question for the ladies

[traviswyliedime]

okay ladies so I have this girl that I really like and was wondering how to go about telling her that I use steroids. If your boyfriend or husband was on steroids and you didn't know about it what would you want from them? Hide it, be honest, not do it all together?

 

[DaHurt]

I think the answers may be a little biased since the women here are members of an online forum called Steroidology haha...

...but seriously I'm having the same issue except I LIVE with her and we're ENGAGED...yes that's right, I still haven't told her that I use...

 

[traviswyliedime]

how the heck has she not found your stuff hurt??!
i didnt even think about the answers being biased haha

 

[DaHurt]

I guess because she doesn't look through my sock drawer haha...

 

[traviswyliedime]

you can keep all your stuff in one drawer?? haha
all those bottles of peptides and other goodies!

 

[DaHurt]

haha no i have a mini fridge that locks

 

[traviswyliedime]

ahaha sneaky hurt!!
well i have a snoop of a girlfriend that goes through ALL of my stuff ALL of the time. I dont want to have to hide it from her forever

 

[gymrat827]

show her orals first. than maybe sarms, if you kinda build it wont look as bad IMO...she hopefully can get over the pills. than a month later see you with a sarm. so when she finally sees pins/vials/cleaning supplies/etc she wont think your crazy

 

[JOMO718]

ahaha sneaky hurt!!
well i have a snoop of a girlfriend that goes through ALL of my stuff ALL of the time. I dont want to have to hide it from her forever

How long have you been with her? Hard topic, some buddies of mine told their girls and they freaked and eventually got over it. And some could care less! Toss of the hat.

 

[traviswyliedime]

ive been with this woman over 4 years now..shes a crazy ass, feminist, controlling, liberalist, puerto rican woman. Cant live with hispanic women..definately cant live without them

 

[JOMO718]

ive been with this woman over 4 years now..shes a crazy ass, feminist, controlling, liberalist, puerto rican woman. Cant live with hispanic women..definately cant live without them

Im Italian/Puerto Rican and I can def relate to the craziness you are for. But from what you briefly just said...Good luck you! Thats all I got brother. Hopefully the woman will give some insight.

 

[traviswyliedime]

I need to hear from the hispanic women I guess!!
Man trying to get your point through to her is like trying to argue with a freaking wall

 

[Smilee21]

From a woman's point of view, who doesn't use, I would want to be told about it, maybe slowly introduce them to her and educate her, tell her the reason why you do cycles.

I'm not puerto rican but I know many their a lot like the Filipina's out there. It might be worse if you continued to keep it a secret and she did find out one day.

I am very big on open communication, I don't like secrets.

Whatever you decide to do, good luck

 

[traviswyliedime]

From a woman's point of view, who doesn't use, I would want to be told about it, maybe slowly introduce them to her and educate her, tell her the reason why you do cycles.

I'm not puerto rican but I know many their a lot like the Filipina's out there. It might be worse if you continued to keep it a secret and she did find out one day.

I am very big on open communication, I don't like secrets.

Whatever you decide to do, good luck

ive tried to talk to her about steroids so I could educate her but she wont even hear it. As soon as I say steroids the conversation is over.

 

[DaHurt]

Have you had her watch Bigger Stronger Faster?

BTW my fiancee is Filipina haha...

 

[Smilee21]

I am sorry and wish you the best of luck.

I do not know than, I personally would want to be told about it, with their reason why they take it, and then get educated about it. That's just me though.

 

[traviswyliedime]

thank you for your advice. i will get through to her one day

 

[Mrs P]

okay ladies so I have this girl that I really like and was wondering how to go about telling her that I use steroids. If your boyfriend or husband was on steroids and you didn't know about it what would you want from them? Hide it, be honest, not do it all together?

I would want to know about it, hiding it is never a good idea, it makes the situation look worst than it is if u hide it.

In a relationship honesty & communication is a must.

 

[Mrs P]

ive been with this woman over 4 years now..shes a crazy ass, feminist, controlling, liberalist, puerto rican woman. Cant live with hispanic women..definately cant live without them

Wow, It must be hard to communicate or disagree with someone like this, I don't think her being Puerto Rican is what makes her act this way, yes, I know some hispanic women tend to be strong minded, but she behaves this way because it's just her personality.

I'm sure she's concerned for your health, but to not want to even hear about it it's a bit harsh... You have to be open to communication even if u disagree with what's being said.

If you can't even mention it to her, then I don't see how u can educate her or make her understand. You've got a tough situation..

Good luck !

 

[Bullseye Forever]

I would want to know about it, hiding it is never a good idea, it makes the situation look worst than it is if u hide it.

In a relationship there has to be henestly & communication is a must in a relationship.

i agree totally with Mrs P my wife knew i was on trt,heck she is the one who got me to go see an Endo the first time i was diagnosed with Low T so she knew i was gonna be taking Test the rest of my life,and then i explained to her about what i wanted to do about trying other things and using them,but not overdoing them,and yea shes concerned,but she also knows i study up on them and do it the right way