How old were you when you started to settle down?

[snigg]

Lately a lot of my friends are starting to get engaged and married and most of the other ones are in long term relationships. Im only 26 and dont see myself settling down for awhile. I cant seem to stay content with one woman. I've met some great girls but still find myself more happy juggling 3 or 4 different girls. Just curious if anyone here is in their 30's and still doing what im doing? Seems like everyone ends up divorced and single these days anyway so maybe im better off.

 

[Machine5150]

it all depends on if you meet the one or not.. Typically women start freaking out when they are getting close to thirty and want to marry anyone they meet just so they can follow along in their childhood fantasies of what their life should be like.. thing is half of them end up in divorce.. but there are a few there that you know will last.. so fair play to them, but im gonna ride the singles train until i am in my mid/late thirties, then go back and pick up a 25yo girl then..

 

[roidedsurfbum]

it all depends on if you meet the one or not.. Typically women start freaking out when they are getting close to thirty and want to marry anyone they meet just so they can follow along in their childhood fantasies of what their life should be like.. thing is half of them end up in divorce.. but there are a few there that you know will last.. so fair play to them, but im gonna ride the singles train until i am in my mid/late thirties, then go back and pick up a 25yo girl then..

+1 on every count. Couldn't have said it better myself. Nice job Machine.

 

[jimbo79]

I was ready once...but shit happend..

took awhile to get over it...but I'm not ready once again...maybe it's cause I'm looking again for once was...dunno!

But in the mean time..I will have so much fun searching!

 

[Die$eL~Man]

a loooooooong time

 

[Mr P]

X2 like this old fart said^^Lol, looooooong time ago,.

 

[CenturionHRT]

Was 27... Didn't see it coming either...

 

[1badmofo]

Ive tried juggling 3 or more and that is like a job in itself. It's like juggling chain saws especially if they don't know about the others, because they all want your time and attention. Shit bro just don't settle down until you know it's time. Settling down is the easy part, unsettling down sucks. Also, I never heard anybody say "I wish I would have settle down sooner". They do say though that they married too young etc. Also, when you do settled down make sure you take your time looking for red flags and only accept women with a job, a car, possibly a home and not a bunch of debt. The older you get though, the more likely girls are going to have kids already, just fyi. You can always go get a younger one like machine said tho. Mid twenties is prime time for girl wanting an older stable guy with a good job etc.

 

[82nd_Fister]

I'm trying to remember if I was 19 or 20... you can see the toll it's taking on my memory

 

[jimbo79]

Lately a lot of my friends are starting to get engaged and married and most of the other ones are in long term relationships. Im only 26 and dont see myself settling down for awhile. I cant seem to stay content with one woman. I've met some great girls but still find myself more happy juggling 3 or 4 different girls. Just curious if anyone here is in their 30's and still doing what im doing? Seems like everyone ends up divorced and single these days anyway so maybe im better off.

Also, your only 26! Fuck run with it! have fun! fun fun!!!! when you find the right girl you will know...I did it that way, back in the day!

 

[Epic Ed]

I managed to stay single until I was 36. Was perfectly content to remain a bachelor, too, but an ex-girlfriend who had always been a friend even after our break up the first time around got back in touch. It was literally a leap of faith for me to make the choice to leave a lifestyle that I was very happy with to embark on a new, unknown adventure with a woman who already had a kid and who lived 1500 miles away from me. Life is much different today than it was six years ago but I wouldn't trade it for anything. We have over come some monumental obstacles to get where we're at and I now have two adorable children with her who mean the world to me. I just got back tonight after a week away from home due to work and I have no idea how I would ever lived without her and our kids. I don't ever want to find out, either.

Some blessings are unknowable from your current position in life. Sometimes you have to get out of your self-centeredness in order to achieve greater heights. Sometimes stepping out on faith brings life's greatest rewards.