Told the wife, now need some advice.

[VengeanceX7]

I don't know if this is in the right section or not. Feel free to move it mods. So I told my wife I wanted to do a cycle of test. She was not happy to say the least. Of course she googled it and read all the negative shit the public believes. So I need some advice on what to tell her. I told her I didn't want to keep anything from her and I wasn't going to hide it from her. She gave me that do whatever you want answer, which really means, you better fuckin not. All I want is her support and a little understanding about what this is. She thinks I'm just gonna be horny all the time and then if I don't get sex I'm just gonna get aggressive and rage on her. The only thing I have thought of is to have her watch bigger faster stronger. Any input would be great!

 

[ThaDude007]

Try to educate her. Do a lot of ass kissing. And pray for the best.

 

[BigKevKris]

Bigger faster stronger is a good start. Then inform her about all the men in the world that use testosterone for the rest of thier life and how its perfectly safe. Also that it is the "safest" way to use juice. When my wife found out that one of her friends from high school was on testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) after an accident and he talked to her about it she was on board. She does my pins for me now

 

[Teutonic]

I know secret s are not good.

How long you been married...ya ll fight a lot ? Kids ?

This can and will used against you in a domestic, a family get together headin south or a court of law if thing s go real bad.

Is this gonna be underground gear or prescribed ?

Sorry. I m female phobic when it comes to shit like this..shoulda never let em vote.

 

[VengeanceX7]

I know secret s are not good.

How long you been married...ya ll fight a lot ? Kids ?

This can and will used against you in a domestic, a family get together headin south or a court of law if thing s go real bad.

Is this gonna be underground gear or prescribed ?

Sorry. I m female phobic when it comes to shit like this..shoulda never let em vote.

Only been married 2 years. We have a 1 year old. Underground. We fought a lot during our first year but have been super happy last 8 months at least. Nver fight.

 

[Teutonic]

I m really happy for you then man. Really.

Try to educate her, mind your temper, jerk off a lot if she s not into sexomaniac man, don t become so self absorbed in yourself that you forget to tell her all the things you told her BEFORE you married her.

Good luck.

 

[janmar]

I don't know if this is in the right section or not. Feel free to move it mods. So I told my wife I wanted to do a cycle of test. She was not happy to say the least. Of course she googled it and read all the negative shit the public believes. So I need some advice on what to tell her. I told her I didn't want to keep anything from her and I wasn't going to hide it from her. She gave me that do whatever you want answer, which really means, you better fuckin not. All I want is her support and a little understanding about what this is. She thinks I'm just gonna be horny all the time and then if I don't get sex I'm just gonna get aggressive and rage on her. The only thing I have thought of is to have her watch bigger faster stronger. Any input would be great!

I told my wife when the doc suggested it and she had a diff take then yours. first was like ohhhh nooo as in lock the bed room door. Then she was concerned about my insides. I told her if you abuse it then there is a problem. I do agree that sometimes the wife doesn't need to know everything. I will tell you in addition to my doc prescribed T I do have a stash my wife doesn't know about.

 

[Harnold]

I don't know if this is in the right section or not. Feel free to move it mods. So I told my wife I wanted to do a cycle of test. She was not happy to say the least. Of course she googled it and read all the negative shit the public believes. So I need some advice on what to tell her. I told her I didn't want to keep anything from her and I wasn't going to hide it from her. She gave me that do whatever you want answer, which really means, you better fuckin not. All I want is her support and a little understanding about what this is. She thinks I'm just gonna be horny all the time and then if I don't get sex I'm just gonna get aggressive and rage on her. The only thing I have thought of is to have her watch bigger faster stronger. Any input would be great!

tell her she's right about the riding part, but after you go crazy on her ass the first time she may change her mind...lol
also, you can buy a self pop up tent at the camping stores which should come in handy. I too plan to invest in one. luckily I have a camp, just a little drive away.
I think youre gonna find she's gonna blame any bad moods or everything on the gear, so I wish you the best. just try tobe on your best behavior for the cycle wouldbe my bet advice. best of luck.

 

[sealevel]

My wife was hesitant at first as well. But I showed her this site, all the research I put into it and she was somewhat put at ease. In fact she does my injections for me. I show her all my blood test results and we openly discuss issues, sides, and what I need to be doing to correct the situation. I am hornier than ever however. The overly "aggressive" stuff is just not the typical result. Worst case scenario, I wine, she rolls over and lets me just knock one out. Best wife ever huh? Show your wife the site, show her you have researched and you know what you're doing. It definitely helped in my case.

 

[Big Hungry]

U could also fill her in on how high your natural test was in your teens and now your just getting it back to those levels or wups jus a lil higher. Birth control is hormones too

 

[HDV]

Another key is maybe get some advice from the ladies here, females that are on aas might also be able to help her put her mind at ease. I guess the idea of you being on cycle and her reaction is because she cares for you and doesn't want anything bad to happen to you or your relationship now considering you are both happy at the moment.

You took the first step by not hiding it I think that takes balls. Best thing is to educate her on aas.

Humans in general are always afraid of what they don't know or understand.

I am sure in time she will come around just do yourself a favour and don't block her out the more she feels that you want her support, advice, etc makes her feel appreciated and not just a ride around the kitchen counters when you feeling horny.

As for the aggression I think it's all bullshit! Any person has the ability to make a decision to either react in a positive way or negative way when you feel upset. It's simply how you place your mind at that point.

 

[Big Hungry]

Theres a few threads on this topic, some women hav posted on those. U might be able to find the threads

 

[Matt0071]

who cares what your partner thinks anyways, my gf did the same, tried to give me the " whatever" do u whatever the fuck u wanna do" bullshit line, i just said " OKIE GAME ON THEN" like it or leave it lmao
Make it even better bro, suprise her when she gets home, have the pin stuck in your quad and give her the bird as u inject the juice right infront of her no turning back now hahaha, woman are woman bro, they think they contol everything all the time!

