Love stinks.

Zero V

Zero V

Prodigal son
For the first time in 5 years my heart is experiencing love lol. Instead of just liking a girl, or wanting to date her, etc,etc. Its that "Holy crap my stomach turned upside down in fear of saying what I need to say" feeling.

Its that kind of feeling like "If she says no, no one else will ever measure up to her". :bawling:

I have known this girl for maybe 6 years. She is 19 now, and I love their entire family because they are the most amazing group of people in existence who live in pure self sacrifice for those around them and in need. I never had interest in her before because of age, but seeing her more this last year I realize the amazing person she has grown into.

In fact she has not dated her entire highschool career because she wants a real relationship. Which is insane because she is beautiful beyond beautiful. Wonderful as a person.

We share exact mindsets in our faith, political views, etc.

I am 25 years old, been to hell and back when it comes to hardships, and am by all means ordinary except I excel in leadership and it shows, and I am great at counseling people.

I feel sub-par to do more than interact as a friend. Yet I will hate myself for years to come of I don't at least make a move. Considering she is always excited to see me when I come around.

But I will be honest, its scarier than a gunman willing to shoot me.

Seriously? I can tell my big boss at work "No" if I feel it necessary. I can argue with a cop. I am willing to fight someone if they make it necessary.

But this is downright crippling. Why does such a simple thing make me such a big wuss?

You just feel that at 25 how can you beat out the people that same age with more opportunity in life? I am just now getting back in College in Spring when I should have graduated 2 years ago had I not gotten messed up over life issues.
 
to young to think so hard zero roll the dice and live bro, Hell I been married 3 times and wouldnt change my life one bit...well maybe a couple hey yall watch this moments.. but do it bud dont grow old and think what if
 
jimbo79 said:
gimme her number:)
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Jenny don't change your number
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Jenny, Jenny you're the girl for me
You don't know me but you make me so happy
I tried to call you before
But I lost my nerve
I tried my imagination
But I was disturbed

Jenny I've got your number
I need to make you mine
Jenny don't change your number
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8 6 7-5 3 0 9
 
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I understand the scary part about it.

Making a move can suddenly mean a potential life partner...suddenly mean kids you don't have yet have a future.

All you have to do is approach her/text her/call her and ask her what she's doing one saturday night...and ask her if she would like to hang out. That's all you have to say. Then just go from there. It will work out if she is interested.
 
He better call her while he is still singing that song. If he waits to long he may be singing this instead...

Jessie is a friend,
Yeah, I know he's been
A good friend of mine
But lately something's changed
That ain't hard to define
Jessie's got himself a girl
And I want to make her mine
And she's watching him with those eyes
And she's lovin' him with that body,
I just know it
Yeah 'n' he's holding her in his arms late,
Late at night

I wish that I had Jesse's girl!

Where can I find a woman like that!






Mr P said:
Jenny don't change your number
8 6 7-5 3 0 9
8 6 7-5 3 0 9

Jenny, Jenny you're the girl for me
You don't know me but you make me so happy
I tried to call you before
But I lost my nerve
I tried my imagination
But I was disturbed

Jenny I've got your number
I need to make you mine
Jenny don't change your number
8 6 7-5 3 0 9
8 6 7-5 3 0 9
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Georgia said:
I understand the scary part about it.

Making a move can suddenly mean a potential life partner...suddenly mean kids you don't have yet have a future.

All you have to do is approach her/text her/call her and ask her what she's doing one saturday night...and ask her if she would like to hang out. That's all you have to say. Then just go from there. It will work out if she is interested.
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We hung out(Me, my buddy, her, and her older sister) tonight...

Well she spent the entire night staying by me,we made alot of eye contact and I spent some time treating her like a lady, we all had an AMAZING time! Many photos, etc. I took them out to a museum/science center here, then to a nice restaurant.

To make it better a car was passing in front of us at a super busy intersection on the way home and the poor ladies wheel fell right off and it ground to a halt in front of us! Snowing like crazy I hit the hazards with traffic behind us and all around. My buddy leaps out to grab the tire laying in traffic because one of the little kids that was with the woman was going for it. The wheel bearings were lost too. It was an older lady and her 5 kids. So me and him pushed them out of the intersection. Because apparently of the other 50 cars around us not a single other one was going to stop :doh: So much for good Samaritans anymore. So I felt a little happy that I got to show off being a good man in front of her as well :D lol

Then when we hugged goodbye at the end of the night, she kept watching as I left. My buddy watched for me, she kept looking through the door, closing it very very slowly. Then she kept looking out the window. He also said ever time he checked her( he was wing manning for me and honestly it seemed like her sister who is a long time friend as well, they both would leave us alone) he said she was constantly looking at me.

To say I am excited is an understatement. To say that saying I am excited is an understatement, is an understatement.

I forgot that the human heart was capable of these emotions.
 
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Seems like she really digs you. Sounds like she's hopeful you like her with the whole body language, watching you leave thing.

Genuine eye contact is definitely huge. That's where the connection starts.

I wish you the best bro. Seriously. This is like a mini-love story.
 
Zero V said:
We hung out(Me, my buddy, her, and her older sister) tonight...

Well she spent the entire night staying by me,we made alot of eye contact and I spent some time treating her like a lady, we all had an AMAZING time! Many photos, etc. I took them out to a museum/science center here, then to a nice restaurant.

To make it better a car was passing in front of us at a super busy intersection on the way home and the poor ladies wheel fell right off and it ground to a halt in front of us! Snowing like crazy I hit the hazards with traffic behind us and all around. My buddy leaps out to grab the tire laying in traffic because one of the little kids that was with the woman was going for it. The wheel bearings were lost too. It was an older lady and her 5 kids. So me and him pushed them out of the intersection. Because apparently of the other 50 cars around us not a single other one was going to stop :doh: So much for good Samaritans anymore. So I felt a little happy that I got to show off being a good man in front of her as well :D lol

Then when we hugged goodbye at the end of the night, she kept watching as I left. My buddy watched for me, she kept looking through the door, closing it very very slowly. Then she kept looking out the window. He also said ever time he checked her( he was wing manning for me and honestly it seemed like her sister who is a long time friend as well, they both would leave us alone) he said she was constantly looking at me.

To say I am excited is an understatement. To say that saying I am excited is an understatement, is an understatement.

I forgot that the human heart was capable of these emotions.
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I'm sure she ws impressed when u helped this women, it shows how caring you are & that's a good trait to have.

I love it when Mr P does acts of kindness like that, even after been married for 15 years, when I wintness moments like that, it just reminds me why I married him.

I think she's interested, so, u should ask her out again, & go out (alone) with her & just be yourself & it will all go from there.

Good luck :)
 
What are you waiting for!!!

Just go and ask her hand nowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww nowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww :DDDD
 
Watch those young girls , they dont know what they want yet and are unpredictable ,but usually fun while it lasts
 
lol. Threw the info out there with her sister for input(Her sister is one of my best friends).

Her older sister got far more excited that I like her sister than I imagined lol.

But she agrees that she has guarded her heart and mind quite perfectly. She wants a husband not a boyfriend. lol
 
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Zero V said:
lol. Threw the info out there with her sister for input(Her sister is one of my best friends).

Her older sister got far more excited that I like her sister than I imagined lol.

But she agrees that she has guarded her heart and mind quite perfectly. She wants a husband not a boyfriend. lol
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Sounds perfect! DONT FUCK THIS UP!
 
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