If you don't use your real name and address, how is your package supposed to get to you? If you receive a package that you have to sign for (which sometimes happens), how will you produce the proper I.D. to pick it up?
I don't really get all the paranoia surrounding ordering AAS. At least in the U.S., the content of mail is still private!
If it makes you feel safer, acquire a private P.O. Box. I do this anyway, so the mailman just doesn't leave a big box of illegal drugs on my front porch! Which has also happened!
Big brother may be watching, but he's not watching all that closely. And frankly, he doesn't really care that much about you.