I got an issue that seems to be causing problems in my relationship.. Since being on Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) my libido is higher then it was and it was high before even with having low t. Now my wifes desire is not as high as mine and its frusterating to say the least..
Is there anything i can suggest to my wife to really boost her libido so we can get on the same page as we used to be???
When were you on the same page and what was different?
In my case, here's a few things that have made this basically a non-issue.
First and foremost, there's been some talk around here regarding the benefits of Cialis for women. Let me just say it works, plain and simple. While I cannot say it significantly altered our frequency, it did significantly improve arousal etc. etc. I would strongly suggest you give that a shot.
Also, even before I got on Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT), I had a pretty strong libido and we were having sex consistently 3-4 times a week, despite being married for over 20 years. There's a ton of information available on this very subject if you have the desire to be a student. I have read 3 or 4 books and each of them provided some good insight.
One good example is a book titled "She Comes First". Sounds kind of gay, but it was a good read. There are a million others like it, but in many cases, increasing a woman's libido is kind of an art form and it is a worthy subject to study.
The other thing that has happened as a result of Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) is my body looks better. Through nutrition, fitness and Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT), my wife is signifcantly more attracted to me. I have noticed recently that during sex her hands are all over my pecs, triceps, back, glutes etc., and I can tell she loves feeling hard muscle. This may or may not apply to you. If you are not muscular or defined yet, start working on it. Add in a nutrition plan and hit the gym.
On several occasions over the last couple weeks after we both cum, I just stay inside her while she feels my glutes etc. What do you think happens???? Yup, she goes again.
I would also make sure that you are realistic about her potential range of frequency versus yours. I don't know what the gap is now for you, but even if she maxes out, it may or may not be at your level. We have a bit of an unspoken expectation that during the week I do whatever I can to help out the wife, but come Friday night it's balls to the wall until sundown on Sunday. Our weekly average hovers around 4-6, which I am ok with and she isn't complaining any either.
Last but not least, does your wife have even the slighest notion that she needs to meet certain expectations to keep you around? Women are genetically mapped to do two things, find a good man and then keep him around. They usually land a good man with sex or sex appeal and keep him around by beating him down until he is competely submissive. While most all married women value loyalty and predicability, it certainly does nothing for their libido because it just isn't attractive.
It's been my experience that if the wife in a marriage never, ever, ever, ever for one fleeting second has the thought that her husband could possibly be out the fucking door if she doesn't give him a reason to stay, then the husband is usually not getting it when and how he likes it.
I apologize if any or all of this does not apply, but like I said, I've studied this shit and that's my advice to you. Research it, learn it, live it and then fuck your wife until she can't do math.....
If she doesn't like it, tell her good luck explaining to all her friends that she left her husband because he was ripped, horny and so attracted to his wife he couldn't stop banging her....
cry me a fucking river!
