What is meant by "healthy" sexual relationship?

[aldredheron]

A healthy sexual relationship is different for every couple because every individual has differing sexual needs. While the activities involved in each sexual relationship can vary widely, in general, “healthy” sex should encompass the following:

* Both partners should feel equally pleased with the activities.
* Neither partner should feel forced into doing something they don’t want to do.
* The right to say “no” to sex at any time, for any reason.
* Mutual respect before and after sex.
* Neither party suffers a loss of self-esteem.
* Trust exists as well as openness about sexual history and current activities.

 

[gorilla_boy]

That's actually a really good post...


Now, let's hear about what an "unhealthy" sexual relationship is. Please be explicit.

 

[Smilee21]

Yes, please describe an "Unhealthy" sexual relationship...

 

[barnzy7]

I dont agree with knowing about your partners past, if he/she has an STD or a disease well yea that should def. be known, but i think most of the time learning about the past makes it worse. i dont want to know about who or what shes done and i know she damn sure doesnt want to hear anything that ive done

 

[stevenmd]

I dont agree with knowing about your partners past, if he/she has an STD or a disease well yea that should def. be known, but i think most of the time learning about the past makes it worse. i dont want to know about who or what shes done and i know she damn sure doesnt want to hear anything that ive done

x2. The whole knowing thing usually derives from organized religion, not that I have anything against that, I believe in God myself.

 

[hard2gain]

One time my gf and I were going at it and I was just worn out from a long ass day at work, then gym, then family shit, then grocery store, then dinner. It ended up being like a 21 hour day on like 3 hours worth of sleep. So a few minutes in I made the dumbest comment I've ever made " I'm just gonna hurry up and cum so I can go to bed"

HOLY SHIT! She was so offended by this I didn't get any for weeks. She said it made her feel so unattractive and boring. I didn't mean it that way I was just super tired but I've never offended a girl that badly before.

This would be an example of an unhealthy sexual relationship.

 

[stevenmd]

One time my gf and I were going at it and I was just worn out from a long ass day at work, then gym, then family shit, then grocery store, then dinner. It ended up being like a 21 hour day on like 3 hours worth of sleep. So a few minutes in I made the dumbest comment I've ever made " I'm just gonna hurry up and cum so I can go to bed"

HOLY SHIT! She was so offended by this I didn't get any for weeks. She said it made her feel so unattractive and boring. I didn't mean it that way I was just super tired but I've never offended a girl that badly before.

This would be an example of an unhealthy sexual relationship.

LMAO! No dude, that would be an example of a stupid comment that we men always seem to make! If you had phrased it right and she still got bent out of shape, then that would probably be an example of an unhealthy relationship.

 

[stevenmd]

But that's hella funny! I can't believe you said that out loud!

 

[barnzy7]

One time my gf and I were going at it and I was just worn out from a long ass day at work, then gym, then family shit, then grocery store, then dinner. It ended up being like a 21 hour day on like 3 hours worth of sleep. So a few minutes in I made the dumbest comment I've ever made " I'm just gonna hurry up and cum so I can go to bed"

HOLY SHIT! She was so offended by this I didn't get any for weeks. She said it made her feel so unattractive and boring. I didn't mean it that way I was just super tired but I've never offended a girl that badly before.

This would be an example of an unhealthy sexual relationship.

haha thats called sticking foot in mouth

 

[barnzy7]

One time my gf and I were going at it and I was just worn out from a long ass day at work, then gym, then family shit, then grocery store, then dinner. It ended up being like a 21 hour day on like 3 hours worth of sleep. So a few minutes in I made the dumbest comment I've ever made " I'm just gonna hurry up and cum so I can go to bed"

HOLY SHIT! She was so offended by this I didn't get any for weeks. She said it made her feel so unattractive and boring. I didn't mean it that way I was just super tired but I've never offended a girl that badly before.

This would be an example of an unhealthy sexual relationship.

think like said before it depends on the girl as well, couple weeks ago we started getting at it, she had to get ready for work so stopped, so she says fine lets go upstairs i have 3 min...literally went balls to walls for maybe 2 min i have no shame, she looks at me and says what the hell was that???

i said i def. remember you saying you only had 3 min..she laughed and that was end of story

 

[Smilee21]

think like said before it depends on the girl as well, couple weeks ago we started getting at it, she had to get ready for work so stopped, so she says fine lets go upstairs i have 3 min...literally went balls to walls for maybe 2 min i have no shame, she looks at me and says what the hell was that???

i said i def. remember you saying you only had 3 min..she laughed and that was end of story

Lol... That's cute

 

[TraPump]

hahaha. funny stuff in here. good post aldren