Rich-Myster
Dude
I have no idea if i have the bar placed properly on my back or not. Any pointers?
I rest the bar across my traps, no pads, and as opposed having a wide grip on the bar I keep the hands closer to my shoulder, within reason, to garner a better control of the weight I've placed on the bar. I do not elevate my heels but keep my feet flat on the ground so that I insure that I push through my heels and not toes. If I wish to concentrate on quads more than glutes I change to a Front squat or Zurch Sqaut style of lift. Back always arched and deep breath before decent and huge exhale on the way up.
How much do you weigh? I noticed you're pressing 220 and was curious. If the bar is hurting your shoulder even when you've changed resting it on the lower portion of your traps it's time to add Shrugs and Bar Holds to the routine.
Hey, each to their own. I prefer the towel for comfort, my preference ... just like some people like to wear gloves and others don't ... some people like belts and others don't. Just remember, you are lifting for YOU and nobody else so make the experience your own not what somebody else thinks it should be.
I find when lifting something double my own weight I might as well be comfortable doing it. The extra cushion on my upper back/lats gives a good buffer to my neck so that I'm not thinking about the bar gnawing into my skin but I'm thinking about lifting the weight properly and getting the most from the lift itself.