 

[Sir Anabolic]

who cares what your partner thinks anyways, my gf did the same, tried to give me the " whatever" do u whatever the fuck u wanna do" bullshit line, i just said " OKIE GAME ON THEN" like it or leave it lmao
Make it even better bro, suprise her when she gets home, have the pin stuck in your quad and give her the bird as u inject the juice right infront of her no turning back now hahaha, woman are woman bro, they think they contol everything all the time!

I like what you said there. Well put.

 

[Sir Anabolic]

You're the man. Act like it. Do what you want. Don't be like some of these guys I see nowadays who let their women walk all over them and wear the pants. I told my girl from the git go and it's not a democracy. Haha!

 

[jon emberlin]

I don't know if this is in the right section or not. Feel free to move it mods. So I told my wife I wanted to do a cycle of test. She was not happy to say the least. Of course she googled it and read all the negative shit the public believes. So I need some advice on what to tell her. I told her I didn't want to keep anything from her and I wasn't going to hide it from her. She gave me that do whatever you want answer, which really means, you better fuckin not. All I want is her support and a little understanding about what this is. She thinks I'm just gonna be horny all the time and then if I don't get sex I'm just gonna get aggressive and rage on her. The only thing I have thought of is to have her watch bigger faster stronger. Any input would be great!

Put the boots on man!!!

 

[tesseract]

You will be horny as hell after the 5th week. And for me its hard sometimes to control mood swings. I think you should keep it secret and tell her you changed your mind, just my thought.

Worst advice in the history of advices. If you have nothing to lose and hate your significant other, then yes that is good advice, he has a kid probably a house and probably joint accounts and that will be used against him if she ever finds out. Also if you get overly agressive something is wrong with you, either mentally or your estrogen is too high, test is supposed to give you a feeling of well being not turn you into a complete asshole.

Here is how it worked out for me, at one point in my relationship (been with her 4 years now) I was overworked, over educated (too much university) and over trained, btw this is recent, it destroyed my libido completely, to the point that I was just uninterested by sex, myself being an ex nympho and my gf loves sex when that well dried up we went to a doc, explained myself, he did bloodwork, test was low, he talked about testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) but we want children, so we decided to get my sperm frozen and go the underground way, cause in canada they prescribe that shitty gel that you put on your balls and have sticky balls all day and you have to do it every day which is annoying as fuck.

In the end I hope that after this cycle of 15 weeks, I will be able to get my natty levels back to where they were or almost with good post cycle therapy (pct), if not it is testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) for the rest of my life. I guess some guys call that lucky, I call this a tragedy cause there was seriously nothing wrong with me before.

 

[Moppy1]

Worst advice in the history of advices. If you have nothing to lose and hate your significant other, then yes that is good advice, he has a kid probably a house and probably joint accounts and that will be used against him if she ever finds out. Also if you get overly agressive something is wrong with you, either mentally or your estrogen is too high, test is supposed to give you a feeling of well being not turn you into a complete asshole.

Here is how it worked out for me, at one point in my relationship (been with her 4 years now) I was overworked, over educated (too much university) and over trained, btw this is recent, it destroyed my libido completely, to the point that I was just uninterested by sex, myself being an ex nympho and my gf loves sex when that well dried up we went to a doc, explained myself, he did bloodwork, test was low, he talked about testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) but we want children, so we decided to get my sperm frozen and go the underground way, cause in canada they prescribe that shitty gel that you put on your balls and have sticky balls all day and you have to do it every day which is annoying as fuck.

In the end I hope that after this cycle of 15 weeks, I will be able to get my natty levels back to where they were or almost with good post cycle therapy (pct), if not it is testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) for the rest of my life. I guess some guys call that lucky, I call this a tragedy cause there was seriously nothing wrong with me before.

I went the other way around and hid my AAS use from the wife for 5 years, till she found my stash and BLEW UP, flushed or smashed all the stuff. Some 3-4 years later, she still holds it against me as one of our biggest mistrust events. Had to quite cold turkey when she caught me, with a huge crash!!!!! One year later did testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) cause my natural test never came back over 100 (even with lots of PCT). Wife was totally OK with me doing testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) as well, which means she probably would have been more reasonable about the AAS use in the first place. I regret not slowly telling her of my dabblings in the beginning, though she would not have been happy, but I probably could have gradually worked her up to seeing it my way given all the research out there showing its not really that much of a risk to your health, especially with proper monitoring and cycling practices. Anyway, the beg for forgiveness thing did not work for me, and it is a relationship I cherished and still do. Being a man does not mean telling your old lady to just take it, and this is how it will be. Being a good husband (BF) means you are team and have to arrive at such decisions together. But, then again, I lied to her or hid it in the first place, so I failed.

 

[palmers]

tell her its your personal decision and if it doesnt workout (the juice that is) then you will stop.... one cycle, 10-12 weeks wont cause any significant negative impacts. you will get better looking and give her the sex she didnt even know she wanted.... what i did is i laid out my second cycle ( i hid it for the first, my woman also said it was the biggest mistrust blah blah blah) told her how safe they are, told her the side effects that are possible, then told her what i would do incase of each side effects... dont be blunt about it women are hard to convince you gotta throw some scientific words in there too. now my woman totally supports me, she wont pin for me but we play games on "guess what i worked out today" because you will get so big so fast.. my first dbol, test cycle it was basically where do i feel like putting a pound on my body today??? hmmmmm

 

[Dren]

Off topic question here guys, i see alot of you on testosterone replacement therapy (TRT), is it because you did cycles of steroids ? or because you got old ?