She said yes!

Matt Jax

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That's right.........the mrs has said yes I can do the gear!

The truth is I was going to do it regardless, but having her support will make my cycle much more easier i.e. no hiding the gear and pinning in a rush (not recommended).

As soon as I get my AI's im good to go.

I'm thinking about keeping a log on here with progress pics e.t.c.
 
I did that with a lady once. In doing so I gave her the ability to monitor what I was doing and how much. Then she started searching the net looking up Tren and what it's made from. Not long after that she wanted me to stop and was kicking up a big fuss about it every time I went on and wanted to know what it was THIS TIME ! And threw around the word drug adict a lot.

Don't get me wrong. You did the right thing but does she know that you may very well be doing this for many years to come ? Some people leave that part out... Like me : )

Now that she knows, she's going to be able to tell every time you're on.

But I really do think you did the right thing. I hope it woks out the way you wanted it to.
 
I did that with a lady once. In doing so I gave her the ability to monitor what I was doing and how much. Then she started searching the net looking up Tren and what it's made from. Not long after that she wanted me to stop and was kicking up a big fuss about it every time I went on and wanted to know what it was THIS TIME ! And threw around the word drug adict a lot.

Don't get me wrong. You did the right thing but does she know that you may very well be doing this for many years to come ? Some people leave that part out... Like me : )

Now that she knows, she's going to be able to tell every time you're on.

But I really do think you did the right thing. I hope it woks out the way you wanted it to.

This is kinda my experience so I don't say shit anymore unless she asks. Then I don't get too specific when I do tell her.
The media has brainwashed everyone, my wife included, to believe that anything labeled "steroid", is going to turn you into some horrible monster. So when you tell them that your "on", they look for shit, and then even find things that don't exist. It's like she could pull some dumb shit and when you get mad it's like "the drugs are doing that to you" , when in fact, it has nothing to do with the drugs, and even Woody Allen would be going the fuck off.
Anyway, If your girl is cool with it, awesome. I have been there, done that, got the T-shirt, and wished I hadn't.
 
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I talked to my wife the first time and she reluctantly said yes. She then told me I was never doing it again. Needless to say I did it anyway. She busted me and we got in a huge fight to the point where I was packing my bags.

We worked it out though. I told her that this makes me happy and I'm going to do it. She seems to be good with it now and is definately enjoying the daily vagina beatings.
 
Thats totally true what ironmonger said, be prepared when ever u guys fight she's going to blame it on the gear.. That's what my wife always does. I just started a tren cycle, hopefully she won't look up any side effects of that...lol!!!
 
I also told my wife ahead of time because I didn't want to have to hide it. The first few weeks she just always said "I wish you just didn't do it at all", but now I think she's liking the changes that it's helping bring me :)
 
That's right.........the mrs has said yes I can do the gear!

The truth is I was going to do it regardless, but having her support will make my cycle much more easier i.e. no hiding the gear and pinning in a rush (not recommended).

As soon as I get my AI's im good to go.

I'm thinking about keeping a log on here with progress pics e.t.c.

Good 4 u, it makes your life & her's easier, when u lie sooner or later the truth comes out & then "You in trouble"
Honesty always pays in a relanshionship ..IMO
Good luck to u !
 
you love your wife. good to know. you seems very normal , happy guy.

why doing bodybuilding ? lol

what kind of question is that? if your married you shouldnt bodybuild? not everyone works out for girls. sorry bro but you need game to get girls not muscles.
 
I did that with a lady once. In doing so I gave her the ability to monitor what I was doing and how much. Then she started searching the net looking up Tren and what it's made from. Not long after that she wanted me to stop and was kicking up a big fuss about it every time I went on and wanted to know what it was THIS TIME ! And threw around the word drug adict a lot.

Don't get me wrong. You did the right thing but does she know that you may very well be doing this for many years to come ? Some people leave that part out... Like me : )

Now that she knows, she's going to be able to tell every time you're on.

But I really do think you did the right thing. I hope it woks out the way you wanted it to.

I totally understand what you mean. The first time I even mentioned the fact I wanted to do steroids, she kicked off without letting me get a word in edge ways.
She, like everybody else who hasn't researched and studied steroids had a very common misconception about them.
But after I showed her the information I have studied and explained my cycle the pct and everything else that goes with it, she is behind me 100%.

As far as arguing goes, I have promised myself that as soon as it starts, rather than biting back, I'm going to leave the room until things calm down........it comes down to self control and I'm good at that.

Thanks for all the replies.
 
You did the right thing ... "You married your wife not your parent." :)

I've been with my wife 19 years married 12 and we just do not fight or argue.

I told her this when we first started dating - I don't do the silent treatment - not talking - arguing thing ... "at all."

If she doesn't support you - you simply wont be completely happy ... "and that will always disrupt a marriage."

But don't get me wrong - my wife shot me down at first - the next day she understood.

Just get big and sexy - she'll love it! :D
 
I think it depends on the girl, some things are better left unsaid, not telling someone something is not lying if you were never asked. Most woman are very vindictive and use shit like that against us, like every time you get into an argument or get mad about something right away its going to be considered roid rage, when she gets mad she will say things like, at least I am not the drug addict who shoots up everyday, good luck hope she's not like that, my girl knows but its because I do what I want anyway I don't ask for permission I am a grown ass man.
 
what kind of question is that? if your married you shouldnt bodybuild? not everyone works out for girls. sorry bro but you need game to get girls not muscles.

I would take this a step further and say very few workout for the girls, they workout for themselves. At least the one's that go in the gym and workout for real. In other words, the ones that get any respect.
The "glamor pumpers" may have a few of ladies checking them out, but all the real men in the gym are shaking their heads and thinking "what a fag". LOL
 
I would take this a step further and say very few workout for the girls, they workout for themselves. At least the one's that go in the gym and workout for real. In other words, the ones that get any respect.
The "glamor pumpers" may have a few of ladies checking them out, but all the real men in the gym are shaking their heads and thinking "what a fag". LOL

You mean the twits who gel their hair. put on cologne, put on jewelry, curl their lashes, then go lift and only curl/bench?

Damn...I thought they were the top dog pro's....

I had a buddy once who would gel his hair before we lifted...it irritated me...ironically this same guy had an emotional hissy fit and broke off the friendship after about a year just because I told him his mom was right on a subject that she was honestly right in.
 
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