I recently was up against such a challenge. I met a cool chick and didnt want to scare her away with the fact that I am perfectly ok with aas. The key for me was that I gradually introduced her to the Idea. This is relative in many other aspects of life. Luckily she is training to be a nurse and is familiar with the fact that some steroids are not all bad. I mean look at birth control lol. You may have to lie to tell the truth in this case, but never flat out say it. For me is was more along the lines of letting her know, I have been using research products like melanotan II to see how well I could get a tan. Being that she was a white girl, this instantly sparked enthusiasm which actually led me to administering her a small dose. This really worked in my favor because I am knowledgable about anything im going to be putting into my body (or hers) so she trusted me. Mind you I already slept with her, so this is also a factor. You have to break the ice with some sex so to speak. (What better way to get to know someone lol.) Gradually we talked more, and as the bible says out of the abundance of a mans heart, so will he speak. Eventually your gonna wanna talk about it. On or off cycle its hard not to be exited about it, because of its obvious benefits. Do some brainstorming, maybe tell her you have worked with aids patients and although sad, you have seen people overcome wasting by self administering Deca..Or you could watch bigger stronger faster on a date night. (Act like you dont know what its about!)