending on your level of intelligence, you will grapple with the question whether or not your marriage or long standing relationship is not as truthfull as you could have made it.
OH geeeez im starting to sound like Dr. Phil....I need to head back to the convo lounge ASAP.

If you're going to cheat, then a line needs to be drawn somewhere. It should, at minimum, be at engagement. Prior to that, you're still fishing and you should throw as many lines in the water as you can.

 

[Skarhead1]

I seriously would like to know what married people have to say about cheating and why they do it and wtf is the point of being maried if they do do it.

 

[carolinacrackah]

If you're going to cheat, then a line needs to be drawn somewhere. It should, at minimum, be at engagement. Prior to that, you're still fishing and you should throw as many lines in the water as you can.

So why not tell the fish yer still fishing for other fish? But you still think that shes really cute and looks like she would be pretty tasty deep fried with tarter sauce but yer not quite ready for dinner yet. Perhaps yer afraid that the fish might jump out of the boat and swim away....and youll be left re heating left overs for supper.

 

[Jimmykick]

Well I'm married and I do not have another reason to cheat. My wife is hot and in shape. I have to say though, when I am on cycle I cannot stop thinking about sex. Go figure right? I flirt with the idea of sex with other women and have come very close to fucking some hot ones on the road. What's fucked about that is I get lots of sex at home but 30 minutes after I am ready to fuck a tree. I am consumed by it. I can have sex with my wife and beat myself silly an hour later. I find that when I'm off, like now, I am normal. I don't need it nearly as much but I still enjoy a regular sex life with her. Balance is what it is all about. It can't be all sex but that is what test makes me focus on. More and more sex. As many of us know, being in shape and looking good will attract other women married or not. I have had chances to have relationships outside of my marriage but a relationship is not what I want. I just want to fuck. But at night lying with my wife in bed and when I look at the person that has taken care of my kids, cleaned the home, done all my laundry, made dinner for my son and I after we get home from the baseball field then she reaches for me and tells me she loves me then I realize that I am a fucking idiot. Then I jerk off. LOL

 

[carolinacrackah]

Then I jerk off. LOL

Haha
I have never cheated on a girl....ever. However I have had to deal with the same things here and like you say its especially bad when im on. You probably dont give in cause you realize she is an important part of what moves your life and as an intelligent person wouldnt jeopardize that....ok im gonna stop soundin gay now.

 

[Alpin]

I agree w\Tmann.

I am still young (22) dont got a girl now, but For example right now i got two girls i am occupyed with, but they are not my gf's so no harm.

If and when i get married, then that is something that you dont f*ck around w\.

You're only 22 bro...give it sometime and you will be having mixed feelings.